Fake Efforts: Wrong Direction, Everything Is in Vain

This book points out the possible causes of "fake effort", provides specific countermeasures, and recommends related books. I feel like it's not just for my friends, but for anyone who's confused in their endeavors. It can help us find the right direction so that our efforts will no longer be in vain.

This book talks about how to gradually fall into problems from personal and interpersonal perspectives, and improves cognition, analyzes and gives some suggestions. I think the good thing is that each question has a small summary for us to sort out. What helps me a little bit is to let myself really have this problem and let us think about how to change it.

For those of us who are growing up, this book is like a gust of wind that blows away confusion.

It is very meaningful and highly recommended. It is suitable for high school students, universities, working people, and middle-aged people. Every age group can read out their own feelings.

After reading it, I gained a lot. It made me understand the problems I have in getting along with others and the reasons why I try so hard but always fail to achieve the results I expected. I highly recommend reading this book to book friends who are troubled by working hard but not achieving their expected goals!

The first chapter is exactly what I said. The analysis is very thorough. There is a summary after the content. It is simple and clear, and there are illustrations. It is very interesting.

Know your mind, see your nature, and see your true self

When you find yourself, you have found the right direction. If you have the right direction, everything will be right. Otherwise, everything will be in vain. Some answers cannot be found from the outside, so search from the inside. Some may not be done until you have them, but only after you have done them. Therefore, continuing to move forward is the direction to find the meaning of life, and it is also the beginning of our right.

Very good, very similar to my own situation, very suitable for me

I have read it seriously and learned a lot. Most fake efforts are greatly affected by "caring too much about others". What is hidden behind them is often their own true demands that have been ignored. If you understand this, you can prescribe the right medicine.

I feel it is very useful. If you take a look at this book when you are confused, I think it will be a good choice.

You must learn to love yourself, allow yourself to be weak, and first let yourself have enough food and clothing, a stable life, and a sense of security, then consider your lover, and finally realize yourself! When I was abandoned by my ex-girlfriend before, I never wondered why. After reading this book, I realized that a person's humility and dedication are a kind of reward for you, which will only make people not love you!

Every time I read it, I learned something, and it was written very thoroughly.

I feel that the views in this book have deeply penetrated into the psychology of contemporary people, and every counterexample is my own😅🙏

The content is very real and powerful

Okay, okay, good, good

It's almost as accurate as saying that I am

Love is the greatest magic in the world

Thank you from the bottom of my heart, sir, this book has benefited me a lot.

Okay, okay, now it's no longer about cutting off enough to fit in the holiday.

A very useful book [like], highly recommended [send heartfelt]

It's quite suitable for teenagers to watch. It is very helpful in resolving emotional disputes and life and learning.

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Useful, easy to understand, [like][like][like][like]

Well written and unique point of view

Not bad, a bit interesting

Very good very good

Good looking and useful to me

The content is very good and awesome.

Very good, very helpful