This book is a modern urban romance novel: How is steel made? There are many formulas to follow, raw materials must be added in proportion, the temperature must be just right, scraps can be recycled, and steel slag can be sold for money. How is marriage made? There is no formula to follow. If it cannot be saved, there is no room to re-melt it. Even if it is re-melted reluctantly, what comes out will not be the same as before. Happy marriages are all the same, and every unhappy marriage is unhappy in its own way. So, how is a good marriage made?
This book will give the final answer through the emotional experiences of the hero and heroine Xiao Ou and Jiarong.
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I think of my flowery youth back then, so beautiful and desolate, but there was not even a crack to glimpse such happiness! It was not until the age of 42, in the mud of poverty, struggling until the age of 42 that he was mentally and physically exhausted until he reached menopause, that he met an old man flying from the other side of the Atlantic Ocean. However, I have reached menopause and he is also poor. The two of them worked hard for ten years to build a home without worries, but he got cancer. This is real life, not meeting rich people in novels!
The books I read these days are all about the daily lives of urban beauties. It's really difficult to go to work, life at home is difficult, and men are also the same scum. But everyone lives seriously. Give me, a 63-year-old lady, a good education. I also have to live well. Come on.
The second male lead can just hire a live-in nanny to take care of his mother. He is not old yet in his fifties and has enough money to buy two houses. The distance between a bowl of porridge will not affect the marriage. The male and female protagonists have children, and the remarried couple is also happy. The female partners have their own situations, but fortunately they are all transparent.
The novel describes some practical problems faced in marriage. In marriage, the mother-in-law only keeps her son in her heart and hopes that she will be the first person in her son's heart. How to maintain such a relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? After the divorce, many problems such as harassment and suspicion among colleagues, anxiety and pressure from the elders to get married, and being a stepmother when remarrying are all shown in the story. The heroine's friend Sheng Jun's husband is cold-blooded. Especially when he discovered that Sheng Jun was no longer a virgin when they were newly married, he felt that he had been deceived by Sheng Jun's parents. As a result, Sheng Jun was trapped in an ice cave for a long time. Both parties were responsible for the failure of Sheng Jun's marriage. This novel can make people think deeply that entering into marriage is to form a family. The position that each member of the family places on the family is the most important factor that determines whether a family can last long.
In life, marriage is one of the highlights. The Xiaofan in the book is actually extraordinary. From work to marriage, he seems to be a lucky man, but in the end he cannot withstand the impermanence of reality.
Marriage really starts with love, but it does not necessarily end with no love. Instead, there will be other unexpected cross-cutting changes that change the status quo or bring unexpected endings.
Marriage is like shoes, only your feet know whether they are comfortable or not. Whether it's love at first sight or a blind date, it's normal for marriage to be awkward, and treating each other like guests doesn't necessarily mean happiness.
The ending of Xiaofan's marriage and the marriage of his best friend, whether they divorce or not, will ultimately allow the heroine and the readers to grab a drop of wisdom or courage from the experience of joys and sorrows, and move forward with us in and out of the book.
Marriage themes with direct themes are rare! The author uses the heroine's experience of divorce and remarriage, as well as the marital status of the two best friends, to describe the microcosm of the various situations in marriage in an unpretentious and pertinent way! It warns people that the proper nature of marriage is that both men and women are legal partners in addition to being legal partners in the legal sense. The husband and wife are the ones who risk their lives to save one of the partners when they are in trouble, the one who takes care of them when they are sick, the one who never leaves when everyone decides to leave, and the one who is still there without any regrets even if one is miserable and frustrated! …. Of course, grasping the criteria for mate selection before marriage is also key! The benevolent sees benevolence and the wise see wisdom! The author has good intentions! Worth reading!
Marriage requires both parties to work together. When you are young, you don't have enough experience and experience, and your parents' words just pass by as if they are deaf ears. When you get older, you will realize that old age is still hotter. All your choices have to bear the consequences, good or bad.
If you are unhappy in a marriage, you must know how to stop losses in time and don't let the sunk costs increase. You may lack the courage to start over. Rather than being unhappy and unhappy, it is better to live alone and always put your feelings in the present. If you bloom, the breeze will come!
I read it in one breath and left a lingering lingering sound. I like the author's simple yet philosophical language, and I like the three heroines living with good intentions... Kind people will have a good ending... I like the warm ending the author gave...
It looks good, that's what marriage is. Sometimes I look at chicken feathers on the ground, sometimes I look at happiness and contentment. I think running a marriage depends on whether the other person respects you enough. Loving you is important, respecting you is even more important. It's too short and not enough to see.
