
A Guide to Finding Love and Turning Your Life Around as an Average Woman Over Thirty
大龄普女脱单逆袭指北
- Status
- Ongoing
- Length
- 431k Words
- Genre
- Modern Romance
- Subgenre
- Workplace & Marriage
- Updated
- 11mo ago
- Source
- Fanqie
Synopsis
209Chapters
10Reads
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Fiction That Feels Close to Real Life
No transmigration, no being reborn, no System, a normal setting, no fantasy, no mind-reading, not a comedy, no transmigrating into a book, no angst, no tragic ending, and modern romance. Do stories like this even exist anymore?
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Quiet and Engaging, Best Read with Some Thought
I've read most novels already.
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Looking for Historical Novels, Preferably Feel-Good System Stories with Wild Premises
The protagonist is reborn in ancient times and uses the System to show off, rising rapidly all the way. The protagonist must not be an emperor.
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Any Novels That Feel a Little More Realistic?
Set in a city, with decent writing and a realistic feel.
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Realistic Romance Novels, No CEOs or the Like
Angsty youth novels are fine too, like Fu Shouer's "Youth Is a Hasty Book".
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Urban, Reborn, Cultivation, Comeback, Fantasy
Any recommendations?
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When I first read this book, I had a feeling that I didn't know how to describe. It wasn't until one day when I re-read Tie-Sheng's Me and the Earth-Altar that I suddenly realized that it was the kind of story where every trickle in life merges into a river. I have read a lot of common Internet articles. This kind of modern urban daily article with no contradictions in the beginning can attract me to read it with gusto. I have also thought about it for a long time, and today I suddenly realized—— Story Sense The stories are real and natural, as if they are happening right in front of you, as if they are the immature friends around you and me. At an age when they don't know how to love and how to live a good life, they are ignorant and ignorant of the road they stumbled through, leaving behind the echoes of laughter and tears, love and hate~ and ultimately, learning to love better and become a better version of ourselves Probably, this is such a noble and natural youth travel prose + realistic youth literature.
There is a trace of tragedy in the funny core. The group portraits include various urban men and women, and the struggles, pursuits and self-liberation of each of their unique souls. 1. Innocence and ignorance: What we see in Jiang Ning is a kind of innocence and frankness, and we can see an undefended and positive attitude. The carefree character draws everyone closer along the thread of fate, but pushes them away at the same time. Why? 2. Choice and helplessness: Han seems to be able to handle everything with ease, but for as long as we can remember, the way to reach the highest level is "nothing but familiarity." Is the experience behind the experience many times asking for nothing? 3. Confrontation and pull: Lin Lang and Cheng Yi are cautious about each other, but they are attracted to each other and secretly compete with each other in private. Does the outcome of victory really matter? If it's not important, what are you fighting for? In addition to the fun brought by the comic writing, if you think carefully, you will see mostly the struggles of single men and women in this Shura field. This is not only their path to self-liberation, but also the way for readers to reflect on themselves.
Before the author of this book appeared, I had never imagined that a human being could have both wonderful imagination and rigorous logical ability at the same time. Just like a machine, it is blowing colorful bubbles while calculating the trajectory of the rocket. There is also a button on the back that can light up natural gas to make stir-fried pork. It is mainly multi-functional.
[High literary appreciation] The author has superb control over words, choosing words and sentences, using lyrics or catchphrases at his fingertips; he has a keen and precise sense of the subtleties of life and emotions, and his characterization is penetrating. [A Guide to Improving Oral Power] The humor that overflows the screen and the hilarious dialogues that make people laugh are also a major feature of this book. You can also learn a lot of venomous expressions from it, such as "barking and barking"...
Hahahaha, amuse yourself. It's been a while since I took good care of my friends and myself. So looking back at "Lin Lang" in the novel, she is really versatile and takes everyone's interests into account very well. Even if she is at the forefront of various relationships, she is still the sister who rides the wind and waves! She is indeed a career-oriented Scorpio woman! Compared with her vision and structure, the great writer is indeed much weaker. If she cannot see the world and others outside of herself, it will naturally be difficult for her to have true happiness and freedom! The self and the outside world are inherently unified. There is no one, no self, and all living beings are one. So, don't get stuck on yourself!
First look at the catalog. The writing angle is very clear, which makes people curious about what will happen on the love journey of the three protagonists with different styles... I just read a little bit and I can't help but comment. Although the novel is called "Older Women's Singles and Counterattack Guide to the North", its core is actually an interpretation of different young women's pursuit of love, self, and freedom; it can also serve as a very effective reference for young men to understand the psychology of contemporary young women. It is similar to the recently popular "The Story of a Rose". Just like every girl has a supreme treasure in her heart and looks forward to the unparalleled hero riding on colorful auspicious clouds to marry her, every boy has a rose in his heart. I hope this book will get better and better as it gets written.
This book is worth reading. It is humorous, interesting and elegant, and it is easy and enjoyable to read. The characters are real and vivid, the author's writing is delicate, and there are no fixed patterns, clichéd plots or hard-boiled characters found in systematic writing. It can be seen that it is taken from life, and after selection and blending, this imaginary treasure is presented to the readers. Whether you want to relax before going to bed, want to read some real emotional material, or seek resonance, you can find what you want. Well, Linlang likes Cheng Yi's social value and everything he has shown, but without getting into Cheng Yi's heart, it feels like she has always been an "outsider" who wants to work hard to integrate, but has no transfer certificate yet. They are just a match made in heaven in the eyes of outsiders, and a golden boy and girl in the eyes of the world. So what Linlang is currently dealing with is the self that Cheng Yi shows to outsiders. Cheng Yi's occasional impatience with Linlang shows that he is suppressing his emotions with reason. This is not his attitude towards "one of his own". To be honest, I feel that Cheng Yi is more open-minded and can say whatever he wants in front of Jiang Ning. This cautious attitude is more like the attitude towards the world, but Linlang's ambiguous identity gives him the relaxed standards he should have corresponding to his status as a "lover" in the world, such as occasionally complaining. But this was still not an unreservedly relaxed attitude towards "one's own people". In his heart, he still placed Linlang in the frame of "the world" rather than "relatives".
The first reading has the freshness of a campus series, and the characters are quickly established. The protagonists are set in their thirties, but they have a youthful feel. The plot and the relationship between the characters make people say "Oh my god, it's him!". The characters and plot are full of life, making it easy to read and laugh out loud. The last point: Does anyone know how to use the soul dating app😧 (boys, non-old Koreans)
The story is not complicated, and the characters are delicately portrayed. Whether it is the quirky Jiang Ning or the "erudite" Lao Han, they are actually reflected in reality. From the details of the dialogue to the characters, they all reveal the author's understanding of life and yearning for love. The most difficult thing in a group portrait novel is to portray the personality of each character. Judging from the author's writing style, he must have rich literary skills to be so skillful. This is a great novel.
I want to give birth to a monkey for the male protagonist