
It's Never Life That Gets Better, It's Yourself
好起来的从来都不是生活,而是你自己
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Life Requires Eloquence. Is There Any Book About Learning Eloquence and High Emotional Intelligence in Answering Questions?
I would like to read a book similar to "Tricks to Reply and Develop Good Eloquence".
Study Books
Are there any books that are helpful for studying? Please recommend! ! ! ! ! !
Books for Women to Enhance Their Awareness
I would like to read a book similar to "The Choice of Being a Woman". Books that women should read to improve their awareness, change their thinking, and redeem themselves
It's a Very Healing and Quiet Book to Read.
Have You Ever Read a Book That Made You Want to Study Hard?
Save the children who don't want to study😭
If you're in a bad mood and want to read a healing book, it's best if it contains pictures. Don't blame me for giving you my life. When someone asks for a cure and you are depressed, do you think you are humorous? Why do I have to tear up other people's umbrellas when I don't have one? Please, it's just because I've never had one
A Must Read to Change Yourself
I want to read something similar to "Record of a Change of Destiny". Easy to understand, very good
Books to Improve Your Sense of Chinese Language
I want to read books similar to "The Collection of Lu Xun (21 volumes in total)". I'm looking for books with stories that are more interesting and interesting.
I Am Looking for Books to Improve Myself, Whether It Is About Knowledge or How to Deal with People.
I want to read a book like "Rich People Think Differently from You".
The Book That Saved History and Geography
I want to read a book similar to "A Half-Hour Comic History of China (Five Volumes)". Similar to this
Do You Have Any Articles That Are Close to Life? (The Author Writes Articles with Some Brains)
The male and female protagonists should not be brainless. I hope they can have that kind of pyrotechnic feeling. They don't have to be rich, but the male and female protagonists must not have any big misunderstandings. Shuang Jieshuan Q. I have read books for many years and I feel that many authors write illogically. Alas╯╰
Are There Any Helpful Books for Girls?
Regarding improving appearance, cultivating temperament, being helpful in learning, loving life, and being gentle and healing, is there any type of person that I am asking for?
Are There Any Books That Girls Can Read That Can Improve Their Status?
Misunderstanding That Beauty Is Strong but Miserable in the Eyes of Others
I want to read a book similar to "Ming Ke: Everyone in the same period thought I was a pitiful little boy". This misunderstanding is so cool. Please give me something similar.
Small County Literature Two Men
Are there any two-male protagonist novels about small county towns? Only HE ones are available.



































































This book can be regarded as an electronic best friend. When you are confused, low or even depressed, read a few chapters, and you will feel a sudden enlightenment in your heart. The book mostly uses the expression of some short stories around you, and tells them in a eloquent way without rigid preaching. It makes people feel very friendly and you can see your own shadow in the short stories. There is a tenacious power in the gentle words, as if someone is giving you a "head-on warning" and saying: Stop thinking nonsense. If you keep immersed in the regret of not catching up with the sunset, you will also miss the brilliance of the stars in the sky! I hope our hearts will get better [blowing kiss]
It looks good and is particularly healing. It relieves your inner anxiety and uneasiness. You can better find your current choices. Follow your heart and do what you want to do. Pursue everything that is good and become a better version of yourself. Live up to your time and expectations. Come on 2025
It is a very healing book. I read this book when I had insomnia at night. I learned something from this book. I decided to let myself go and let you go. ① "Using the past to punish yourself now is the greatest sorrow in life." Don't regret what you have done. After all, it is history. Today is a brand new day and a brand new self. You have to look forward, Baozi! ② "Whether you live a beautiful life or not has nothing to do with whether you have a man or not. What it requires is inner abundance." Don't think about those dog men who have broken your heart. We just need to focus on the present and improve ourselves. If you keep adding more weight to yourself, you will attract everything you want. ③ "Financial independence is a girl's greatest confidence. It can give you enough courage when necessary." Yes, financial independence is the basis of a person's life. If you have money, you will have the confidence to leave the place, people and things you don't want to stay, and make money. That's the most important thing! ! ! There are other words not mentioned, but recommended
This is a book full of wisdom and power. It makes us understand that the initiative in life is in our own hands. We must take responsibility for our own lives and actively change ourselves to make our lives better. In this ever-changing world, I hope we can all draw strength from this book, find our own way of life, bravely pursue our dreams, and live a wonderful and unique life.
The content is very full, combined with some examples, it is very thorough and relatable, and at the same time, you can also find some answers. I personally like it very much, and it also makes me calm down and find my own direction. I am very grateful to the author [Love] and hope that every reader can benefit from it and find the answers they want.
This book closely follows the current situation of contemporary young people. The author uses real things happening around him as examples, and uses 6 major themes and 31 topics. It shows us the confusion and helplessness of most people. The whole text is simple and unpretentious, but every word is exquisite and touches people's hearts.