I was very moved after reading it intermittently. As people say, happy marriages are the same, and unhappy marriages come in all kinds. It all depends on your own choice. This short article is very well written, five stars!
Very pretty. Life is full of different situations, and no one in the story is perfect, but they all perform their own lives.
"Marriage and love are completely different things. Love is passionate, bright, radiant, and the ultimate happiness and pain, but marriage is stable, peaceful, and long-lasting dedication and patience."
1️⃣I have read two of the author's books, they are very interesting and inspiring! The writing is very good! Three married girls are good friends, with three fates, no one is better, only one is more suitable for themselves. A very heart-warming book, not exaggerated or outrageous, but very heart-warming.
2️⃣Yu Xiaofan, who was far away from his hometown and worked as a company employee in Shanghai, met a suitable marriage partner on his way back to his hometown. He was happily married for less than two years. Due to the intervention of his widowed mother-in-law, he couldn't bear the divorce. Her husband's calculations when they separated made Xiaofan feel chilled, but it also encouraged her to be self-reliant and work hard to make money so that she could change companies. A small act of kindness leads to a system of subsequent kindness in return. Dongdong's closeness brought Xie Shaofeng into Xiaofan's life and allowed her to get married again. It is also good for Li Shengjun to get rid of his suffocating marriage and enjoy love. When Lin Baojia meets the right person, marriage and love are great.
3️⃣Category: Ordinary life
4️⃣2025-2-17
Category: Divorce and love
Two details, one is that after Dongdong fell, Xie Shaofeng was anxious and distressed, which made Yu Xiaofan want to quit, but Xie Shaofeng also felt sorry for Yu Xiaofan. In addition, after learning that his ex-wife came back, he was also upset, but he quickly found a way to deal with it, and faced it honestly and together. Love + maturity + reliability, such a man is worth spending the rest of his life with.
No matter what the situation is, it mainly depends on the person. If the person is reliable, he will handle various problems well. If you are a mother's baby, no matter how good you are when you are in love, you will always be a mess later.
A short story about married life, 3 friends, 2 divorced, and only one couple is the original couple. Li Shengjun's couple seems perfect to outsiders, but on the inside they are cold, violent, and indifferent. Yu Xiaofan's couple was defeated by her mother-in-law's interference. Fortunately, they met a good match after the divorce. It is a novel after all. In fact, remarriage depends on luck. It's a good novel. It writes a lot about how to get along in marriage.
Very true story. Xiaofan is lucky🍀.
I read it in one night. The author's writing is smooth and worth reading. The divorced men and women were all hurt to one degree or another. How could Lin Nianping, a sanctimonious hypocrite, get the benefits instead? It made me very angry. Did Xia Yuan negotiate terms with his family for Li Shengjun's divorce? Need to study abroad? Does the family disagree with them being together? He is also an infatuated person, let them get married!
It is very important to marry a sober husband. You must understand that your wife is the most important person after marriage. As soon as you hear that your husband can chat with your mother for half an hour every day, you cannot marry. You are not weaned.
I really like the words in the novel: In the final analysis, marriage is about giving two people a home. The most important reason why a marriage can survive is that both people have this family in their hearts.
Just a little short. A little more detail would be nice.
I have seen an interesting point of view, love is a motive rather than a result. Out of love, two people are willing to give time and energy to maintain the relationship, but it does not mean that love can solve everything. The two people's getting along, exchange of ideas, and collision of opinions are still lessons we need to learn.
I like this kind of reality-themed novels the most. Marriage is about supporting each other and tolerating each other so that it can last forever. Nowadays, children get divorced at the slightest trivial matter, and there are many Rosas who can only share joys and sorrows. This novel truly interprets a happy marriage. It is the fruit of happiness that can only be achieved by the sincerity of both parties. It is worth reading.
Short and exciting, the ending is wonderful, worth watching
Various real-life books on marriage have made it clear that the different love stories of the three heroines reflect the attitudes of different families towards marriage. Good parents will set a good example for their children and love them from generation to generation. It also reflects on the side that true love knows no age, rich or poor. Xiaofan's gold-like qualities and sincere love for his family moved Xie Xiaofeng, and the lovers finally got married. The love affairs of the three friends all have a happy ending.
Good article worth reading
There are many practical problems here. Unmarried sisters must keep their eyes open when choosing a man!
Marriage does not bring security, nor is it a safe. What is important is that a woman can be financially independent and provide herself with protection. What she loves is important!
It's very beautiful. It's rare in reality. Come and have a dream in the book.
The novel is very realistic, and trivial things make up real life. Although the pain points in marriage are heartbreaking, I can't help but want to read on. I like this eloquent writing style!
