Has the Number One Scholar Remembered Yet?

The Male Lead Is Gentle to the Core, but the Female Lead Turns Him into an Obsessive

A Peerlessly Aloof Person Falls from Their Pedestal and Discovers Human Emotions

Ideally something with a Buddhist monk-like male lead. It could be a quick transmigration arc set in that kind of world, or a standalone novel. I’ve read so many stories, but I never get tired of this trope. I really love seeing someone impossibly aloof fall from his pedestal for one person, with his heart and eyes fixed entirely on them.

Recommendations for Ancient or Modern Stories Without a Virgin Couple, for a Change from Reading So Many Stories with Chaste Leads

Ladies, please recommend historical or modern novels where the couple aren't each other's firsts. Completed stories preferred, completed stories! I've read too many books where they are each other's firsts and want a change of pace. Thanks, ladies!