Confirmation of Birth Intention

The commentary in this book is great, and the ending made me cry. "In the final analysis, human beings are born to want to manipulate others according to their own wishes. The intention to kill and procreate are just expressions of this instinctive desire."

A very short short story. When I saw the title, I fully supported the birth consent system and thought: Yes, we should ask children if they want to be born before letting them into this world. But during the reading process, I realized that children are just embryos, they are not mature souls, or to say the least, no one can accurately make the choice and judgment of "whether they want to live" at any age, because human emotions are complex. Even if you can't choose your birth, you can at least choose your death freely. The birth consent system respects the wishes of the unborn child, but at the same time violates the wishes and body of the mother. Which is more important, the embryo or the woman? In other words, do embryos count as people? Can he get human rights? I think rather than this, let's ensure women's human rights first. If a complete person is not respected, but gives power to a debatable semi-mature "person", it is really putting the cart before the horse. This reminds me of the abortion laws in Europe and the United States. I firmly believe that women have the right to decide the birth or death of the embryo.

Rare science fiction from a female perspective! "Confirmation of birth intention" is a very interesting idea. Rather than clearly expressing his own position, the author is more like providing a sandbox model of natural evolution for this idea to see what kind of things people from different perspectives and positions in society will experience and what kind of position they will have in the general environment of "parents need to obtain the consent of the child to give birth to a child." Therefore, there will be many conflicting positions in the book where "both sides seem to be reasonable." Very interesting, I like it very much

Very good. However, I feel that it is better to ask the fetus about the birth wish with an artificial womb, otherwise it will be too uncomfortable for the mother.

An individual is a fish in a school of fish. If the school of fish swims in the wrong direction, it will suffer a lot of losses. However, if an individual in the group jumps out easily, it will probably end faster than the school of fish. It seems that she is struggling with whether to have a baby or not, but it is really much harder to bear a child who is born against the rules. From the beginning, I felt that inducing labor after nine months of pregnancy was too cruel to the mother. However, in this world view, in addition to being willing to protect the new life, a mother's love for her child also includes being willing to endure more pain of loss, and the loss of dashed hopes. It is really sad.

The setting is very innovative. Most people in today's society who have experienced the pain of their original family may have this thought: "If I could decide my own birth, I would never come into this world." This book is like a portrayal of children's thoughts on birth wishes in our current society. If there really is such a possibility and such a system. Is this really the perfect resolution? However, it is understandable that such a system is not perfect. It is like changing from one kind of ideological confinement to another form. "If it weren't for us, would you be able to come into this world?" → "You chose to be born, you can't blame us." And for the fetuses in the belly, do they really have the consciousness to judge whether this world is worth such a complex issue as whether they choose to be born or not. It seems that the most demanding issue facing our society at the time was marriage. More and more people are unwilling to get married. If this problem is not solved, the birth intention can only be put aside. We can also learn from this book that women are still in an unfair position. The pain of childbirth is borne by women, while men are indifferent or unable to empathize with it. Women are faced with the pain of being separated from their own flesh and blood, but men think that there is nothing so painful about it, and the worst is the thought of having another child? I hope that in the future, marriage laws between men and women will be more tolerant of women, instead of being harsh on women and making it easier for men. Otherwise, forget about having children. Women don't want to get married, so why would they give birth to children?

Great, I understand a little bit. This is not about children, but about parents' love for their children. Do you love your children because you want them, or because of the children themselves? I can't explain my feelings a little bit. She finally chose to cancel the birth because she finally confirmed that she had been pregnant with the child for nine months and wanted her to be born. Then she accepted the child and refused to be born. The legal process is still incomplete. What she can do now is not to let the child be born under a curse (? I don't understand it, it's a curse in the article). The child should be born under a blessing, so she chose to cancel it because she loves the child. In short, it is very special. It seems to resonate a little bit with me, because I am a person who does not wish to be born. My personality is relatively fragile. When I am happy, sad or calm, I will suddenly want to die. Even before going to bed, I will occasionally be elated and hope not to wake up. It is just that I don't want to live. I don't dare to die because I am afraid of pain and an unpleasant death. Life is not meant to live for others, but I don't want to live myself. After all, I still have to muddle along.

Let's talk about the text first. I wrote the entire article in less than 100,000 words. The description of each character and event is not only concise, but also very understandable. The article revolves around the confirmation of birth wishes, but at the end what I want to express is not just the birth wishes, but the love of my parents. The choice made by the protagonist at the end is very difficult to interpret. It may be better to change the angle and read the full text as "removing whether the child has the ability to think, but instead focusing on the love of the parents" to better interpret this work. The brilliance of it lies not in the description of the characters' language and emotions, but in the changes in the protagonist's love for the children through the words. I think this book is suitable for anyone to read. The three views it reveals (leaving aside the contradictions in the confirmation of birth intention), every detail contains the principle of love.

