About love: Shen Yi and Ji Fan liked each other, but after getting to know each other better and slowly getting to know each other, he would always make actions that she didn't quite understand and didn't agree with. She didn't choose to face the problem head-on, but to escape. Because he was too young, his love was destined to be stillborn.
Later, she discovered that she could still be attracted to others, and then she began to doubt. It turned out that between people, there is not a key and a lock. A person can like several people at the same time. That kind of distant love, she seemed to understand the ancient men who had three wives and four concubines.
About friendship: She knows a lot of people, and many people teach her a lot, but in the end they will part ways. Some people make decisions, and some make decisions by themselves. They all sway back and forth, but in the end they are both determined.
No one is the same as me, and I don't need an identical self. I always have to learn from others, get warmth from others, and give it to myself accordingly.
But one day, they can no longer complete these things properly, and it is time for them to disperse.
Regarding growth: Children respect teachers, but teachers may not respect children. Children may not respect their teachers. Children at a young age may not be very kind, and their thoughts may be scary.
Don't worship blindly, no matter who is strong in all aspects, or in an unfamiliar field that you have not yet entered.
Disenchant with academic qualifications, disenchant with professors, disenchant with universities, disenchant with jobs, and disenchant with money.
Disenchantment does not mean that they no longer attract you, but that you can look at these things more rationally and make your own choices.
Finally, disenchantment with love, family, and friendship.