Very well written! I especially like this kind of people and things that are close to life. The truth will naturally not make people feel false. The description of psychological activities is very delicate and often makes readers feel the same way.
The writing is very detailed, the content is short and concise, and there are no complicated relationships. It is very interesting. I read it in one sitting and still have more to say. It is very interesting.
I think of my flowery youth back then, so beautiful and desolate, but there was not even a crack to glimpse such happiness! It was not until the age of 42, in the mud of poverty, struggling until the age of 42 that he was mentally and physically exhausted until he reached menopause, that he met an old man flying from the other side of the Atlantic Ocean. However, I have reached menopause and he is also poor. The two of them worked hard for ten years to build a home without worries, but he got cancer. This is real life, not meeting rich people in novels!
The books I read these days are all about the daily lives of urban beauties. It's really difficult to go to work, life at home is difficult, and men are also the same scum. But everyone lives seriously. Give me, a 63-year-old lady, a good education. I also have to live well. Come on.
The second male lead can just hire a live-in nanny to take care of his mother. He is not old yet in his fifties and has enough money to buy two houses. The distance between a bowl of porridge will not affect the marriage. The male and female protagonists have children, and the remarried couple is also happy. The female partners have their own situations, but fortunately they are all transparent.
The novel describes some practical problems faced in marriage. In marriage, the mother-in-law only keeps her son in her heart and hopes that she will be the first person in her son's heart. How to maintain such a relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? After the divorce, many problems such as harassment and suspicion among colleagues, anxiety and pressure from the elders to get married, and being a stepmother when remarrying are all shown in the story. The heroine's friend Sheng Jun's husband is cold-blooded. Especially when he discovered that Sheng Jun was no longer a virgin when they were newly married, he felt that he had been deceived by Sheng Jun's parents. As a result, Sheng Jun was trapped in an ice cave for a long time. Both parties were responsible for the failure of Sheng Jun's marriage. This novel can make people think deeply that entering into marriage is to form a family. The position that each member of the family places on the family is the most important factor that determines whether a family can last long.
In life, marriage is one of the highlights. The Xiaofan in the book is actually extraordinary. From work to marriage, he seems to be a lucky man, but in the end he cannot withstand the impermanence of reality. Marriage really starts with love, but it does not necessarily end with no love. Instead, there will be other unexpected cross-cutting changes that change the status quo or bring unexpected endings. Marriage is like shoes, only your feet know whether they are comfortable or not. Whether it's love at first sight or a blind date, it's normal for marriage to be awkward, and treating each other like guests doesn't necessarily mean happiness. The ending of Xiaofan's marriage and the marriage of his best friend, whether they divorce or not, will ultimately allow the heroine and the readers to grab a drop of wisdom or courage from the experience of joys and sorrows, and move forward with us in and out of the book.
Marriage themes with direct themes are rare! The author uses the heroine's experience of divorce and remarriage, as well as the marital status of the two best friends, to describe the microcosm of the various situations in marriage in an unpretentious and pertinent way! It warns people that the proper nature of marriage is that both men and women are legal partners in addition to being legal partners in the legal sense. The husband and wife are the ones who risk their lives to save one of the partners when they are in trouble, the one who takes care of them when they are sick, the one who never leaves when everyone decides to leave, and the one who is still there without any regrets even if one is miserable and frustrated! …. Of course, grasping the criteria for mate selection before marriage is also key! The benevolent sees benevolence and the wise see wisdom! The author has good intentions! Worth reading!
Marriage requires both parties to work together. When you are young, you don't have enough experience and experience, and your parents' words just pass by as if they are deaf ears. When you get older, you will realize that old age is still hotter. All your choices have to bear the consequences, good or bad. If you are unhappy in a marriage, you must know how to stop losses in time and don't let the sunk costs increase. You may lack the courage to start over. Rather than being unhappy and unhappy, it is better to live alone and always put your feelings in the present. If you bloom, the breeze will come!
I read it in one breath and left a lingering lingering sound. I like the author's simple yet philosophical language, and I like the three heroines living with good intentions... Kind people will have a good ending... I like the warm ending the author gave...
It looks good, that's what marriage is. Sometimes I look at chicken feathers on the ground, sometimes I look at happiness and contentment. I think running a marriage depends on whether the other person respects you enough. Loving you is important, respecting you is even more important. It's too short and not enough to see.
I was very moved after reading it intermittently. As people say, happy marriages are the same, and unhappy marriages come in all kinds. It all depends on your own choice. This short article is very well written, five stars!
Very pretty. Life is full of different situations, and no one in the story is perfect, but they all perform their own lives. "Marriage and love are completely different things. Love is passionate, bright, radiant, and the ultimate happiness and pain, but marriage is stable, peaceful, and long-lasting dedication and patience."