I really like feminist science fiction. Some people question that the focus of feminism is too small and not as grand as the universe and interstellar technology written by male writers. But through their delicate emotional descriptions and in-depth exploration of human nature, they show another dimension of "grandeur". It explores themes such as the awakening of female consciousness, gender equality, and identity, and is related to the common emotional and spiritual world of mankind.

A short and concise science fiction novel from a female perspective, with a very complete world view and thoughtful language. The relationship between the heroine and her wife and the heroine and her sister are also well depicted. Excerpt below: "I think that no system is perfect. No matter which system in any era, it is created by the limited wisdom of human beings. Therefore, as long as human beings are imperfect, no matter what system there is, there must be flaws. When future generations look back on history, they will even find that some of the behaviors of their predecessors were extremely stupid." "Human beings are really fragile creatures. In order to prevent themselves from getting hurt, they will immediately refute opinions that are different from their own, or they will pretend to turn a blind eye and only absorb information that agrees with them." It comes from the original text, full of speculation and portrayal of human nature. You can also read the content of the commentary to understand the different views of people from different perspectives on this matter, which is very interesting.

When I first started watching it, I actually had a doubt about how to confirm that the child was willing to be born. Later, the problem was solved. In fact, it is to use various data to let the child choose whether he wants to be born, but the child has not experienced anything at this time. The tools or experiences that he can use to judge whether he is willing to be born are just a bunch of data. He may even kill his own life just because it is fun. Some people may say that the child is given human rights, but the child also has the right to kill himself after birth. A person's personality will also be affected by the environment. The reaction of the heroine in the book is actually because she has gone through a lot of hardships, but the child is unwilling to be born, and her efforts are all in vain. Therefore, she opposes the regulation of voluntary birth of children, which is completely imposed. So in the end, he chooses to give up the birth of the child, which is his respect for the child's choice. The final choice of the heroine's partner actually reflects the incompleteness of such a system. He still yearns for life, so in the end he chooses to comply with the heroine's opinions.

A good thought-provoking book that revisits the alternative. The right to choose your own birth. Caihua chose to cancel and respect the child's choice (although it is difficult to judge whether this choice is true or false? The random operation of the government? The indifference and painful operation of the doctor? The child's inner choice? Or something else). This kind of respect, I think is what a child needs most.

Birth Will Confirmation, when I first started listening to it, it was so novel and interesting, and it protected the child's personal freedom. But after all, this baby was pregnant for ten months, so it would be so painful to be rejected. Among the flower sisters, one was recognized by the child and successfully gave birth to the child, while the other was rejected. I originally thought that before birth, a child has a basic understanding of the world through the umbilical cord and sounds, and by confirming the surrounding environment, the fetus's basic feelings will prompt him to accept or reject birth. In just a few minutes, it was confirmed that the child did not want to be born. It was difficult not to make the expectant mothers suspicious. But as mentioned in the article, confirmation of birth intention is actually a belief. It tells those who are suffering that you chose to be born by yourself. Maybe there are some beautiful things in this world that attracted you in the first place that you haven't discovered yet. Don't go through this life in vain, and see more of this world. There is no absolutely correct or perfect system, but every system established has some purpose. In the article, because the elder sister did not confirm her birth by herself, her parents always felt guilty towards her, even though she did not feel the pain. So they naturally ignored the sister who was born voluntarily. The sister felt painful about this, but the pain was soothed when she got her birth confirmation, and the dissatisfaction with her parents' favoritism was replaced by understanding little by little. Perhaps this system is designed to allow children to tolerate the unhappiness of life. Even children born of their own free will are not immune to life's blows. My sister finally decided to get rid of the child, not because it would not involve her lover, or because of legal regulations. She once wanted to secretly give birth to a child, and she also suspected that there was something wrong with the doctor, the system, and even society. But in the end, she took away the child, not because of those five words, not because she could not guarantee that she could not give her complete love, but because she loved her, she hoped that she would be born with blessings, not pity or permission. In fact, training for new parents is actually more needed than voluntary birth. As the child grows up, he will gradually forget the memory of the baby. His subsequent life depends on his parents, society, and only a very small part depends on himself. Because many times, there seem to be dead ends behind some options, and some are even innately unable to reach the threshold. A considerable number of fathers in the article are full of expectations for the birth of their children but do not pay attention to it. Even the important moment of the desired birth, the first important decision made in the child's life, they do not need to be with the frightened pregnant mother. Maybe there is no need to instruct them too much on how to take care of them, or how much nutrition they should consume every day, but if there is a simulator to simulate how different possibilities their lives will be under different parents, it may make them pay more attention to their children and pay more attention to them.

