Mom! This Is My Life (A Record of the Growth of a Mother and Daughter That Makes People Cry and Laugh)

The author's writing style is very good, and I was deeply attracted when I read it. The author's experience expanded my horizons. I used to be limited to what my own school looked like, thinking that Chinese schools were like that. But when I read the author's description of Beijing No. 4 Middle School and Beijing Film Academy, I saw a school that seeks development for students, cultivates high-quality talents, is open and inclusive, and has teachers who respect students very much... Another point that I have a profound understanding of is that compared to constantly "chickening" myself and constantly "chickening" my children, healthy, happy and fun growth seems to be more important.

I am 29 this year. Compared with the people around me, I am neither above nor below, my EQ is not high, and my IQ and work ability are not top-notch. I want to lie down but dare not lie down, and it is really difficult to go up. I live in fear every day. Especially after the baby was born the year before last, I became particularly anxious. I wanted to create a good life for her, and this must have a certain material foundation. There is no hope in my career. Although my current job is stable and there are certain barriers in the industry, 🉑I still worry about gains and losses. Just like the two authors, maybe the mother in the author is unknowingly using the "chicken baby" method to relieve her anxiety about the future, while the daughter in the author has lost the ability to perceive happiness due to constant self-discipline! It's really hard to feel happiness!

Whether it's the mother's thoughts or the daughter's point of view, there is something touching about it. Raising children is a lifelong subject. No matter how well prepared you are, there are still many regrettable shortcomings. I hope to grow up with my daughter, raise a happy daughter, and heal myself from anxiety and depression.

The biggest feeling this book brings to me is the depth of maternal love and the difficulties faced by contemporary young people. Author, your mother really loves you very much. I am now 23 years old, and the bottom line for me is to always walk behind my mother. School and society are really different. As students, the whole society is taking care of us, but as ordinary people in society, we are at the bottom, protected by well-intentioned people and trampled by those with good intentions. I believe that most parents in the 70s and 80s have "chicken" kids, while those born in the 1990s are a little better. As a child that everyone has been through and a parent who has no experience yet, I would like to say that instead of forcing the child to study, it is better to cultivate a good character, teach the child to be a good person and have the courage to live in this world for a long time. I think this is enough. In fact, we are all online NPCs on Earth, and we will eventually see the same ourselves in different eras. There are no two identical leaves in this world, but there are uneven cypress trees, pine trees, and sycamore trees. The rings in the rings are the imprint of our growth. Please grow into what you expect, little adults!

This book is very real and allowed me to see the love and conflict between mother and daughter. I especially hated the way the mother in the book "fanaically" motivated her children, and this kind of love sometimes felt stressful. However, the book also shows the process of mother and daughter growing up together, which made me understand that good education is to explore life with children. This book made me think more about education, and I recommend it to you!

A 40-year-old middle-aged woman was attracted by the title of this book and read it. I wanted to learn how to be a mother by reading other people's stories. Compared to the author's mother, I am a Buddhist mother from a remote country, and it is difficult for me to accept this crazy chicken baby. Fortunately, the author is upbeat and self-disciplined. I also admire it very much. I just remembered that the education that is suitable for children is the best education. When my child is older, I plan to buy a paper book and read it with her again.

I have a lot of feelings. I not only see the hardship and high self-discipline behind the "cow baby", but also see the different ways parents treat education. At the same time, I think about my own life. I always feel that every choice has regrets. While comparing it, I will complain about my parents and feel helpless about the regional education resources...

It's quite beautiful, a different life.

So beautiful... So realistic... So inspiring.

The language is witty and humorous. I stayed up late to read it. It is worth recommending [laughs]