
God, I Don't Want to Marry a Chaoshan Person
天啊,我不要嫁给潮汕人
- Status
- Completed
- Length
- 457k Words
- Genre
- Modern Romance
- Subgenre
- Workplace & Marriage
- Audience
- Female
- Updated
- 1y ago
- Source
- Fanqie
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3.3kReads
8.1Score
224Shelves
417Chapters
382Listens
170.6kReads · all time
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I Hope the Theme of Marriage Is Realistic and Not Too Unreal. It Doesn't Have to Be Too Sweet
In daily life, the true view of marriage, husband and wife working together, marital conflicts, career, family, children, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships. Strive to be real, don't want the love of a wealthy family, it's too vain
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I'm Looking for Hong Kong Language. I Really Like the Male Protagonist Speaking Cantonese.
I want to read a book like "Tonight, It Rains on Hong Kong Island". .
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Are There Any Romantic Novels That Are More Realistic, Not About Ceos?
You can also write about the pain of youth, like "Youth is a hasty book" by Fu Seoul
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Are There Any Novels That Are More Realistic, Novels That Are Close to the Lives of Ordinary People?
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I Want to Read Normal Urban Literature
Any subject matter is acceptable, but it must have normal logic
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The author writes very realistically about the ups and downs in the marriage market. After college students leave campus and are severely beaten by reality, they become selfish, inferior, and confused about life. They also have the motivation to adjust their goals and move on after recognizing the current situation. Although the heroine was subjected to unlimited demands from her parents and younger brother in the early stage, she still helped her younger brother buy a house, get married and start a family. The male protagonist pays more to the female protagonist than the female protagonist, resists family opposition, gives up his current life, returns to his hometown to inherit the family business, helps the female protagonist's brother buy a house, and gets married and starts a family. As a beautiful and knowledgeable woman, the heroine can return to Chaoshan to start a business for the hero, serve her mother-in-law, take care of the family, and strongly support her husband's career. Moreover, the male protagonist's family relationship is very harmonious, and his sister-in-law is also very reasonable. After marriage, the male protagonist and the female protagonist work together. Although there are ups and downs in their childhood, overall they are still prosperous. Although the heroine's family is starting to lag behind, the heroine's diligent, kind-hearted character, and understanding and patience will greatly help the hero's family and career. The article describes the Chaoshan people's pursuit of food, tea culture and customs, as well as the inheritance of traditional Chinese culture. It makes me feel that the years in Chaoshan are peaceful and peaceful, and I have the opportunity to go shopping in Chaoshan.
When I first watched it, I thought the heroine was too unlikable, but as I watched it, I became attracted to it. Although the heroine has flaws, I gradually understand her as I read. I want the heroine to be with my current girlfriend, and I also want to see how the story will develop in the author's writing. This is the first time I've seen a novel with this theme. I like it! Big cheers for the author!
Love watching. This is my first time watching this type of movie. I like it😘 Update soon [Blowing kiss][Flowing kiss][Flowing kiss] Can the heroine be better written? I am really speechless. Every time I think she can do it, she is tied to her blood-sucking parents. Reading the novel makes me feel uncomfortable😣
Looking forward to more exciting chapters, such as the heroine's awakening to her original family, drawing a clear line, and then becoming obsessed with making money. [Blowing kiss] Is the heroine a Fu Di Mo? Instead of using her own salary to support her, she should use her husband's money or her parents-in-law's money to support her? It was so suffocating to watch. If she continues to help, the heroine will not only have to spend money for her parents, but also her brother, sister-in-law, and children, and support her mother's family by herself. [Laughing awkwardly][Laughing awkwardly] When will it be reversed? Ah, it's so painful for me to see [I'm about to cry]
Works with distinct regional characteristics can well reflect local customs and sentiments. Chaoshan culture is obviously very traditional, but it also has contemporary features. Their marriage and funeral habits reflect ancient customs. This book describes life very objectively, without beautification or exaggeration. Life is actually made up of countless trivial things. It would be great if you can get one or two tenths of it according to your wishes. If you like the author, you must be from Chaoshan. It can be seen that although you don't like some of the rules in your hometown, you still love your hometown very much. Come on!
It looks good, too realistic, hahaha. It gives me a curious feeling. The love between a Jiangxi woman and a Chaoshan man is indeed too difficult [laughing and crying] Suddenly it feels like me (Anhui) and my partner (Inner Mongolia) are in different regions and have different marriage customs. The small conflicts between the two families are as trivial as farts [laughing and crying]
This book is surprising. Tomato has such a high-quality book. It writes very realistically about the love between best friends, classmates, brothers, different customs and habits, and different families. It is a true portrayal of the times and can trigger thinking among young people who are in love, looking for a partner, and preparing to get married. The character creation is diverse. It makes people unable to stop watching, and even resonates with them.
