People with a young mental age hope that everyone will respond to their requests, hope that everyone will obey themselves, and hope that everyone will love themselves... When they are not satisfied, they will complain, become anxious, and even be depressed. "Second Growth" allows us to have adult bodies and adult minds through five growth stages, seventeen inner defects and nineteen method toolboxes.
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Read on 2024.11.16
The ultimate mission of a person's life is to find himself. No matter what stage of your life you are at, growth is a lifelong issue. This book starts from the perspective of childhood. If the sense of lack in childhood is not solved in childhood, then one will still look for a solution when he grows up. People will meet all kinds of people in their lives, but they must learn to be self-consistent at any time, learn to forgive the weak self, learn to accept the inferior self, learn to appreciate the brave self, and learn to worship the excellent self. There are many small tests in this book that reflect your own problems. If you don't look at yourself objectively, then take the test seriously to see what aspects of you still need to grow. Of course, there are many solutions mentioned, such as learning to attribute correctly. If this thing is achieved through a lot of your efforts, then attribute it inwardly. If it was successful by chance, attribute it outward. Human growth can either be obtained from the outside or sought within. I think looking inward is a powerful way to better yourself. Therefore, throughout your life, becoming a better self on the road of growth is the best gift you can give yourself. I hope that everyone in front of the screen will also love themselves with all their heart, learn to be self-consistent, and regard their ever-stronger selves as the best gift to themselves! Passion![Blow a kiss][Blow a kiss][Blow a kiss]
I have known about this book for a long time, but I have never read it because I read it by chance. My only feeling is that I am lucky to have read it. Thank you for encountering this book. Through this book, the author not only tells us about the psychological problems we may have, but also provides solutions. I think this is a practical book that will always stay with us and make us slowly get better. (Don't be anxious when doing what the author says. This is a step-by-step process.) I will slowly follow the above, and hope it will get better.
It's very useful. After reading this book, I learned that my current personality was caused by some small things when I was young. I also learned about the wrong education methods of my parents, and I will avoid these wrong education methods when I become a parent in the future. Thank you very much for this book, it has been of great help to me.
The reasons are found and methods are also given. Whether you can grow depends on whether you can have the patience to implement the methods.
"Adults are actually children cloaked in maturity. Things we didn't get when we were children will take another form and follow us as we grow up."
This book gave me a clearer understanding of "self-growth". The "toolbox" after each chapter is effective in repairing and mending "self-growth".
"Self-growth" requires lifelong practice, so this book requires frequent "review of the past and learning the new."
The writing style of this book is very down-to-earth, and the author makes it easier for readers to relate to him by sharing his own experiences and stories. The content is also very practical, providing many specific methods and tools to help us repair our inner shortcomings and achieve secondary growth. As the book says, reading paper books is a way to slow down and organize your thoughts. I also hope to understand myself better and become a better version of myself through this book.
I finished reading it in a hurry. After all, I only have a three-day membership. My purpose in reading this book was just to show off to myself. Look, I am not just someone who can read novels. I also want to save myself. I can also read books on psychology, which makes me really awesome. Hahaha
It is well-founded and most of the examples are like replays of my life. I finally understand why children are used to throwing things around at home but not waiting outside. Looking back at myself, um~ I suddenly realized that I have been learning to repair myself and grow up in the past few years, hahaha, I am still great. This is a very good self-growth guide book, worth reading, and of course, practicing.
Well enough. . The one star deducted may be due to self-absorption. Many times during the process, I felt that it was not suitable for beginners to read. . The truth is correct, the tool. . That's just my opinion. Completed on August 25, 2025
You may have seen recommendations on other platforms and have high expectations. If you find it calmly, it may be a different feeling. So it is now.
Really realize that any emotion is normal, and also know the symptoms of your own growth experience, how to improve it, and grow step by step with your imperfect self. Learn to accept your own shortcomings and change yourself little by little. Thank you again for the author's well-written book, which is very helpful [love] [love] [love] [like] [like] [like] [like]
This is a very good book, which has improved my personality and made my core more stable. Thank you to the author.
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Are you okay? Let's take a moment
Did you do the question? I got 67 points
A self-healing of the soul. Understanding oneself is a required course in life.
The useful and practical information made me see the confusing problems that have been buried in my heart for many years.
There are many viewpoints in the book that I have never seen in daily life. And you can see your own shadow in the book, lonely and helpless.
A very good introductory book on psychology, it clearly labels the life problems that you cannot define.
It helps a lot, thank you (🙏ˊᗜˋ*)
Helpful and clearly described
Helpful, great value
A very good parenting book
Meow (meow meow meow meow meow meow)
Gather those who can't find security in themselves
People who are suffering from internal friction should read more.
