Life is often troubled, full of confusion, and struggling to find answers.
However, for many things, you don't do them until you think about them, but you understand them after you do them.
This book is a true family letter from Mr. Jin Weichun and his two daughters.
The sixty letters exchanged between her and her father are the emotional connection between the daughter and her father, as well as the father's encouragement and support for his daughter's growth.
Families that were once divided have caused harm to children, and the different views formed in the two generations' growing up backgrounds cannot be integrated. However, when families are willing to practice communication together, these unpleasant experiences eventually turn into nourishment for life and memories that can cause laughter.
Through words, Mr. Jin communicates candidly with his daughter, bridges the growth gap, heals the family's wounds, and makes up for past regrets. With the help of letters, Mr. Jin also shared his mental journey with his daughters and gave sincere suggestions on marriage and family, money and career, inner exploration, life status, etc.
These warm feelings of love and life wisdom are of high learning value to young people and parents raising children.
I feel deeply healed every time I read it.
Reader comments
It's very interesting. As a mother of two children, I learned a lot about how to communicate with my children from the book. I also hurt my son once. When I realized that I had hurt him, I quickly learned to change and apologize. Fortunately, I did this in a timely manner. Now I have a good relationship with my son and we can communicate well.
After reading this book carefully, I also benefited a lot from the subsequent exchanges about the meaning of life, why we need to work, and my parents.
It's worth reading as parents, and I especially like some of Tao Lan's views. Whether we are parents or children, we can look back at what we have experienced, and then discover problems, solve problems, and understand each other. It turns out that this is what he thinks...
Like this book very much.
How to live abundantly? This is a subject that we have pursued throughout our lives.
Don't compare with anyone, just fully accept this experience.
Learning how to get along with others and getting along with ourselves can be said to be a required course for us.
At a certain age, life will enter another stage, which is to reconcile with your past self, let go of your obsession with others, and be more willing to listen to others, discover the advantages in others, and see and improve your own problems.
No matter what, value yourself.
You don't have to be outstanding, but you have to live your life to the fullest.
How to face various confusions in different periods of life, Teacher Jin gave the answers one by one, which made people suddenly enlightened! I am grateful for encountering this book and I am grateful to Mr. Jin. I will practice seriously and walk the second half of my life well.
I hope everyone can find what's lost in themselves
This is a book that impressed me very much and inspired me. After reading the electronic version, I quickly placed an order and bought the paper version. I will have more patience to read it several times. The short stories in many chapters of this book reflect the confusions in each of our lives. As the author of this article, he uses his own life experience to analyze and explain the answers to everyone, providing ideas and directions for many of us who are trapped and confused. Others use their own wisdom to guide us and hope that our life path will be smoother and more complete. This is really a great merit!
Teacher Jin Weichun is a great person, and many of his views are enlightening. The way his children think is indeed greatly influenced by their father. His expressions are very logical, and his cognition is very deep. What shocked me the most was Teacher Jin's reply on the concept of money. Money cannot be bigger than people, and people are bigger than money, so don't be confused by material desires.
Nice! It is recommended that everyone read this book.
The methods on growth, fatherly love and parenting are very practical. I have also been confused and looking for the meaning of life. Thank you for your perspective, which makes me clear.
This book is narrated from the family letters of a father and his three daughters. The correspondence in the book allowed me to see that all relationships between us and the outside world are relationships with ourselves, which are constantly projected out. Whether it is with parents or children, the relationship in this life is all about practicing together. In this practice place, we see each other and grow together. No one can achieve 100%, there will be mistakes. Life is not for perfection, but for experience, perception and practice. In any relationship, in-depth communication is very necessary. We must go deep into the other person's inner world and communicate with him to explore each other's inner needs. Finally, I hope that all parents and children in the world can be equal and live in harmony.
A very good book, sincere and informative. . . I wish to improve myself, especially as parents, it is worth learning~
It is worth reading again and again to understand its profound meaning. It will be helpful when you are confused.
Good book recommendation, worth reading carefully
Answered a lot of my confusions. It takes time to change my actions. I am very happy to read this good book.
I don't know what to say, but two words are: good-looking! Three words are: very good! Four words are: super good-looking! In short, it's just one sentence, it's worth it!