It's close to real life and makes people read with gusto [laughs][laughs]
This book was very touching to read, and it also made me truly realize what I want and how to love myself. We must seize the moment, be the best version of ourselves, and work hard for our heart♥ Come on, we are all the best people
When I chose it, I was attracted by the title. I was a little impatient when I saw the middle part. Maybe the world view is different and you don't really need it, so I was a little impatient. But I finally finished reading it and gained a lot of psychological insights. In fact, this is indeed the case when combined with reality. The author first puts forward the point of view and uses a lot of examples to prove it, which is persuasive.
The stories and truths told in the book can only be pointed out by people who have truly lived and thought seriously. There are many truths. In fact, schools, families and society have not taught us how to think. It is recommended to read. Thank you author. Grateful.
After reading this book, I was very touched. I also saw my own shadow in the short stories of many characters. I understood that life can be slow, do not live in the eyes of others, and seriously feel every moment of the present. A little persistence will also be rewarded. There is nothing in the world, and mediocre people bother themselves. Have a healthy body, an interesting soul, maintain a love for life, cherish the people or things around you, love yourself and live a good life.
After reading this book, I have a firmer plan for the future. Thank you to the author. It is an inspirational and gentle book. I hope more people who are confused, wavering, self-pitying and unable to find their way will read this book. [Top post]
This book is very healing for girls. As an impatient person, I read this book very seriously and patiently, and I almost finished it. I think it is very interesting. There are many stories in this book that attracted me and guided me. Thanks to the author for his hard work on this book, and to every book friend who is reading this book in order to become better. This book brought me a lot of wisdom and allowed my heart to calm down. A rare situation.
This book is relaxing and enjoyable to read. The only thing that impressed me deeply was what the author said about loving yourself: Loving yourself is not narcissism or selfishness, but accepting yourself as you are. There is also a saying about evaluation: a casual word from others will be burned into your heart, and it will become a wound all over your body. When you love yourself, you don't need the world to tell you how to be more beautiful, better, or more attractive. Also, if you place your happiness on others, one day you will collapse due to grievances. "Maverick" is not about flaunting individuality and being different, but about identifying the mountain to climb. There is also this ABC theory, which I have seen in other books, which helps to sort out thinking and find out the key points. Because I myself am a contradictory person, it helps to become clearer.
I like this book. The author does not blindly fill the book with chicken soup, but expresses his thoughts more. He tells us a lot of things with examples. It is very comfortable to read and not boring.
I like it very much. It has healed me. I have been very sad because of my recent breakup in love and my tendency to depression. Reading this book has really gained me a lot and it has made me calm down.
This book really makes people feel that it is a good reading. Whether it is for yourself or for admonishing friends, it is very helpful. It gives people a lot of ideas, thinking changes, etc. When you are in a bad mood, reading this book is also a good choice.
This book uses examples from friends around me to narrate, and some principles and principles of doing things are explained naturally, which made me feel a lot. This is the first book that I couldn't help but want to take notes. I made many marks, especially some words of encouragement, which made me very encouraged and inspired. It is really worth reading.
The content is rich and the sentences are straightforward. It is a book that I like very much!
I really like the writing style, some scenes make people feel really immersive. Many short stories give people different feelings. Different stories tell us that our own feelings and ourselves are the most important and we don't need to deliberately cater to others.
I have excerpted a lot of content. It is very positive and not a chicken soup article. The author writes about many things that he has encountered before. Every time he encounters problems and contradictions, he will instinctively blame himself and think that it is his own problem. While reading the book, I also think about it and think deeply. It is really a troublesome thing. Learn to love yourself a little more every day.
It's a good read. This book uses different short stories to help you better absorb the knowledge of life, let you understand the ABC theory when you are emotionally broken, and give you a clear goal when you are confused. When you feel that you can't persevere or want to give up at work or study, after reading this book you will have better ideas to decide whether to persist or give up. This book made me understand that I need to love myself more, don't be internally conflicted, don't compare, and don't feel like I'm not perfect because of other people's evaluations. We are all unique individuals, and loving yourself and improving yourself is the most important thing in life!
This book is very good. There are many sentences in it that are worth collecting. After reading the whole book, I feel relieved a lot.
You can read it very comfortably and happily. At the same time, you can learn and understand many things. Sometimes in life, you have to let yourself go and live out your own style. The past is the past. Only through experience can you grow. I like this book very much. This book has a lot of life experiences. You can't hesitate in life. Seize the moment and take the current life seriously. I understood many problems while reading. I learned a lot. I like reading.
Don't be impatient, don't be slow, and keep going. Time will give you whatever you want. If you do things in March and April, July and August will have your own answer! Thinking is the problem, doing is the answer!
After reading it, it will be much clearer. The author is also a very clear person~ He uses many small cases to analyze some great wisdom (≧w≦)
Focusing on one's own growth is always the right thing to do, and it will never change; use your subjective initiative to explore more futures, do not stick to prescribed forms, dare to venture and fight, be fearless of external voices, and only listen to your inner thoughts. Come on, I hope everyone who works hard to live can find their own soul utopia.
I think this book is inspiring, and the words and language in it are also very gentle and powerful.
This is a very healing book. I hope I will no longer be confused and hesitant. I hope I will live today. I hope my dreams will come true.
It's very beautiful, I hope I can walk slowly and go my own way.