A very practical book
It can help many people re-understand themselves
It broke my existing knowledge, that's all.
Everyone who has grown up can listen to it and educate yourself again.
Very good, I will continue to study other psychology books
Read on 2024.11.16 The ultimate mission of a person's life is to find himself. No matter what stage of your life you are at, growth is a lifelong issue. This book starts from the perspective of childhood. If the sense of lack in childhood is not solved in childhood, then one will still look for a solution when he grows up. People will meet all kinds of people in their lives, but they must learn to be self-consistent at any time, learn to forgive the weak self, learn to accept the inferior self, learn to appreciate the brave self, and learn to worship the excellent self. There are many small tests in this book that reflect your own problems. If you don't look at yourself objectively, then take the test seriously to see what aspects of you still need to grow. Of course, there are many solutions mentioned, such as learning to attribute correctly. If this thing is achieved through a lot of your efforts, then attribute it inwardly. If it was successful by chance, attribute it outward. Human growth can either be obtained from the outside or sought within. I think looking inward is a powerful way to better yourself. Therefore, throughout your life, becoming a better self on the road of growth is the best gift you can give yourself. I hope that everyone in front of the screen will also love themselves with all their heart, learn to be self-consistent, and regard their ever-stronger selves as the best gift to themselves! Passion![Blow a kiss][Blow a kiss][Blow a kiss]
I have known about this book for a long time, but I have never read it because I read it by chance. My only feeling is that I am lucky to have read it. Thank you for encountering this book. Through this book, the author not only tells us about the psychological problems we may have, but also provides solutions. I think this is a practical book that will always stay with us and make us slowly get better. (Don't be anxious when doing what the author says. This is a step-by-step process.) I will slowly follow the above, and hope it will get better.
It's very useful. After reading this book, I learned that my current personality was caused by some small things when I was young. I also learned about the wrong education methods of my parents, and I will avoid these wrong education methods when I become a parent in the future. Thank you very much for this book, it has been of great help to me.
The reasons are found and methods are also given. Whether you can grow depends on whether you can have the patience to implement the methods.
"Adults are actually children cloaked in maturity. Things we didn't get when we were children will take another form and follow us as we grow up." This book gave me a clearer understanding of "self-growth". The "toolbox" after each chapter is effective in repairing and mending "self-growth". "Self-growth" requires lifelong practice, so this book requires frequent "review of the past and learning the new."
The writing style of this book is very down-to-earth, and the author makes it easier for readers to relate to him by sharing his own experiences and stories. The content is also very practical, providing many specific methods and tools to help us repair our inner shortcomings and achieve secondary growth. As the book says, reading paper books is a way to slow down and organize your thoughts. I also hope to understand myself better and become a better version of myself through this book.
I finished reading it in a hurry. After all, I only have a three-day membership. My purpose in reading this book was just to show off to myself. Look, I am not just someone who can read novels. I also want to save myself. I can also read books on psychology, which makes me really awesome. Hahaha
It is well-founded and most of the examples are like replays of my life. I finally understand why children are used to throwing things around at home but not waiting outside. Looking back at myself, um~ I suddenly realized that I have been learning to repair myself and grow up in the past few years, hahaha, I am still great. This is a very good self-growth guide book, worth reading, and of course, practicing.
Well enough. . The one star deducted may be due to self-absorption. Many times during the process, I felt that it was not suitable for beginners to read. . The truth is correct, the tool. . That's just my opinion. Completed on August 25, 2025 You may have seen recommendations on other platforms and have high expectations. If you find it calmly, it may be a different feeling. So it is now.
Really realize that any emotion is normal, and also know the symptoms of your own growth experience, how to improve it, and grow step by step with your imperfect self. Learn to accept your own shortcomings and change yourself little by little. Thank you again for the author's well-written book, which is very helpful [love] [love] [love] [like] [like] [like] [like]
This is a very good book, which has improved my personality and made my core more stable. Thank you to the author.
Lived again
Are you okay? Let's take a moment
Did you do the question? I got 67 points
A self-healing of the soul. Understanding oneself is a required course in life.
The useful and practical information made me see the confusing problems that have been buried in my heart for many years.
There are many viewpoints in the book that I have never seen in daily life. And you can see your own shadow in the book, lonely and helpless.
A very good introductory book on psychology, it clearly labels the life problems that you cannot define.
It helps a lot, thank you (🙏ˊᗜˋ*)
Helpful and clearly described
Helpful, great value
A very good parenting book
Meow (meow meow meow meow meow meow)
Gather those who can't find security in themselves
People who are suffering from internal friction should read more.
A very practical book
It can help many people re-understand themselves
It broke my existing knowledge, that's all.
Everyone who has grown up can listen to it and educate yourself again.
Very good, I will continue to study other psychology books