1️⃣I have read two of the author's books, they are very interesting and inspiring! The writing is very good! Three married girls are good friends, with three fates, no one is better, only one is more suitable for themselves. A very heart-warming book, not exaggerated or outrageous, but very heart-warming. 2️⃣Yu Xiaofan, who was far away from his hometown and worked as a company employee in Shanghai, met a suitable marriage partner on his way back to his hometown. He was happily married for less than two years. Due to the intervention of his widowed mother-in-law, he couldn't bear the divorce. Her husband's calculations when they separated made Xiaofan feel chilled, but it also encouraged her to be self-reliant and work hard to make money so that she could change companies. A small act of kindness leads to a system of subsequent kindness in return. Dongdong's closeness brought Xie Shaofeng into Xiaofan's life and allowed her to get married again. It is also good for Li Shengjun to get rid of his suffocating marriage and enjoy love. When Lin Baojia meets the right person, marriage and love are great. 3️⃣Category: Ordinary life 4️⃣2025-2-17 Category: Divorce and love
Two details, one is that after Dongdong fell, Xie Shaofeng was anxious and distressed, which made Yu Xiaofan want to quit, but Xie Shaofeng also felt sorry for Yu Xiaofan. In addition, after learning that his ex-wife came back, he was also upset, but he quickly found a way to deal with it, and faced it honestly and together. Love + maturity + reliability, such a man is worth spending the rest of his life with. No matter what the situation is, it mainly depends on the person. If the person is reliable, he will handle various problems well. If you are a mother's baby, no matter how good you are when you are in love, you will always be a mess later.
A short story about married life, 3 friends, 2 divorced, and only one couple is the original couple. Li Shengjun's couple seems perfect to outsiders, but on the inside they are cold, violent, and indifferent. Yu Xiaofan's couple was defeated by her mother-in-law's interference. Fortunately, they met a good match after the divorce. It is a novel after all. In fact, remarriage depends on luck. It's a good novel. It writes a lot about how to get along in marriage.
Very true story. Xiaofan is lucky🍀.
I read it in one night. The author's writing is smooth and worth reading. The divorced men and women were all hurt to one degree or another. How could Lin Nianping, a sanctimonious hypocrite, get the benefits instead? It made me very angry. Did Xia Yuan negotiate terms with his family for Li Shengjun's divorce? Need to study abroad? Does the family disagree with them being together? He is also an infatuated person, let them get married!
It is very important to marry a sober husband. You must understand that your wife is the most important person after marriage. As soon as you hear that your husband can chat with your mother for half an hour every day, you cannot marry. You are not weaned.
I really like the words in the novel: In the final analysis, marriage is about giving two people a home. The most important reason why a marriage can survive is that both people have this family in their hearts.
Just a little short. A little more detail would be nice.
I have seen an interesting point of view, love is a motive rather than a result. Out of love, two people are willing to give time and energy to maintain the relationship, but it does not mean that love can solve everything. The two people's getting along, exchange of ideas, and collision of opinions are still lessons we need to learn.
I like this kind of reality-themed novels the most. Marriage is about supporting each other and tolerating each other so that it can last forever. Nowadays, children get divorced at the slightest trivial matter, and there are many Rosas who can only share joys and sorrows. This novel truly interprets a happy marriage. It is the fruit of happiness that can only be achieved by the sincerity of both parties. It is worth reading.
Short and exciting, the ending is wonderful, worth watching
Various real-life books on marriage have made it clear that the different love stories of the three heroines reflect the attitudes of different families towards marriage. Good parents will set a good example for their children and love them from generation to generation. It also reflects on the side that true love knows no age, rich or poor. Xiaofan's gold-like qualities and sincere love for his family moved Xie Xiaofeng, and the lovers finally got married. The love affairs of the three friends all have a happy ending.
Good article worth reading
There are many practical problems here. Unmarried sisters must keep their eyes open when choosing a man!
Marriage does not bring security, nor is it a safe. What is important is that a woman can be financially independent and provide herself with protection. What she loves is important!
It's very beautiful. It's rare in reality. Come and have a dream in the book.
The novel is very realistic, and trivial things make up real life. Although the pain points in marriage are heartbreaking, I can't help but want to read on. I like this eloquent writing style!
Very well written! I especially like this kind of people and things that are close to life. The truth will naturally not make people feel false. The description of psychological activities is very delicate and often makes readers feel the same way.
The writing is very detailed, the content is short and concise, and there are no complicated relationships. It is very interesting. I read it in one sitting and still have more to say. It is very interesting.