On the stage of life, everyone is pursuing love and longing to be loved. However, true love often begins with self-love. "Only those who love themselves can be loved by others." This work deeply explores the profound connotation and significance of self-love. With delicate writing and vivid stories, it shows the heroine's struggle and growth in the journey of pursuing love and family affection. She once lost herself in love and family affection, blindly pleasing others, but forgetting to care for herself; she bravely faced her own shortcomings and mistakes, and no longer criticized herself. Give yourself some alone time, listen to your inner voice, and meet your needs. Self-love is cultivating your own interests and hobbies, improving your abilities, and making yourself better. Start a new chapter of life full of love and warmth. She gradually understood that only those who love themselves can be loved by others.