Let me talk about my own point of view first~ I agree with the sentence in the title. After all, everyone who has experienced it must understand it~ If you can't treat this relationship wholeheartedly when we are together, then what is the use of making up for it later? In my opinion, all those "reasons" are just for myself. It's just a "high-sounding" statement made up of personal interests. When you look at the fundamentals, you will find that the inside is already rotten. So if you miss it, you miss it. There is really no need to make up for it. It will only make me feel that I am just the best result after you weigh the pros and cons. It's poison wrapped in sugar-coated bullets.