Insight into a Different Self: 60 Wisdom Tips to Help You Avoid Detours

The age of 30 is probably a watershed. Before the age of 30, you may not realize it. After the age of 30, you will repeat your work and life every day. The more things you experience, the warmth and coldness of social life you experience, the expansion of desires or being affected, you can clearly feel numbness, unhappiness, and emotional instability. Before the age of 30, I had the extravagant hope of breaking through, hoping that someone could teach me the warmth and coldness of human nature, but I found that I could only save myself, educate myself, and realize myself. After the age of 30, I still have the extravagant hope of breaking through, hoping that someone can make me feel comfortable and happy, but I find that I can only save myself, cultivate my mind, and save myself. A person writes the first half of his life and the second half of his life with every stroke. Many truths may be difficult to learn without personal experience, and what you learn on paper will always be superficial. Respect individual differences: Everyone has a different living environment and different personalities. There is no standard that can define right and wrong. It is impossible to evaluate others without having experienced others, and there is no empathy. There is no person in the world who has exactly the same three views, and they cannot be copied. We can only understand and accept the existence of differences, treat them objectively, and respect the differences. Interpersonal distance: We always give our good temper to strangers, and leave our bad temper to those closest to us, and we are happy to say good things because it is you, so as to modify the harm. The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. No matter how close the relationship is, you still need to pay attention to the interpersonal distance. Still water flows long. Everything is in vain: Many things may bring a lot of negative emotions at the moment. When put into the long river of time, this matter is just a grain of sand. Looking back, the care at that time was unhappy or somewhat redundant. Being the master of emotions is a compulsory course for adults, to understand oneself, to surpass oneself, and to please oneself. Reading is the antidote. Give yourself a hug and I will be fine.

This book is like a wise man who provides us with 60 wisdom tips to help us gain better insight into ourselves. I used to be very confused and didn't know how to get along with others, but some of the ideas in the book gave me new ideas. For example, in terms of cognition, the book mentioned the need to break through constraints, which made me realize that I need to work harder to improve myself. All in all, this is a very enlightening book and worth reading.

After reading it, my mentality changed and I understood a lot of principles of life. Listening to what you have to say is better than ten years of reading!

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What he tells is the truth, and he has the urge to read.

This book is worth reading and will teach you a lot about life! Learn to meditate, learn to think

I love it, the first book I finished reading this year

The language of this book is very inspiring, not to say that it is all chicken soup, but to feel a little bit of power in just a few words.

After reading the entire book, I have a deep understanding and learned a lot. Although I have shortcomings in some aspects, this book also helped me solve a lot of problems. It is worth reading.

This book made me realize the need to control my emotions and the importance of conveying cognition through stories. It is a good book worth reading and recalling.