It's really good to watch. Many readers will feel upset when they first read it, but I think they can completely understand some of the characters' repeated thoughts, whether it's the dark side or the sunny side, because people themselves are fickle, like to care about gains and losses, and care about whether what they pay is worth it. Many of the characters in the book are impressive, and they are not a single image, but complex and changeable, and very consistent with human nature. The finale was a happy ending, which was so touching that I even shed tears after watching it. Finally, highly recommended! ! !
At first, the first fifty chapters were very heart-wrenching to read. The running-in of the two families and the interests involved in the marriage relationship of the two young people were written thoroughly. The encounters of each protagonist can make people reflect on their own lives. The customs in different regions are written in a bloody way. The plot is not procrastinating. It is a very interesting book. Girls who are married or not must read it more. When I read the previous chapter, I felt that the plot was a bit depressing because it was too close to reality. Fortunately, it has a happy ending. It is a very interesting book and very worthy of repeated reading by unmarried girls! ! !
Actually, I feel that this rating should not be only 6.9. It is too realistic and real. It makes people's heads hurt when watching it. I really don't like to support my younger brother. I can support myself on the wall. Needless to say, I am self-motivated. After watching the bottomless pit, I feel that it will cause breast hyperplasia. Fortunately, in the later period, I met a second-married daughter-in-law who has a relatively right outlook on life. I can understand it after reading the author's remarks. I really almost gave up. My head was buzzing after reading it. I was so angry that my nose became clear from a cold.
It is a very realistic book. The male and female protagonists are not the perfect characters without any shortcomings in the previous novels. They have dark sides, calculations, and all kinds of shady little thoughts. They are ordinary people with some beauty and conditions in real life. It is frowned upon at first, but it does have some advantages that have changed. It is interesting to read this kind of novel for the first time on Tomato.
This is one of the few I've finished watching. The author is very accurate in writing the male protagonist. As a Chaoshan man in the new era, this is indeed the case. The hero's father is from the older generation of Chaoshan people and is very real. The heroine, as a college girl from out of town, integrates into Chaoshan culture. Vividly describe the local culture of Chaoshan in various time periods. The characteristics of each character are also very accurate. Thumbs up to the author! Come on! I hope to continue writing about Chaoshan male protagonists
It's great. I feel like it will be great to make into a TV series.
This book is very down-to-earth and worth reading. I feel like I haven't read enough before it ends. I couldn't put it down after reading it. I really like the male and female protagonists in this book, and I like the female protagonist's best friend even more. I hope the author will continue writing. I really hope that my third child will be a daughter.
As a girl from Jiangxi, I feel a little sorry for the male protagonist. He is really a very outstanding and caring boy.
After reading it, I discovered that it was the author of another novel that I had read The writing is very good and delicate. At the beginning, many people will feel that the heroine is very bad in all aspects and hope to change the heroine. Later, you can appreciate the reasons why the male protagonist chooses the female protagonist. First of all, the female protagonist's appearance matches the male protagonist's aesthetics. Although she has many small thoughts, she is essentially a very kind person. A gentleman does not care about his heart, and she will accompany Siqi to help her when she needs her. Of course, Siqi is also a very good person. Although they both have their own little thoughts, they are essentially very good people who will attract each other and become friends. Although the heroine decided to change her life through marriage, she still had a strong sense of boundaries before confirming the relationship. She was more like a person in real life than a perfect heroine. I hope everyone won't be dissuaded by the heroine's early selfishness.
I give it five stars and read this book without skipping an episode! The male protagonist has a very charming personality! He is the perfect husband in the minds of most ordinary women! Good looks, high IQ, and respect for women! But the portrayal of the heroine is flawed! Unlike a highly educated woman who has seen the world, her family has abused her thousands of times, but she loves her family without regret! In ancient times, she would probably sell herself to a brothel for her younger brother. Of course, each supporting role is also very unique, and there is no need to vilify it! For example, the role of senior brother is very fulfilling! The heroine is his former Bai Yueguang, but he is very rational and knows that he cannot afford to marry a girl from Jiangxi!
I have read it twice. It is real and multi-faceted. People will change. From the beginning to the marriage, the heroine and the hero have multiple dimensions and many ups and downs. They finally gain happiness and a wonderful marriage. First, it is the right choice. Secondly, it is also a matter of careful management. When entering the marriage, do not forget the original intention. Beautiful women are easy to come by, and a happy and harmonious family is rare. It requires wisdom, compromise, and love.
