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This book gave me a lot of inspiration. I remember the author talked about a woman whose father was very strong and her mother was very gentle. My family is like this too, but Teacher Ni Ping tells us that we must be filial when we grow up. Otherwise, when our parents pass away, we will feel very guilty for not taking good care of them. I originally thought that when I grow up, I should run away from my family and never ignore my parents again. After reading this book, I changed my mind. I still need to be filial to my parents and let go of my childhood dissatisfaction with my parents. "Sunny days are a gift from God that allows you to see farther; rainy days are a gift from memories." ——Ni Ping
There are too many people who don't know how blessed they are. The world of women is complex and requires a lot of recognition. If they cannot be recognized, women will desperately try to find ways to get others to recognize them. In this way, they often lose their original true selves and live in the mouths of others. Many of the questions in this book coincide with my life. After reading Teacher Ni Ping's talk, I became more enlightened. If others can adjust their state to get better and better, so can I. In fact, it was Yun Hua, a 40-year-old children's writer who is still working hard to create, who inspired me. I also have dreams, but I often only dare to think about them. After work, there is a trivial life, rushing to the front non-stop, making myself physically and mentally exhausted. Behind the seemingly relaxed appearance is a very troubled heart, unable to accomplish a lot of things and unable to let go. I also look forward to being able to finish what I want to do wholeheartedly. Life is a long road, and there are things I have to do later.
This is an interview-style book in which several women discuss their troubles and confusions in a conversational manner. In the book, Teacher Ni Ping is mostly a sister. She talks to women in different situations about situations, confusions, conflicts, and choices that ordinary people encounter. By reading through this book, you will find that Teacher Ni Ping is a wise big sister who helps the interviewees solve, resolve, and understand the conflicts and problems they encounter. This can provide some psychological healing. Looking at the status of the interviewees in the book, you will find that everyone has ashes at the bottom of the pot. As a woman, it is really a difficult problem in practice to balance the relationship between self and others, life and work, parenting and work, etc. However, as a woman, you must first have yourself, then believe in yourself, and then live an objective and upward life. Then in the process of accumulation, you will find that you are getting stronger and stronger, and the shining self is coming towards you!
It is true and objective. Through the life difficulties and work problems encountered by real-life women, and the conversational communication method, I have seen that too many women face the same problems as me, from being overwhelmed to unraveling their knots and facing and accepting the reality bravely. In short, it is worth recommending.
When people reach middle age, they have more or less accumulated some life issues for themselves, especially modern women. They have to fight in the workplace, manage marriages, and struggle with the person in their original family... Then come and Ni Let's talk about Ping. This is the second book I've read by Ni Ping after "Grandma's Quotations". It's like chatting with an intimate sister who is much older than me about the confusions in life. The questions and answers answer the questions for me who will be 37 years old during the Chinese New Year~
9.3⭐️It's because fewer people see it. It's a guiding light for people who are confused about marriage, work, and parent-child relationships. Teacher Ni Ping brings us different thoughts through conversations with different people. We have another understanding of life, work, children, husband-wife relationships, and parent-child relationships. There are many golden sentences in the article. I'm sorry that I didn't remember too many. I like the sentence about accumulating feelings in life. Teacher Ni Ping can always make people who are in the fog see the sun through the clouds. The feeling of sudden enlightenment is really amazing.
This book is recorded in the form of a conversation, which is cordial and intimate. We are like observers, but also participate in it, thinking about ways to solve the problem together. Teacher Ni Ping's wisdom on life is to experience it, life is nourishment. Flexibility, perseverance, and wisdom are the qualities of the body.
Beautiful, Teacher Ni Ping said eloquently, chatting with each guest can open up each other's heart, just like a doctor, giving good medicine, she is really a wise and talented woman.
This book is very detailed! Every story is inspiring, and you can more or less find your own shadow, love, family, marriage, and children. This is exactly what we women have to go through. The wise and kind suggestions given in the book are of great benefit. Great book!
Teacher Ni Ping is so wise. I feel that no matter what kind of problem you have, you will have a good way to deal with it after chatting with her. She also gives corresponding answers and suggestions for different groups of people. This is the best, and it also reflects on yourself through other people's lives. It is worth watching.
I really want to see the world of inner struggle I am going through. My work has changed, from high intensity to relaxed and non-existent. In the process, there is another baby in my life. I don't know whether to choose the original job or keep the status quo?
In life experience, everyone has their own troubles and life, and all kinds of problems. In the final analysis, you still need to rely on yourself to change yourself, improve yourself, and innovate yourself. Every choice has different results. You must learn to accept it, and you must also learn to give up and adjust at the right time.
There are all kinds of life, and everyone has the right to choose. Everyone wants to live a good life and find their own happiness. But real life is always full of ups and downs. If you hone yourself and grow in things, happiness may be right in front of you. The wisdom of life narrated in the book is both kind and empathetic. I hope we can all live the way we want.
