Between Hills and Hills

This is probably the most touching story I have read recently, and I can't count how many tears I shed over it. In a reserved Chinese family, daughters learn to reflect their own value in men. It reminded me a lot of scenes mentioned in Misogyny, such as the daughter growing up to be "her father's daughter" because she is determined not to be like her mother. However, it is unfair to analyze the conflicts between women in the context of rules and rights in a one-sided manner. The touching point of this story is that it uses a very real scene to make misunderstandings disappear with sincere love and companionship. The daughter spent her whole life pursuing a different lifestyle from her mother, but in the end she discovered that she actually wanted to be a strong person like her mother. The mother's suffering and uneasiness are also found and healed by her daughter's patience and reflection. In the end, the daughter finally wrote down her original name, and the ultimate proposition of love returned to loving herself.

It is a very delicate book, and the daily interactions between Wang Caiying and Ren Rongrong are too real. Due to differences in age and development of the times, there is inevitably a gap between children and parents, and silence time after time is exacerbating this gap. In Wang Caiying's eyes, her mother was always on a tightrope and never relaxed, always "meddling" in her life. What Wang Caiying or Maomao didn't know was that as Ren Rongrong, she lost her child because of the policies of the times. Her husband couldn't stand her mentioning the dead child Chuanchuan all day long and left her. While she was heartbroken, she was also afraid that she could not be a good mother to Maomao. As she said, "The most painful time has passed, but the most painful time has changed me." Sometimes parents and children still have to compromise with each other and understand each other, hoping that everyone can be happy to the greatest extent possible.

This book describes the same thing through the transformation of the perspectives of mother and daughter, but the feelings are different. The mother loves her daughter, and the daughter also loves her mother. However, the lack of communication between them deepened the misunderstanding between them. The time when a daughter truly feels her mother's deep love is after she becomes a real mother. So this also leaves us with a question worth thinking about: Can the mother feel the moment when her daughter truly understands her mother? The closest people who are connected by blood share different memories in the same space. This kind of estrangement and misunderstanding, what should be talked about is kept silent, and what can be talked about is only daily superficial things. I use my sincerity to guess the sincerity, use my sincerity to collide with the sincerity, and sometimes even get scarred from the collision. This really hurts me. The distance between sincerity and sincerity is sometimes very far and sometimes very close, but fortunately the sincerity will not change, the sincerity will always be the sincerity, even if there is pain, it is still the most beautiful thing in my heart. Mom and dad have done everything for us silently in their own way, right? [Love][love][love]

Mother has her own limitations. She wants to give you what she thinks is good. A daughter does not want to become a mother, but she subconsciously accepts her mother's ideas and imagines breaking the pain of generation after generation. She must learn to break the situation, understand and embrace the previous generation, and do not live with hatred. That is hurting herself.

The story is told from the perspectives of mother Ren Rongrong and daughter Caiying. It is very real and easy to relate to and empathize with. Most Chinese children and parents are not good at expressing emotions, so they may keep worrying about some things in their hearts, guessing over and over again, without trying to communicate, or after communicating, they find that they are actually the same.

A very short book that made me cry many times. The relationship between mother and daughter is really delicate. Mother is the closest and easiest woman to her daughter to observe. Some daughters want to live like their mothers, and some daughters want to live like their mothers' opposites. Before I was twenty years old, I wanted to live like my mother. Gentle, firm, hard-working, self-reliant, has his own career, is patient with his children, educates his children very well, and even subtly transforms his father into a much better person. But now I no longer want to live like my mother. I am slowly loving myself now, and I also want my mother to be more self-centered and love myself more. You don't have to leave all the good things to others, you can consider your own feelings first. Maybe it's because I haven't become a mother yet, so I can take it for granted that a woman is herself first and a mother second. But the great thing about the mother's surname may be that she can devote everything to her children!

A very touching mother-daughter story, showing themselves and their feelings towards each other from the perspectives of mother and daughter. Let daughters from God's perspective better understand their mothers and understand them, and it will also be a great inspiration to mothers. When reading the plot from the daughter's perspective in the first few chapters, I always saw many people criticizing the daughter for being a very selfish person. Many people feel that even if their mothers treat them like this, they have no complaints, saying that they can understand and appreciate their mother's behavior, and "maybe it's because I love my mother very much" without any malice. I don't know if this kind of comment is considered "malicious" or "not malicious", but I suddenly feel that the so-called empathy and empathy should not simply compare the mother's behavior to my own mother, but also evaluate the daughter's behavior based entirely on my own feelings. This still seems to ignore the daughter's feelings. Another deep feeling is that raising children is really a difficult thing. Love alone is not enough. There are many other things that need to be considered. Parents are really great.