I was inspired after reading it, and I found answers to some of the confusions I encountered in this book, which is great!
A very inspiring book. Mr. Jin Weichun is a true practitioner. His last book, There is Only One Thing in Life, was also very inspiring.
The content is easy to understand, and there are many views and ideas on life that are worth learning from.
I can't bear to finish reading it [laughing and crying] Recommended! Inspirational, thoughtful and rewarding
I couldn't put it down after reading this book. I haven't been so fascinated by a book in a long time.
It's very good. It has reference significance for me and my children's education.
It's very interesting. As a mother of two children, I learned a lot about how to communicate with my children from the book. I also hurt my son once. When I realized that I had hurt him, I quickly learned to change and apologize. Fortunately, I did this in a timely manner. Now I have a good relationship with my son and we can communicate well. After reading this book carefully, I also benefited a lot from the subsequent exchanges about the meaning of life, why we need to work, and my parents.
It's worth reading as parents, and I especially like some of Tao Lan's views. Whether we are parents or children, we can look back at what we have experienced, and then discover problems, solve problems, and understand each other. It turns out that this is what he thinks...
Like this book very much. How to live abundantly? This is a subject that we have pursued throughout our lives. Don't compare with anyone, just fully accept this experience. Learning how to get along with others and getting along with ourselves can be said to be a required course for us. At a certain age, life will enter another stage, which is to reconcile with your past self, let go of your obsession with others, and be more willing to listen to others, discover the advantages in others, and see and improve your own problems. No matter what, value yourself. You don't have to be outstanding, but you have to live your life to the fullest.
How to face various confusions in different periods of life, Teacher Jin gave the answers one by one, which made people suddenly enlightened! I am grateful for encountering this book and I am grateful to Mr. Jin. I will practice seriously and walk the second half of my life well. I hope everyone can find what's lost in themselves
This is a book that impressed me very much and inspired me. After reading the electronic version, I quickly placed an order and bought the paper version. I will have more patience to read it several times. The short stories in many chapters of this book reflect the confusions in each of our lives. As the author of this article, he uses his own life experience to analyze and explain the answers to everyone, providing ideas and directions for many of us who are trapped and confused. Others use their own wisdom to guide us and hope that our life path will be smoother and more complete. This is really a great merit!
Teacher Jin Weichun is a great person, and many of his views are enlightening. The way his children think is indeed greatly influenced by their father. His expressions are very logical, and his cognition is very deep. What shocked me the most was Teacher Jin's reply on the concept of money. Money cannot be bigger than people, and people are bigger than money, so don't be confused by material desires.
Nice! It is recommended that everyone read this book.
The methods on growth, fatherly love and parenting are very practical. I have also been confused and looking for the meaning of life. Thank you for your perspective, which makes me clear.
This book is narrated from the family letters of a father and his three daughters. The correspondence in the book allowed me to see that all relationships between us and the outside world are relationships with ourselves, which are constantly projected out. Whether it is with parents or children, the relationship in this life is all about practicing together. In this practice place, we see each other and grow together. No one can achieve 100%, there will be mistakes. Life is not for perfection, but for experience, perception and practice. In any relationship, in-depth communication is very necessary. We must go deep into the other person's inner world and communicate with him to explore each other's inner needs. Finally, I hope that all parents and children in the world can be equal and live in harmony.
A very good book, sincere and informative. . . I wish to improve myself, especially as parents, it is worth learning~
It is worth reading again and again to understand its profound meaning. It will be helpful when you are confused.
Good book recommendation, worth reading carefully
Answered a lot of my confusions. It takes time to change my actions. I am very happy to read this good book.
I don't know what to say, but two words are: good-looking! Three words are: very good! Four words are: super good-looking! In short, it's just one sentence, it's worth it!
I was inspired after reading it, and I found answers to some of the confusions I encountered in this book, which is great!
A very inspiring book. Mr. Jin Weichun is a true practitioner. His last book, There is Only One Thing in Life, was also very inspiring.
The content is easy to understand, and there are many views and ideas on life that are worth learning from.
I can't bear to finish reading it [laughing and crying] Recommended! Inspirational, thoughtful and rewarding
I couldn't put it down after reading this book. I haven't been so fascinated by a book in a long time. It's very good. It has reference significance for me and my children's education.