When a Mom Suffers from Alzheimer's Disease: Ten Years of Caregiving Notes

After reading this book, I learned about the course of Alzheimer's disease. In the passage of time, he lost his memory, consciousness, and self-care ability. In the end, he could only rely on the care of his caregiver to survive and bring it into himself. If he was still conscious in the end, it was really painful and embarrassing. Losing the ability to think at this time would be a kind of relief. Taking care of the elderly Alzheimer's is really a difficult and long-lasting thing. The author's persistence for ten years is really admirable. The author's lover's family is even more selfless, which is really rare in this era of caring about personal interests.

Lu Fei's "When a Mother Suffers from Alzheimer's Disease" made me really respect Lu Fei and his wife Tongtong. As a son, Lu Fei was extremely filial and patient, but he still couldn't escape the unavoidable exhaustion and helplessness revealed in the long process of taking care of his mother. This real feeling of powerlessness makes people feel more distressed, and makes it easier to understand the loneliness and pressure that caregivers endure. The existence of Tongtong made me particularly moved. It is really rare to meet such a partner. Her love for Lu Fei does not stop at words, but is reflected in the way she feels sorry for him when he gets up early to cook every day and takes the initiative to share the burden of life for him. Even though life has become a mess due to her mother-in-law's illness, Tongtong still remains sober and determined, thinking hard about the possibilities of the future. What she said particularly struck a chord with me: "Since life is already full of chicken feathers, it's better to let more chicken feathers fall down while you still have energy, face it together, and solve it together." When enduring the grievance of being hated by her mother-in-law, she still chose to stand beside her husband and continue to bear responsibility and support. This novel also made me realize that real "medical treatment" is far more than just a medical issue, but a comprehensive test of time, patience, communication skills, real resources, and even "medical affinity." At first I thought this would be a purely tear-jerking work, but the restraint and calmness shown by the author in the second half made me shed tears and see clearly the difference between "face" and "lizi" in life. Those seemingly trivial cases constantly generated concrete and real pictures in my mind, which also made me understand better: true courage lies in seeing the weight of life clearly and still choosing to bear it head-on.

A very good work, the language is vivid and plain, the writing is delicate, and it is like recounting family life, and it is told eloquently. There is empathy, deep sympathy, and even more insight: no matter what happens, you are lucky to have a lover who understands you. Your lover is your pillar of support, so you must know how to cherish it. When caring for parents who have bad emotions, you should not resist them, but speak out. Let everyone face it together, participate together, and find solutions together, so that you will not get into trouble. Family love is always what we should care about the most, and we should be filial to our parents. As long as we have love in our hearts, there will be sunshine everywhere in our lives. Be grateful, have light in your eyes, don't dwell on the past, don't be afraid of the future, and move forward! …

——Dear friend, if unfortunately there is a long dark time in your life, please remember two points, one is to keep faith, and the other is to keep learning. Faith can support you through darkness, and learning can help you not to be eliminated by society after darkness and achieve a comeback. Kindness, patience and tenacity are the foundation. Be a strong and brave, kind and kind person. Fortunately or unfortunately, except for a small amount of good luck, it's not bad that we are all "paying tuition" and moving forward with a heavy load! There is another sentence that I think is very good: family tradition is the objective environment, and tutoring is subjective behavior. The two complement each other and bring out the best in each other.

Very touching! There is no other book that I can't wait to read in one sitting like this one! Thumbs up for your filial son! It's not easy to take care of a mother suffering from Alzheimer's disease every day for ten years!

I was deeply touched by the author's filial piety and carefulness in taking care of his parents. It can be seen that he is a man with quite stable emotions. I also admire the author's wife. She understands her husband's difficulties, and she doesn't dislike her in-laws who are sick and tormenting. She also doesn't dislike her husband for not making money for a long time, and she doesn't enjoy a normal life with her husband. Such a couple is admirable. I believe that good things are rewarded for good people!

Reading this documentary, what moved me most was my wife and my wife's parents. Four words to describe this family: noble character! The writing is simple, the records are detailed and true, and the care for my mother has been sustained and persevered. It is commendable and it is not easy for my wife. Amazing

The author's writing style is very good, and he tells his personal experience very truly. It attracts readers' interest in reading, and at the same time they also want to know what the development of Alzheimer's disease is like and the difficult process of accompanying patients.

It is a very good documentary novel. Through the author's frank, true and delicate description of his own experience, it truly reproduces the pain of Alzheimer's patients, and also reflects the helplessness, sorrow and struggle of the caregivers. I was deeply attracted by the text. This book can help more people understand Alzheimer's disease and help more people understand their loved ones. Thanks to the author!