This book is very short, and I like the way it is written, using both mother and daughter to tell their experiences from their own perspectives. This line at the end of the book, ""They did it all, all of it. "It really touched me. I am fortunate to be my mother's daughter, and I am also very lucky to have a daughter. Therefore, the book describes the estrangement, misunderstandings, and friction between mother and daughter, as well as the warmth that often flows in and out inadvertently. This is the most common mode of getting along between us. Yes The meticulous care and love of a young child is also an unforgettable experience for me. This constant breaking of bonds in the Chinese blood gives us a deeper understanding of love. We must love our mothers well for the rest of our lives and cherish the time we spend with our daughters.

I can completely take on the role of my daughter, but what is different about our family is that we have two younger brothers with no resources or much love, so I don't have much involvement in my mother's suffering. I don't want to understand her. My only feeling, from my mother's time to my daughter's time, is that I love myself, love myself utilitarian, love myself crazily, and only those with money have the right to speak.

The full picture is unknown and no comment will be made. Every mother knows her child well, but she may not necessarily keep up with the times. Every child wants to give everything to his mother, but he doesn't necessarily know everything. Growing up in different years has become a barrier to communication. But love is interconnected, and you will always find a suitable way to get along in the end. After reading this, I will want to understand my mother even more and feel sorry for her.

I like literary books more and more, with delicate writing, profound emotions, and touching people's hearts. It allows readers to see their own shadow in the waves of the story and feel the resonance and understanding. It does not require gorgeous rhetoric or deliberate sensationalism. It is told quietly in an almost simple way, but it can stir up ripples in the readers' hearts and leave an indelible mark. Its delicacy and depth are like a clear stream, reminding us to slow down, feel, think and experience. Just like this book, it is described through the perspectives of mother and daughter. Although the mother and daughter described by the author are fictional, they are very real. The two generations in the book are separated by mountains of mother and daughter, time, and culture. They are so similar to my mother and I when we were young. I clearly know that they are doing it for my own good, but we are not good at communicating. So they forced me and I resisted. The suffocating feeling of being pressed is really disappointing. The mother who has been let down by the times and human nature is just like my mother, because her younger brother is a supernatural being. She is luckier than the mother in the book, and her younger brother is safe and healthy. The daughter who wants to escape from her mother's mountain of love but gets more and more into the whirlpool is just like me, but I am undoubtedly luckier than the daughter in the book. As time goes by, they gradually give up and compromise. Actually I never had that thought, it was just because they loved me too much and were too scared. The mother and daughter in the book reveal the secret, soft but tough things in their hearts layer by layer, and silently reconcile in the confrontation of life. And my parents and I still haven't communicated well, just because I finally followed the direction they wanted, and it can be regarded as a silent reconciliation.

The daughter's part felt the same, but the mother's part made me cry. Thank you to the author for switching the perspective, and thank you to the author for the infinite warmth in the postscript.

I resonate with many of the plots in this story. Even though I haven't given birth yet, I will think about Mama's painful mood when she lost her child. That heartache followed her throughout her life, the way she missed me, the way I cared about him, the way I have carefully wrapped up my current lifestyle, and so on. The bond, attachment, and bond between mother and daughter may take a lifetime to understand...

Although they are "fictional" "mothers" and "daughters", they really shed tears many times, and relatives have also come through this step by step. I hope everyone can have the ability to communicate with others. I wish I could.

I accidentally discovered this book a few days ago. At first, I was attracted by the bright color of the cover, and then I found that the title of the book was also very special. At first I couldn't figure out what the book was about, but then I couldn't stop reading it. If you are always annoyed by your family's concern for you, and if you can't understand why your family is so stubborn and unwilling to change, then please read this book, and you will find that maybe there is a helpless reason behind every behavior that you cannot understand. The book mainly writes about some small things that happened between daughter Caiying and her mother who settled in Japan. The author describes a story line in chapters from the perspective of the daughter and the mother. Every time you read a chapter, you will suddenly understand the reasons why the daughter and mother did and thought the same thing. While reading, it also made me think about things in life that others do that seem to be annoying or incomprehensible to you. In fact, from the other person's perspective, there are reasons that you cannot know at the moment. The author's sober attitude towards life and the precise description of the characters' inner thoughts in the book are very touching. The story is not long, so reading is recommended!

