At 55 Years Old, Can't I Get a Marriage Certificate?

It can't be shown like this on TV. A rural woman's marriage to her husband of almost 30 years is in name only, and she lives with another man outside, without any problems. Where will he be buried if he dies? The house was full of chicken feathers, and there were endless worries. Her son scolded her: "Mom, all the bad luck in this family is caused by your unruly behavior as a woman." Which one is more important: life, living, children, family ties, feelings?