I Spent the First Half of My Life Married to My Mom's Boy

Hello everyone, I am a woman born in the 1970s from the countryside. Looking back on the first half of my life, I can still see all the troubles in my marriage. My ex-husband is a man who pursues comfort and has no ambition. The child's tuition seems to be a distant burden to him. He would rather do nothing than work hard to earn for his child's future. He is an out-and-out mama's boy, and after marriage he has no regard for the life and death of our little family. He was preoccupied with his mother and younger brother. He was focused on helping his younger brother make money and find a wife, but he was indifferent to his own children's growth and education. When a child shows a strong interest in art, I fully expect him to support the child's dream and pay for the child's tuition. But he refused indifferently and kept saying that studying art was useless. He always talked about his mother's difficulties, but never considered my hardships and efforts, nor did he care about my feelings. Such a marriage is full of problems and pain. After countless disappointments and quarrels, I finally understood that this kind of life was not what I wanted, and I could not let my children grow up in such an environment lacking responsibility and love. So, I resolutely chose to divorce and end this painful marriage. Although the road after divorce is full of unknowns and challenges, I firmly believe that leaving the wrong person will give my children and I the opportunity to usher in a new life and pursue our own happiness and peace.