This book illustrates the important connection between gain and loss, and talks about what we have to give up in order to grow. The passage of time, shattered dreams, loss of self, separation and death, and other unavoidable losses are all inevitable experiences in life. Only by calmly accepting, correctly understanding and accepting the inevitability of life, and getting out of the psychological swamp of dependence, paranoia, desire, and entanglement can our hearts become stronger. Reading this book is a process of self-healing. Without loss, there is no future. The author quotes classics, uses theories, vivid poetry, classic cases, academic language and popular language, subjective language and objective language, private language and public language, humorous language and wisdom language to explain the life process from birth to death, breaking through your inner barriers, allowing you to correctly accept reality, gain real growth and richer life wisdom.