Because I like to watch the host competition, I fell in love with the host, and gradually became familiar with Teacher Ni Ping. I like her humorous and straightforward personality. I just finished reading this book, and I feel like I still have more to learn. I really want to hear a few more stories, and I really want to hear more of Teacher Ni Ping's heartfelt suggestions. I have benefited a lot from reading this book. In my forties, I am also working hard to become a better version of myself. I keep working hard and hope it will get better and better.
Reading different people's stories seems to have their own stories. What Teacher Ni Ping said was very heart-wrenching and very kind. In her words, as long as you are young, everything is possible, and it doesn't hurt to live slower [Like][Like][Like]
This book shows the life wisdom of different women through interviews, and the content is real and warm. Teacher Ni Ping's writing style is simple and natural, just like chatting with friends, making people feel friendly. The characters in the book are all very vivid, and their stories resonated with me and inspired me a lot. This is a great book worth reading!
Is life bitter? There must be suffering, as long as we live our lives there will be suffering, right? The so-called suffering does not mean the suffering of poverty, but the suffering caused by the pursuit of the spiritual world.
"Hey, that's great!" This is what I said to myself after reading this book. 2025.12.4 06:20 Finished reading! I am also very grateful that I can read this book. Although there is no female friend who can sit opposite me in it, Teacher Ni Ping's eloquent words, kind and simple language, are so full of life philosophy. I feel like my own life is more transparent!
Read it every day before going to bed and learn about your own life from other people's stories. The suggestions given by Teacher Ni Ping are very pertinent. Especially on the topic of favoring sons over daughters (in fact, there are many families that favor daughters over sons), Teacher Ni Ping said that it is like having kittens and puppies at home. The kittens are well-behaved. Just because you like kittens more does not mean that you don't like puppies. If parents love less, they will be more successful in life (career, wealth, marriage). Being doted on is not necessarily a good thing, the life script is just different. Learn to love yourself and accept yourself. When you encounter problems in life, don't get stuck in them. If you look at it over time, the key points will become clear. Don't make your future self feel regretful. Live in the moment and be grateful for everything you already have.
This book can be read by both singles and married people. Reading it will bring some inspiration to your own life. Teacher Ni Ping's writing style is warm and simple, as if she is a neighbor grandma listening to the inner struggles and confusions of these young or old people. Teacher Ni Ping's answers are also very realistic and highly operable. Sometimes she will also give you several options for you to choose from. People who can talk to such a teacher are really lucky. I am very envious that these people have the opportunity to talk to Teacher Ni Ping. If I can also meet my favorite writers (Chi Zijian, Bi Shumin) in my lifetime, it will simply fulfill one of my great wishes in life, and I will die without regrets. Of course, I still like Teacher Ni Ping very much. She is warm, kind and naive. The content of the story is very good, and the narration is reassuring.
Teacher Ni Ping selected women at different stages, ages, and professions. The content includes basic issues that women care about, career choices, marriage management, parenting strategies, etc. After reading it, I was deeply inspired and enlightened. Teacher Ni Ping is a very wise and tolerant book. I recommend it and it is worth reading by women.
A wise conversation that is very inspiring for real life and worth reading like wine! After reading it, I feel that the world is vast and there are many possibilities in life. It is up to you to choose the ideal of freedom and reality that suits you! I also rethink how I should deal with my father who is always arguing about trivial matters!
The whole book describes the conversation process between Ni Ping and several female friends. The emotions are sincere. It faces the various confusions that women face in work, marriage, and family life. Teacher Ni Ping gives us answers one by one. Very good!
It's a great work. I especially like to read this kind of real-life stories recently. I used to encounter many things that I couldn't see clearly or understand, but I would observe the details in life and talk to myself. Combined with the wisdom of teachers in the book to deal with problems, I gradually saw a lot of things clearly. I no longer felt like I was being led away. I gradually gained the feeling of being in control of myself and understood what I wanted and what I didn't want. Thank you, teacher! [Love][love][love]
Life needs to be "designed", love yourself well, and manage it the way you want.
Learned a lot! This book is really a "treasure". Each short story contains some ways and means of how women at every stage should deal with life. I like Teacher Ni Ping more and more. Every word she says is particularly powerful. This book is simply a piece of life advice for single or married women, and you should read it more.
Ni Ping's interviews with women explore topics such as life, life, gender relations, women's health, workplace, parenting, etc., And raise some issues faced by highly educated and high-ranking women in contemporary society. After reading it, I was deeply touched. The writing is smooth, the language is simple and vivid, and it is worth reading.
Teacher Ni Ping is open-minded and transparent. After reading her book, I felt suddenly enlightened, as if many of the problems that were tangled in my heart were solved. I believe I will read this book a second time, a third time, and many times.
Everyone's life is different. The family of origin can affect one's life. I hope everyone can be happy. We must also work hard to give our children a good family environment. Let your children live a happy life. I am a child who grew up surrounded by love. I hope kindness will accompany me throughout my life~~
After reading it, I feel very good. People should not be at odds with themselves, and should not be too attached to relationships with others. Live a simple life