Close to the reality of life, since life is already full of chicken feathers, why not let more chicken feathers come and gather them together with a feather duster to dust off the dust in life. Chicken feathers all over the ground don't look good, but a feather duster looks better.

I watched it with fascination, because my mother is also a demented old man. Looking back on every bit of her life, many of them are the same as the author's mother. I went missing, didn't sleep at night, scolded me when I was with him in the hospital, it was so unpleasant that no one in the ward could sleep. Thanks to the author for writing all this out.

Pay tribute to the great writer and filial son Mr. Lu Fei! ! Also pay tribute to Mr. Lu's lover! ! The greatest filial piety in the world is nothing more than that of Mr. Lu! ! While I was deeply moved, I was also thinking about the bloody old age... I was also thinking that if I were a mother, I would never want to delay my child's best ten years. So if you unfortunately suffer from a disease like Alzheimer's disease, should you consider giving up medication and only strengthening nutrition? Of course, human treatment cannot be compared. But when you have a disease that cannot be cured, it cannot be cured with or without treatment. Anyway, if you have regrets, it is better to choose dietary therapy. Mr. Lu wrote a book from his perspective to remind such patients to avoid detours. From my perspective as a mother, I reminded them to strengthen nutrition and exercise. Mr. Lu's simple writing style cannot conceal the touching true feelings! The story grabbed people's hearts from the beginning. Following him and his mother for ten years, his heart was broken into pieces. It wasn't until his mother left that he let out a long and long breath... A house that accumulates good deeds will always be happy! I believe that Mr. Lu's family will be rewarded for their good deeds, and Yu Fu will never be young again! !

I finished reading this book in one go. The whole book feels full of positive energy. The author's ten years of dedication allowed me to see the son's love for his mother. The hardships, pains and tolerance are all touching and admirable. His wife's understanding, support and tolerance are also hard to feel. This book has both practical and social significance, especially today when the aging population in our country is becoming increasingly serious.

It is well written and can give young people a chance to reflect. We must know how to face difficulties.

Looks good and sounds good! It is suitable for people like me who like short and medium stories. It is concise and comprehensive, easy to understand, and the writing style is smooth. It may seem plain but it reveals the conduction of love from the plainness. It is simple and unpretentious and tells us that as long as we have good intentions, we will be rewarded with good things. [Love]

The writing is simple and the content is real and trivial, showing the life of a kind-hearted and sincere person in the most daily life. Who said that now we are all seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, and we all fly away when disaster strikes? Some people live a kind and sincere life. Those who have gained are not alone. Good people always surround themselves with good people, and birds of a feather flock together. Don't be afraid of mispaying kindness, kindness will always meet kindness.

As someone who has taken care of my mother-in-law for more than ten years, I can sympathize with the author's experience. The condition of my elderly family members is better, which is also God's favor for me. I deeply feel that Lu Fei's filial piety is even more difficult. My mother-in-law is a hundred years old, and I am worried about how I will live after she is gone.

The writing is very true. I have a family member who also suffers from the same disease. The difference is that my family is very quiet, they don't make noises, they don't run around, they just don't talk, they like to sleep, they eat when they are given food, and they don't eat when they are not given. I lament that the author's ten years have been so difficult, but I am lucky (should I say lucky) that my family can treat us so kindly. Sometimes I think that this kind of disease may be a good thing for the patients. They no longer need to worry about all the troubles and trivial matters in the world, they only need to worry about whether they are hungry today!

I feel so sorry for you, the author. You are a filial son. Your filial piety moves heaven. Your blessings increase with your age. Your parents-in-law, your wife and daughter will be your blessings. I wish our author all the best and happiness [love] [love] [love] [love] [love] [love]

What you wrote is so good. There are two old people in my family like this.

I have personally experienced that caring for a family member with Alzheimer's disease is a heavy responsibility. Your mother is lucky because she has several sons who are more willing to sacrifice for her than she is.

This is a good book that makes me feel that it is both plain and profound. It tells about the kind of love between father, mother, son, and family members. Some are beautiful and some are difficult. Especially my mother's illness makes me feel the same way. It's nothing to worry about. I hope more readers will read this book.

Real feelings and very well written!

This book is written extremely realistically, and the author's deep insights and sincere emotions about life are revealed between the lines, making people feel as if they are actually there and feeling the same.

Thumbs up for the author! So well written, delicate, shocking, healing and enlightening After listening to it for most of the day, as soon as the time was announced at 12 o'clock, I couldn't wait to continue listening.

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Thumbs up for the author's filial piety

Very real and touching

I feel the same way, thank you!

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