A very shocking book. As the plot developed, I kept swinging back and forth between supporting birth intention testing and not supporting it. For fetuses, do they really understand the meaning of these tests? Which one is more important, pain or beauty in life? As a human being who has not received a birth intention test, when I suffered, I also hated my mother and father for bringing me into this world because they did not love me. If there was a birth intention test, I would definitely choose to refuse the birth of a fetus that was not expected to be born. But there are so many beautiful things in life that make me miss them, so I still haven't chosen to leave them. Although some of the things that hold me back are fears of death and pain, there is always a lot of reluctance to let go of this terrible world. But, but. If birth intention testing were to be introduced now, I would support it. This world is no longer suitable for most human beings to survive. I hate the world and cannot let my children endure the same pain. I highly recommend everyone to read this book. After reading it, you will have new thoughts about life.

Wuwu This is a sci-fi reality novel from a female perspective. It explores the future human rights bill and the advancement of technology to the extent that it can confirm whether a fetus is born. The heroine and her lover are full of expectations but finally undergo the process of canceling the birth surgery. Every point of view and story has a shining point. I really like this kind of writing, even though there are obvious Japanese grammar habits that make it a bit sluggish for me to read (because I know a little Japanese but not much and can't read the original work, so when I read the translation, I will think about how the original text should be written [laughing and crying]) The love between the heroine and his wife is very touching. They are united but different, and (except for hormone control) they have a resonance of ideas and souls. This kind of love can even gain the upper hand in the battle between hormones, labor, and the selfishness of human nature. If I think about it in another place, I will never make the same judgment as the heroine. The emotions between the heroine and her sister are also very touching. From the perspective of the heroine, the sister and the eccentric parents have really caused very painful memories. , Even made me decide that the heroine's sister is very disgusting and hateful (the heroine's sister completely provoked her sister when she was young, and cried out in pain to gain attention). When I read her sister's letter, I thought that the fault should have been the parents. It was the parents who took away the ownership of the toys in the toy trial, and it was the parents who only comforted my sister, but I completely ignored them, just like the heroine did not long for the love of her mother and father. The quarrel that broke out before the ending of the heroine is really the most painful thing that can only be stabbed by the closest people. They can continue to love each other after they have overcome this. They are indeed mature married people in society. It was so absorbing that I read it without any interruption. I felt like I was back in middle school when I was reading mystery novels, and that feeling of not letting go of the book. This feeling made me know that I have not lost my ability to appreciate beauty.

Women's unique experience can only be understood by women. I especially want to praise my feelings, which are particularly delicate. The relationship between the heroine and her wife is as natural as the rain falling in that place or the wind picking up the fallen leaves. Women are natural allies, and the relationship between mother and child is also very thought-provoking. One sentence that made me think about is that if you do something with recognition and acceptance from the beginning, you will not be discouraged even if you fail, because it is your own choice.

This science fiction is really good. It discusses some social phenomena and thoughts on the system from a female perspective. It cannot be said to be perfect, but everyone is working hard to explore this aspect.

It is in line with the Japanese thinking about life and death. Japan has the highest suicide rate in the country. It is no wonder that they would write such novels to imagine that it would be great if the wishes could be confirmed before birth, so that there would be one less reason to commit suicide. And those who are misanthropic before birth should simply not come to this world, lest they commit suicide later or even harm their parents and relatives before committing suicide (euthanasia in the article). Life is actually a suffering, and dying is actually easier than living. Confirming good intentions before birth actually gives people a reason to live. The reason for many people to live is not how happy I live, but that although living is very tiring, I have to live for my parents, my wife and children, and I have to live for others. But with this confirmation of will, you will feel that people ultimately live for themselves. If people only live for themselves, sometimes they will feel "it doesn't matter whether they live or not." When you have such thoughts, you are prone to suicidal tendencies. However, with this confirmation of intention, it gives us a reason to live - I want to come to this world to experience life myself. Even if it is boring, I can just live like this. I can seek death at any time, so it is better to let death come to me.

The general background of the article is very reasonable. Although it is not comprehensive and mature in some places, the true exploration of people's inner thoughts and the thinking about life freedom are very novel and bold. The characters are also relatively full and real. Overall, it is a very good novel.

(You cannot become a legal parent without passing the child assessment) The more people clamor for conforming to nature and respecting life, the more unable they are to live without modern civilization, and the more they want to impose their desires on others. In order to give birth to life, women literally sacrifice their bodies and devote themselves wholeheartedly. But for men, there is always something else hanging on the other end of the scale. Human beings are really fragile creatures. In order to prevent themselves from getting hurt, they will immediately refute opinions that are different from their own, or they will pretend to turn a blind eye and only absorb information that agrees with them. At this moment, countless lives are still being born in the world. This is the supreme hope.

