
Mother-In-Law Is Not Mother
婆婆不是妈
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The article is very delicate, real and touching! It was a bit sadistic at first, but the male and female protagonists have very positive images and good relationships. Their attitude towards their family members is also very understanding and tolerant. In particular, the heroine's care for her mother-in-law is so touching.
It is a very down-to-earth family story that closely revolves around the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The characters are vivid and the descriptions of daily life are very vivid. The kind and innocent Chu Qing gets along with her domineering mother-in-law after getting married. I empathize with the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the play, and I worry about Chu Qing from time to time. Fortunately, Chu Qing's kindness makes the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law safe. Also because of loving the same man and the way this man handles it, this conflict is not particularly acute.
It describes in detail how a woman interacted with her mother-in-law when she was a daughter-in-law, and how she got along with her daughter-in-law when she became a mother-in-law. Very instructive. Can improve your life experience
After reading the story, it made me cry. I have just become a mother-in-law. I feel that as a mother-in-law, I am really lonely and looking for trouble. I don't know what will happen in the future, nor how my relationship will change in the future. I put in a lot of emotion, but got no emotional return, and always complained a lot. Sometimes I want to give up this relationship, and sometimes I want to work hard to improve this relationship. I really don't know how the road of life will torture me, whether it will cater to me, or whether it will make me happy.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not just about two women getting along. The man in the middle is also very important. It tests wisdom. The writing is quite in-depth. I followed the heroine's character and got involved. In the end, I was very sad when my mother-in-law died. But there is one bad thing about this book. It should also be brought into the heart of the husband. It cannot only be from the female perspective, because if the two families are not far apart, the male role is also very important.
This book resonated with me very much. It truly showed various problems in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The conflict and friction between Chu Qing and her mother-in-law in the story made me see the shadow of real life. I especially hate Chu Qing's mother-in-law, she is sometimes too stubborn and traditional, but as the story develops, I can understand her position. This book was not a tearjerker, but it made me think deeply about the importance of family ethics and family ties.
It was well written. Chu Qing transformed from a daughter-in-law to a mother-in-law in the end. As long as there is love, people who are not related by blood will become like relatives. As long as you love your son, you will have a tolerant heart. Suddenly I realized that those mother-in-laws who did everything in their power just didn't love their sons enough and were just selfish.
Through a pair of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it truly reveals the difficult-to-reconcile relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that has troubled China for thousands of years. After a long period of conflicts and running-in, both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have grown up. Unfortunately, when both parties are very satisfied, the other protagonist is about to leave this world! There is no perfect life, and there will always be some shortcomings... The daughter-in-law will also become the mother-in-law... Intergenerational reincarnation, fortunately, most modern mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law live separately, which establishes a sense of boundary between the two generations of families. They do not interfere with each other in good times, and help each other in difficulties. This is the benefit of this era, and it is also a very big progress... Mother-in-laws and daughters-in-law, come on [love] [love] [love]
Mother-in-law is not a mother in the first place. She will not care about her daughter-in-law as much as she loves her own children. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should not live together! It's best to keep a bowl of water at a distance. It's a pity that the mother-in-law in real life can't live without her son, and she always likes to point fingers at her daughter-in-law, being picky about what is right and what is wrong. It took thirty years for a daughter-in-law to become a mother-in-law, but we will learn the lesson when we become mothers-in-law in the 1970s. Don't live with the children, and don't get involved in their lives.
In fact, the protagonist is very happy because she has a husband who knows that she loves her. It is precisely because of this husband that even though there are conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, they can be eased and relieved in the end. When a woman gets married, she always regards her mother-in-law as her mother and wants her approval. The frictions one after another and the final antagonism are actually caused by the husband's inaction or even his misalignment. Women don't care about how much money or power a man has, they only care about whether the man can protect her when things happen.
Out of curiosity, I opened this book, thinking it was an ordinary book about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law fighting each other. I found that after reading it, I still couldn't calm down for a long time. People are emotional animals, and they will have feelings for anyone they have been with for a long time, let alone if they get along day and night. Noisy and quarrels are normal in life. My mother-in-law is not a mother, but she is the mother of the person I love. I personally think that we can get along with her as a friend. Friends will also be noisy. Remember more of the advantages of others and less of the shortcomings of others. Of course, taking a step back does not mean compromising. Remembering more of the advantages can make life more comfortable.
It is a good book worth reading. Yes, the mother-in-law is not the mother, but she gets along day and night, and cannot be separated without understanding and tolerance. Two people who are not related by blood will become relatives. I am now a mother-in-law, and I also have my own mother-in-law. I also have deep understanding and sympathy for the plot described in the story. This story is very delicate about the psychology and emotions of the characters, and is full of positive energy.
