Accept Children's Imperfections

Just like what the book says, "See the child and allow the child to shine in his own way." Moreover, the cases in the book are very real and the methods given are also very practical. I especially like a sentence in the book: "Love should be the answer to all problems." I think this book is not only suitable for parents, but also for us junior high school students. It can help us better understand and communicate with our parents.

1. Accepting children's imperfections does not mean giving up demands, but giving up demandingness. 2. Parents' emotional stability is the confidence of their children throughout their lives. 3. Believe that children are the best gift God gives to parents and have their own unique talents. Your job is to discover, not shape. 4. Be sure to stand on the side of the child to defeat the problem, rather than stand on the side of the problem and defeat the child. 5. When you spank a child, he will not stop loving you, he will stop loving himself. 6. Acknowledging that your children are ordinary people is the greatest wisdom for parents. 7. Children's "problems" are parents' "growth signals". 8. Accepting your child's imperfections is ultimately about accepting your own imperfections - you and him will complete the reconciliation and perfection of life in each other's eyes. 9. Mistakes equal growth. Every child will make mistakes as they grow. These mistakes may seem like imperfections, but they are actually valuable opportunities for them to explore the world and learn knowledge. 10. The best gift you can give your children is not a room in a school district, but an emotionally stable and inner-filled self. Hugs, soft words, and pleasant looks

This is a book that will help you to stop worrying and have easy parenting. I highly recommend everyone to read it. There are many common scenes in it. Maybe we have all encountered them when we were children. In the end, it seems that we became the parents we hated when we were children. Don't worry, we are all growing in the process of learning. In the process of raising children, not only are we raising them, but the children also help us see our own emotions and help us heal ourselves! If you read too many books on parenting and psychological healing, you will slowly be able to understand your own emotions. I still remember reading the first parenting and psychological healing book this year. I was writing reading notes while reading it in the library. At that time, I couldn't help but shed tears. I don't know how other people wrote their reading notes. I wrote down the trauma that reminded me of my childhood, the grievances that were still fresh in my memory. After I cried after writing it, it seemed that the thing no longer had the power to hurt me! From that day on, I started keeping a diary. It was more about recording my emotions, because what happened made me explode and how I felt. Slowly I discovered that what made me feel better was myself and the books I read.

I have been listening to this book while driving to and from get off work. Dr. Hailan analyzed the characteristics of the cases. It is really some important problems faced by many families in this era. If we have not heard or read this book, we often cannot find good solutions. After listening to Dr. Hailan's book, I found that many problems are not as difficult as we imagined and the solutions are simpler and easier to do than imagined. A mother who is willing to learn is a mother who is willing to learn. Good mother, I think all those who are preparing to become mothers or fathers can read this book. At the same time, I also shared some constructive content in the book with some mothers around me who encountered similar problems to help them better solve the parent-child relationship. Passing on knowledge is also a kind of consolidation of knowledge.

This is simply fine chaff. Every word goes straight into my heart. It goes too deep into my heart. Such a good book should be read and listened to by everyone. They need to learn something and make changes so that every family can become better, warmer and happier.

The content is objective and true, can touch people's hearts, and can empathize with others. At the same time, the views expressed by the author also happened and appeared in his own life, but he was not aware of the inappropriateness. After reading the author's expression, he had an epiphany and saw the essence of the matter. It also provides help for future children's education! It's worth seeing and benefiting a lot!

The narration of the article is very complete, the author's ideas are clear, and the expression is appropriate and thought-provoking.

When I was confused about educating my children, I read this book. Achievements are not the criterion for measuring children. The parent-child relationship, unconditional love for children, and a warm family atmosphere all require self-change. I hope that everything will slowly get better, so that both myself and my children can live a happy life.

Every parent who is taking exams or preparing to take exams should take a look at it and then think deeply about how to establish a good parent-child relationship with their children so that they can be extremely powerful in the future!

Love is about giving positive guidance rather than placing all hopes on the child. It is more about letting the child learn how to be the kind of person we want the child to be. What kind of person do you want to be first? Instead of comparing yourself with your children, it is better to compare yourself with others, so that you can put yourself in the children's shoes and understand the inner nature of the children.

Down-to-earth, a lot of the language makes sense

Very good, very touching, learned a lot

I have read many parenting books, but this book is the one I recommend the most. The cases in it are very real and common, and the methods are very practical.

The theory is persuasive, profound, comprehensive and down-to-earth. It is worth reading and is the first choice parent-child book.

Real and objective, practical and practical

A good way to educate children

Light in the dark

Well written and very true

I really learned a lot

Easy to understand and the truth is great!

Super good, worth recommending

A good book.

Very good and practical

I regret not reading about him earlier, my children are already older.

I learned that when educating children, we must first give them unconditional love, and only then can the children accept the teachings. She is kind-hearted, speaks softly, cuddles and loves her children unconditionally.

As a mother, I received a lot of help

Children who are in their second year of high school have to draw a clear line with us parents and only ask for living expenses. I want to find the answer from this book.

It helps me, but I feel very anxious. I can't help but get angry when I see my child's messy writing, and I want to change it slowly.

Teach us how to be parents from the perspective of children and be effective parents

It clarified my doubts and taught me how to be a mother.