If I were allowed to choose now, I would choose not to have been born. Some of the content in it is quite reasonable. The various concepts of mother and father, one's own health status, the overall social environment, etc. These factors will really have a great impact on a person's life. Giving birth to a life will have a great impact on her/ He is responsible. Too many people have thought nothing of it and have children just because of their age and traditional concepts. Fortunately, more and more people are willing to consider these things now. Maybe there will never be a birth-will surgery like in the book in reality, but there should be more and more children who are really born because of hope and love.

Great writing. The perspective of the story is developed by the heroine Caihua, who wrote a setting about "birth intention". I personally think that if the data is accurate, this system is not bad. The only bad thing is the pregnant women who have put in the most effort. (Contains spoilers below) The ending is that Caihua complied with the child's wishes and gave up the birth, and her lover also accompanied her, and was even willing to violate the system and become a criminal together, unlike other irresponsible fathers in the article. This may also be the reason why other people's children are unwilling to be born, and they also decided to have the next pregnancy surgery themselves. So the ending seems not that difficult to accept. If the father in the article was like other fathers who slipped up at critical moments (actually because he didn't want to take responsibility), he probably wouldn't feel good about it.

Embedded in the pages discussing human rights is the undertone of love. There may be no real fairness in the world, but please believe that the first thing a mother does when she wakes up after giving birth is to look at her child. Love is really a magical thing🙏🏻

This subject is very new. The feeling of the whole novel is relatively gentle, but very powerful. It reminds me of a movie "Suffragette" (it reminds me of haha for no reason) The social setting of the entire book is very thought-provoking. The ending also made me feel very comfortable. The two heroines put down their obsessions and think about each other and their children. Finally choose to follow the child's wishes [send heart] It also made me want to understand a truth. Whether a thing is correct or not is not that important. There is no absolute right or wrong in the world. What matters is whether you believe it or not.

A very delicate book. Human beings are such strange creatures. They promote freedom, equality, and human rights, and all intentions are to respect people. However, when the correct purpose falls on the "incorrect" individual, it often brings unbearable pain. However, respecting the wishes of the fetus will harm the mental and psychological health of the mother, which should also be taken into consideration. Just like the current abortion laws, before the fetus is born, should its rights override the mother's personal rights? The experience of the sisters brought me more feelings of empathy. It is difficult to empathize if you are not in the same position. Not to mention different genders, even the same gender will have completely different views on the same thing if they have experienced different things. To achieve complete equality and complete respect, it has always been ideal. But love can tolerate differences in cognition, just like "I" and Kaori, it's such an enviable relationship.

It's a very interesting book. After reading it, I let out a long breath and thanked the author for being so generous and allowing the young couple to spend some time together [crying]

It's a short story, I guess it's science fiction. It's obviously only the fifth chapter, but it's quite long. At least I read it longer than expected. I originally wanted to read it in one sitting in the evening, but ended up staying up late anyway. Maybe it's because I was thinking while reading it, and I couldn't help but comment [face covering] Previous The plot has conflicts that make people feel nervous. People who have read too many novels can also sense the ending of the heroine's child from the atmosphere. The second half is a profound analysis of the story setting, so there is no need to rush to think about the quarrel. The person who published the book already has the thinking results for your reference. The writing style is also very good, making people feel ups and downs, empathizing with the protagonist and supporting characters, one by one, and the description of the matching environment is also appropriate. The ending is sublime and logical, open and warm, making people emerge from the haze just like the heroine. In addition to the two control groups, this book actually mainly uses the change of the protagonist's concept to show us different perspectives.

I cried when I saw it at the end. I persisted for so long. I had a big fight with my lover about it. I had a cold war for a while. I wandered in confusion and finally chose to cancel it. This... Is indeed unfair. No matter what, it is women who suffer. Women are pregnant and have a birth certificate, and they were already 9 months pregnant at that time. I think people who have never experienced it probably really can't fully feel the pain, and even if they can, they can't reach 100%. It would be nice to improve in the future. I saw a book friend saying that it would be better if it could be done a few months earlier. I also thought so. In that way, even if it is still cruel, it will not add a few months to the relationship, and it will not cause serious damage. It happened to be nine months, the day when the pregnancy was about to end and the baby was welcomed. Regarding Caiya, I don't know what to say. Congenital disease is an obvious question, and the answer is to shed it. If it is the appearance, it will be ridiculed. If it is the body, it will be a time bomb. If it were born, it would probably be a bad thing.

It's precisely because it's so right that it feels like there's no way out.

The concept of "birth intention" is very novel. It is a hospital that guarantees whether a baby decides to come into this world before he is born. However, the physical damage of a child who refuses to be born is also an important issue when the child is 8 or even 9 months old in the mother's womb and the mother undergoes birth cancellation surgery.