The relationship between people is a complicated thing in the world, and the relationship between people in China is even more subtle. On the one hand, Chinese people believe that "relying on parents at home and relying on friends when going out" depends on the relationship between them. On the other hand, Chinese people want to rely on their ability in everything and hate the behavior of "building relationships". As everyone knows, a person without ability cannot rely on interpersonal relationships to succeed. However, without good interpersonal relationships, no matter how capable you are, you will not be able to achieve success smoothly.
The big difference between Chinese and Western interpersonal relationships is that Westerners develop interpersonal relationships, while Chinese people develop interpersonal relationships. Chinese people don't have any "interpersonal relationships" at all. If we transplant Western interpersonal relationships, it will only make everyone's relationship more and more tense. This book takes human relations as the starting point and mainly talks about how to deal with the two major problems of work relationships and family relationships. Working relationship is the core of Chinese-style management. If the working relationship is not good, it will be difficult to develop your career. Family relationships are a lifelong issue for everyone. As soon as a person is born, he or she is caught up in a network of relationships. Real success can only be achieved when both family and career have good harvests. To solve these two major problems, you only need to master ten easy-to-understand essentials. These ten essentials are rich in connotation and are indispensable. As long as they are applied properly, they will be beneficial. Chinese people attach great importance to how to be a good person. Only by being a good person can you do good things. The methods for dealing with interpersonal relationships described in this book may not necessarily work in the West, but they are quite effective in China.
Reader comments
Easy to understand and benefit a lot!
Very good! Worth watching.
The Chinese style of communication is incisive and exquisite.
This book by Zeng Lao is quite interesting. It is in line with China's national conditions, integrates theory with practice, and provides in-depth thinking.
Reasonable fairness, human ethics, think twice before speaking, think from someone else's perspective, one appearance of talent (nature is not enough, nurture is enough, both internal and external), two sets of suits (according to the time, place and people, what to wear for any occasion), three drinks, four rounds of mahjong, five friends (all brothers in the four seas), six out of Qishan (Everything depends on people and God will do it. Sometimes you have to have the courage to do it even though you know it is impossible to do it), seven skills to beat a horse (it's not about talking too much, it's about speaking into the hearts of others), eight words of bragging (appropriate marketing of yourself), nine points of hard work (opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared), and very patience (perseverance and perseverance, and the ability to accept humiliation).
Easy to understand and benefit a lot!
Very good! Worth watching.
The Chinese style of communication is incisive and exquisite.
This book by Zeng Lao is quite interesting. It is in line with China's national conditions, integrates theory with practice, and provides in-depth thinking. Reasonable fairness, human ethics, think twice before speaking, think from someone else's perspective, one appearance of talent (nature is not enough, nurture is enough, both internal and external), two sets of suits (according to the time, place and people, what to wear for any occasion), three drinks, four rounds of mahjong, five friends (all brothers in the four seas), six out of Qishan (Everything depends on people and God will do it. Sometimes you have to have the courage to do it even though you know it is impossible to do it), seven skills to beat a horse (it's not about talking too much, it's about speaking into the hearts of others), eight words of bragging (appropriate marketing of yourself), nine points of hard work (opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared), and very patience (perseverance and perseverance, and the ability to accept humiliation).
The writing is very practical and worth reading.