I am the same age as Chu Qing in the article, and I have never met such a strong, selfish, hypocritical mother-in-law, nor the tension of her life. The heroine is the principal of a middle school, and her husband is the deputy mayor of the municipal party committee. I do not have the warmth of her family, and some only have a stagnant life with normal firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. But this book deeply influenced me. People should be more tolerant, be more open-minded, and take everything as it comes!
When I heard about abortion, I couldn't bear to hear it. I am also going to be a mother-in-law. Maybe it's because of the age difference. How could this happen? When I gave birth to a child in 1995, my mother-in-law said that this was her first child and the most precious. My mother-in-law is also a strong, clean and tidy person, but she is tough on outsiders and good to her family, including her daughter-in-law and uncles with a different surname.
The description is true to real life and worth reading.
I finally finished reading this book, and I eagerly read it every day when I have free time. I always feel emotional while watching, and I always feel sorry for Chu Qing. When I meet a mother-in-law like this, I really can't be like Chu Qing, but I always see my own reflection in Chu Qing: sensibility! Maybe people who are too kind generally live a miserable life! Those who are selfish and ruthless will live more comfortably, such as Chu Qing's mother-in-law.
It tells the story of a woman starting from working, getting married, having children, career development, children growing up, inner growth, emotional changes with her mother-in-law, and friction in life. A short book is like a person's life, and there are many touching places. Worth reading.
As for my current identity, I feel very emotional after reading this book. The relationship with my mother-in-law is like a mutually respectful guest. I can't get into her heart, and she can't get into my heart. Just respect each other and don't quarrel. Don't ask for more. We help each other when there are things. I find it difficult to be like a mother and daughter. There are several pairs of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the world who have such a relationship. It is a blessing not to argue or quarrel.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very delicate. Although the situation of each family is different, some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not relatives but are better than relatives. They have been together for half their lives with affection and ties, but in the end they will be missed when they leave! I hope that all mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law in the world can find the most worry-free but sincere way to get along with each other and treat each other well for the rest of their lives! ! !
The book describes the ordinary life of a family. In fact, this is the greatest happiness. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a problem faced by everyone. The mother-in-law feels deprived when facing her son's beloved, and the daughter-in-law is also frightened and tries to please her future mother-in-law. The author in the book vividly describes the psychological activities of each character. In fact, the key to a happy family is mutual concession, mutual understanding, and mutual tolerance. Before marriage, you need to keep your eyes open when looking for a wife and a husband. After marriage, life is just a matter of turning a blind eye. A person's life is only 30,000 days. Most people follow the rules of going to school, graduating, dating, getting married, having children, raising children, children going to school... There are always new people in the family, and old people passing away. But this short life of a person is built by this kind of patchwork. In fact, each other is the most important person in their life. The mother-in-law is not the mother, the daughter-in-law is not the daughter, and the biological mother is not related by blood. Two strange women live in the same home because of the man. They get along with each other, discover each other's good qualities, sometimes quarrel and get angry, but in the end they reconcile. Over time, they are also the closest people to each other. I haven't started a family yet, and I don't know what kind of person my mother-in-law will be in the future, but I believe that we are very good, and we all work together. My mother-in-law will choose to tolerate her daughter-in-law for the sake of her son, and my daughter-in-law will slowly integrate into this small family, and they will all be very happy. I am looking forward to the same. I only hope that my future husband will be sensible, support me, and live in harmony with my mother-in-law. A mother-in-law is not a mother, but is better than a real mother. The novel is very touching and kind. I believe Chu Qing will become a qualified and good mother-in-law.
By reading this book, I feel the ups and downs of ordinary life in this world. Many people have experienced bits and pieces of life, including love and hate. In fact, in the end, when we think about it, we feel relieved. We are all ordinary people and passers-by in life.
Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a knot that can never be untied in a family. After reading this book, I felt very heavy, but I was also relieved about Chu Qing in the book. She is the mother-in-law, never the mother.
It truly describes the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who are not close relatives. After more than 20 years of running-in, they have gone from estrangement to mutual tolerance. In the end, each has become an indispensable part of the other's life in the other's mind. At the same time, it also clarified the direction for what kind of mother-in-law she should be in the future.
The article about the life of the daughter-in-law and her mother-in-law's battle of wits and courage is very down-to-earth. The author narrates it as if it happened to him. Sometimes he is very angry with her mother-in-law, and sometimes he feels sympathy for her. In short, it is well written and delicate, and it is an article worth savoring.
The writing is very close to life and delicate. Mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, every family is different, come together to watch and learn...
The structure is clear and the characters are well portrayed. Watching it reminds me of my life back then.
After reading it, I was shocked: I was also reflecting on myself, how to be a good daughter-in-law, and how to get along with my daughter-in-law.
The story is vivid and a good book worth reading. It is written with emotion and emotion. Some plots are tear-jerking. Thank you to the author.
Less regrets, more thanks for tolerance, we are destined to be inseparable relatives
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