If Parents Can Chat, Their Children Will Be Better

Very, very, very, very good, very down to earth writing. It is very well written and practical from early childhood to adolescence, so you should learn it carefully. A warm family starts with me. Leave a way home for your children forever.

Very good book When I read books about parent-child education before, I felt like they were excerpting some cases from each other. However, the cases written by the author may be based on himself, and he is not like others. For example, Cai Jiao theory, map theory, etc. I couldn't bear to read every page in a hurry and savored it slowly. Highly recommended, a very good book.

Three key points to guide your children: 1. Be specific and do not give general guidance; 2. Use operational language to give children specific guidance (targeted guidance); 3. Clarify the direction for the child to move forward, so that he can see a better self and have hope for himself. Specific and accurate praise will let children know the specific reasons for being praised, which will encourage children to do more similar things. Accurate criticism and criticism strategy: use the time you spend criticizing your children for what they shouldn't do to instruct your children on what they should do.

Find a place for your children to rest their souls at home. Rather than just speaking from the perspective of parents, what should we do when talking about children? Instead, start from yourself, discover the problems in the family, respect the children, understand their cognition, give them room to grow, accept imperfections, praise the key points, put specific labels, provide positive guidance, and finally look forward to blossoming and bearing fruit.

This book has benefited me a lot. It is very detailed, life-like, scene-based, and has clear empathy.

The way of chatting with children is so important. This book recommends many good ways of getting along with each other, which is of great benefit. You should read it several times, savor and absorb it, and study hard to keep up with your children! Come on!

They are all examples, and they are very specific. Will they tell us how to communicate with older children? It's about communication, not just about what you need your children to know. It also talks about how to deal with small problems with such a young baby when they encounter problems with their developmental status. I mostly listen to this book and it really benefits me a lot! Thanks to the author! [Love][Love][Love][Love][Love]

This book is quite helpful for family education. I have been paying more attention to this kind of books recently. There are indeed some problems in raising a nine-year-old boy. The author gave some examples to explain some methods in detail, but it may be due to his poor understanding. I hope to see more and more detailed examples, which will be more conducive to understanding the application of internalized learning.

After reading this book, I realized that I had many misunderstandings in the ways and methods of educating children. Many of the theories in the book updated my understanding. In the future, I will combine the theories in this book with practice in handling parent-child relationships to strive for good results.

The examples in the book are very close to life and helped me learn a lot of communication skills with children. As the book says: "Speak every sentence to the point, don't say serious truths, only say correct 'nonsense'." This way of chatting not only makes children closer to us, but also makes them better. Recommended to all parents!

As a parent, this is a very good book. In this book, I see the mistakes of my own education. We must also change our education methods with the changes of the times. In this kind of family, children will have a sense of security.

The examples are concrete and operable, and the core is clear and easy to understand. I would like to thank Teacher Wang for selflessly sharing his years of research results.

The language is easy to understand and provides step-by-step guidance for parents on how to educate their children. It is worth learning.

It is a very down-to-earth book. The content in the book is closely related to our lives. I was reflecting on my own problems while reading it. Adults think that they are smart and wise, and hope that their children will follow their own steps. However, children need to grow up, and the answers to many things are not as meaningful as the process of finding answers. There is no answer to growth, finding it is the meaning. We must read it when we are in a good mood so that we can understand the book. When we are in a low mood, we cannot read a single word of the book.

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Yes, you need high-quality companionship with your children, more communication and interaction, unconditional trust and support for your children, talk to your children well, encourage, support, understand, and recognize your children more, and let your children express themselves freely.

I understand the disharmony with my children after reading this book. The author's writing is simple, easy to understand, realistic, and has a clear path. It is like a guiding light on the road to my parent-child relationship [Like]

Just finished reading it, thank you author! Very good book!

It can solve the problems I encountered and help me understand my children.

The article can get to the point. Parents know that this is wrong after reading it, but the solution to the problem can be more specific.

There are specific operation methods that can be applied to life, which are very useful for reference. Even if you don't understand them, you can use them directly. There are also many examples, which are very practical.

It is very helpful in raising children. To change your children, you must first change yourself.

It is very practical and worthy of parents to read and study frequently.

It's pretty good. It just helped me with the problem I was encountering right now.

It's a pity that I didn't read this book fifteen years ago. Now I am sweating while reading it. My parenting experience is like a collection of wrong questions. Change from now on

It was very reasonable and made me understand that many things about myself were wrong.

Like it very much! I always feel that I can't communicate with my children. This book gives specific methods and is worth collecting! ! !

It's worth learning from novice parents