In fact, this book tells what happened in the same time and space from the perspectives of daughter (Caiying) and mother (Rong Rong). When I read it, I repeatedly switched perspectives. As a person with a universal perspective, I clearly know where their misunderstandings and gaps are, and there is the best way to solve the problem. But how can we, ordinary people, be so clear about each other's psychology? What we can do is to think from each other's perspective and learn more about each other, so that we can open up the so-called universal perspective and find the problem. Secondly, the details of the relationship between mother and daughter described in this book are really close to life, which may be what impresses readers. In addition, parents have a really great influence on their children. Children are very smart and sensitive throughout their lives. They can easily detect and learn from your words, actions, and thoughts. There is a sentence in the article that says that in the process of being a parent, this kind of dedication is not loss, but gain, love. I think only if you learn to love can you give love. Overall, this book is still recommended

I really like this kind of narrative language. It is plain and straightforward but it can attract my attention when I read it. I have always avoided talking about the relationship between mother and daughter, especially as someone with a tear-incontinent constitution often gets stuck in the emotional quagmire of both parties. It makes me feel the same and sad at the same time.

"When my mother laughs, I won't interrupt her even if the sky falls." The unhappiness and estrangement had been laid for so long, but when the happiness and reconciliation represented by this short sentence arrived, I was relieved and sad, and almost cried.

It feels so real. We can't stand in each other's shoes and understand each other's feelings. We wanted to speak out, but we were hit by repeated feedback and slowly fell silent. Your parents are good for you, but that was her experience and now times have changed. She is also afraid that you will say that she [crys][crys]

Like, the bond between mother and child is really inexplicable, just like maternal inheritance is the true inheritance. In most lives, mothers and daughters will follow similar paths, interpret their different lives, and then slowly understand each other. Time is really charming, like the distant fragrance exuded by old wine, it allows us to understand her and you at different times, and takes us back to the memories of the past. [Shy]

I cried and felt relieved while watching it. Every woman is both a mother and a daughter. Only when the mother is here can she enjoy the identity of a daughter; only when the daughter is here can she grow into a mother. They are not the two ends of the dispute, they are the continuation of life.

It is very true. The image of mother described by the author so far is really the image of most mothers in China. The nagging character presented by the author is also the character of most children of our generation. It feels like it really describes me and my mother.

The distance between sincerity and sincerity is sometimes very far and sometimes very close, but fortunately the sincerity will not change. The sincerity will always be the sincerity. Even if there is pain, it is still the best thing in my heart. A very delicate book, written from the perspectives of mother and daughter, very interesting, awkward and silent love. Finished reading on 2025.12.10✍️

Thinking about the resentment I felt toward my parents in the past, I just feel childish now. Perhaps true maturity and adulthood is to treat parents as two ordinary people and stop blaming them for things that they can't do anything about, so that they can truly understand and care for each other.

In Chinese-style family relationships, we need to see things more from each other's perspective and understand each other's hesitations. It is in this understanding and exploration that the connection between us becomes closer and closer, and our relationship becomes closer and closer. I have shed tears several times when I saw the mother's perspective. We can always find similarities with our own mother in each mother. After reading so many father-son relationships, this book about the mother-daughter relationship is really worth reading.

The narrative is unfolded from the dual perspectives of mother and daughter. Originally it was just about the ordinary thing of the mother taking care of her daughter during her pregnancy, but it was also interspersed with the mother's memories of the past and the mother's difficulties. When the daughter is about to become a mother, she takes the opportunity to understand her mother, reconcile with her mother, and become a better version of herself.

It's a great book. It's not long, but the content is on point. It reflects on the relationship between mother and daughter, and the impact of the policies of the times on personal destiny... I feel that making it into a movie will arouse more people's thinking and resonance.

This book is very good, I like it very much. It uses the perspective of mother and daughter to experience this relationship, causing readers to think about the reasons that make this relationship in danger, and the ending is also very warm... I like reading realistic novels so much. In this kind of books, there seem to be things, actions, and words that can appear in the real world at any time. These can easily touch my heart and make me think. When I really face these things, I may be at a loss and lose control; but when I look at these problems from a third perspective, I will think and summarize, and I will think about the reasons that led to this result... These thoughts may affect me and let me understand me better, subtly. Maybe at some point in the future, when I really encounter a problem, I think I will make better choices and better ways to solve the problem and minimize the damage. Recommended reading.

The water in the left eye socket slipped into the right eye frame.

This book allowed me to see the complex and real emotions between mother and daughter. I like the tough mother in the book, and her experience moved me very much. The gap between mother and daughter is like a mountain, but they finally find reconciliation in mutual understanding. The plot in the book is very delicate and made me feel the power of family love. Recommended to everyone!