I would like to use an example to illustrate this book. For example, there is a woman named Xiaohong. She lives in such a family. Her father eats, drinks, whores, gambles and is violent, and her mother is unreasonable and nagging. Xiaohong definitely does not like this kind of family. She definitely wants to escape from such a family. She also does not want to marry a man like her father in the future. When she grows up, one day, she meets a gentle and considerate boy. Of course, this boy does not have the bad habits of her father. Xiaohong Hong liked it very much, and the boy was also interested in her. However, after the two of them had been dating for a period of time, they couldn't go any further, and their feelings for each other also faded, or they stopped interacting without knowing it, and the relationship came to an end. However, when Xiao Hong met a boy who looked like her father, she actually hated him very much, but her body would instinctively cope with this man. By the time she realized this, the relationship between the two had become very close, and she had lived a life that she hated ever since.
Why is that? The reason is that there is no pattern of interacting with good people in Xiaohong's relationship system. She has been interacting with people like her parents since she was a child. She may only interact with people like her parents in her life (if Xiaohong doesn't know it). She has never learned how to interact with good people. This is fate, the suffering of fate. Sometimes it is not your fault, but it is borne by you, just like Xiaohong. Her suffering was not caused by her, but she has to bear it throughout her life. How to write her own life in this miserable fate is my original intention of writing this novel, and what this book wants to express.