It was my first time to write a book review. To be honest, when I read a third of the book, I was annoyed by the heroine's entanglement and weighing the pros and cons, as well as the lion in the family. I even left a message for the author's baby at that time. I didn't expect to get a reply. Hahahaha. Fortunately, I didn't abandon the book. This book is very real. It was only later that I realized that some of the heroine's early irrational behaviors were for a reason. The heroine was born in a patriarchal family. In a family that values girls, her parents can't give her much support and even drag her down in the marriage market. Later on, I also saw the kindness of the heroine's nature, and she also gradually grew up. By the middle of the book, I would often be annoyed by the hero's impatience and silence at times. I thought of the "imperfect lovers" mentioned on the Internet. During self-reflection, I also discovered that I always demand perfection from others in relationships. In the later period, I often lamented the open-mindedness and tenacity of Siqi and Nana. After reading this book, I found that everyone's images are very full, including the secret thoughts between girls, some small rifts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, etc., Including some descriptions of mate selection and blind dates in the book, which also made me think about a lot of things. This book is very suitable for sisters who are choosing a mate before getting married. I feel that it has inspired me in a different way on marriage and love.
The process of watching it was very distressing and depressing. But this is not the real life around us. After watching too many beautiful perfections created on the screen, it's still a mess when the veil is unveiled.
I love reading it. It's a relatively real novel. I feel like the people and things around me are not perfect. The heroine has grown up little by little. In reality, there are times when everyone does something wrong. I think it's very real and I like it very much.
Overall, it is good, but one thing is that the first part is realistic, but the material background written after returning to Chaoshan is still very generous and not very realistic. Although Shantou is a big toy market, the economic conditions are still a bit idealized, which is not consistent with the setting of the previous article. However, the description of Chaoshan folk customs is still good. It may be based on this that the author needs to give a financially powerful family as a background.
This book can give some inspiration to unmarried men and women, the most important thing is how to choose a spouse. It also shows that people really have to rely on themselves to live a good life, and it is impossible to live a good life if you are lazy. Marriage, life, family👨👩👧👦, interpret all aspects of life.
The author's writing style is really good, and the characters are well controlled. Maybe the characters written in it are too realistic, which may make you feel a little uncomfortable when you first read it, but it is really realistic. Everyone has more or less flaws and shortcomings, but they will all grow in the end. It also reflects the final marriage trend of three girls with different personalities and three lines, which is quite strange. But when you think about it, it's quite right. A person's life is a journey of self-cultivation.
# Recommendation for "Oh God, I Don't Want to Marry a Chaoshan Man" This is a book that is realistic enough to poke at the pain points of life, but also filled with glimmers of hope between the lines. It uses the life of the heroine Yang Biyao as a thread, stringing together life scenes that are breathtakingly real, such as blind dates, wedding gifts, distant marriages, helping her husband inherit the family business, and giving birth to children. The heroine comes from an ordinary background, and her parents favor sons over daughters and are selfish. The growth environment is like the epitome of countless ordinary people. The early characters of "little family spirit" and "helping younger brothers and demons" vividly portray the helplessness and struggle of reality. But it is by no means blindly gloomy. The transformation of the heroine in her new family after marriage and the awakening of her thoughts allow us to see that even in the mud, we can survive with the east wind of life and the sun. This hopeful life trajectory injects strength into everyone struggling in life. It is also particularly delicate and profound in its depiction of love. It not only truly shows the unavoidable practical considerations in love, such as regional cultural differences, family background constraints, and material foundation trade-offs; at the same time, it also vividly depicts the courage to move forward for love. The heroine chooses Cai Zekun, a responsible male protagonist from the Gu family. His courage to overcome obstacles in reality and his sincere persistence give love the power to break through everything. It is more than just a book, it is more like an old friend, gently telling the truth and beauty of life in your ear, and making people think about the appearance of love and the direction of life. It is worth reading quietly for everyone who is trekking in life and exploring in love.
The writing is very good. The heroine looked like this at first, which is really annoying. Although some parts are very real, some are too selfish and weak to be bullied. However, the heroine is gradually changing herself and moving towards a better self. After reading it all, I really like it and it is very real.
This novel is very attractive! The characters are not solidified, but grow with the passage of time and identity changes, showing the brilliance and darkness of human nature. It is rich in realism and is rare in online articles. It is worth reading!
It's quite beautiful. There are no cheats. Everyone's thoughts and calculations are in line with the psychology of ordinary people. This is the first time I learned about the history, culture and folk culture of Chaoshan. It is said that people in Fujian and Guangdong are good at doing business and have a lot of money. The people in these places are indeed united and enthusiastic about helping others. They have a strong sense of clan and are quite inspiring.
The psychology of various characters is well described, and the heroine's transformation from a "poor" mentality to a better economic situation after marriage is very real. After reading this, as a middle-aged person, I feel that I have to save more money as soon as possible. Only when I have the financial ability can I better honor my parents!
It's so beautiful, the characters are described so profoundly that I couldn't stop reading it. Li Chen asked Cai Yina, what would Cai's father say to him if he saw him? Cai Yina thought about it seriously, and then said to Li Chen: "He should hand you a cigarette and then ask you, brother, do you smoke?"