***** Yourself

I opened this book with curiosity. I have benefited a lot from reading this book. It makes sense to think that reading this book will be beneficial. After re-reading it, I also took notes on the reading. I think that everyone's living environment is different, and although everyone's understanding of life is different, they all reach the same goal by different paths. Those who have not known her before will have a certain understanding of Yang Tianzhen after reading this book. I really like her ability to deal with, solve and communicate problems. This depends on her prediction in advance, her efforts behind the scenes, and her ability to solve problems after a crisis occurs. Of course, what benefits me the most is getting to know myself, which is wonderful. Name the way for the confused and hesitant people. Hope we all still have time. Tomorrow is another day Let's encourage each other——

I first learned that she started with a certain sound, and then I listened to her podcast. I read this book out of curiosity about her and at the same time I wanted to improve my communication skills. There is no better way to deal with the harm done to you by someone close to you. You have to leave it to time and divert your attention. I appreciate her honesty. Indeed, there are many implementation methods worthy of our practice. For me, the most impressive sentence is: the attitude can be tactful, but the content must be direct!

I read very quickly, and I couldn't understand many things, but I learned a lot and I also reflected on them. I like one sentence very much: Using emotions as a weapon for utilitarian purposes is a very low-level method. Smart people deal with problems first and emotions later

This book is very good! Yang Tianzhen shares many practical communication skills in the book, which are all summarized from her own experience and are of great reference value. I particularly like her direct and sincere communication style, which I find very effective. However, there is a character in the book that I don't like very much, that is, the colleague who is always self-righteous. I hope I won't meet such a person in real life. Overall, this book is worth reading and I recommend it to you!

I fell in love with Yang Tianzhen from the talk show conference, and then followed her podcasts and read her books. I really like this kind of thoughtful and confident beautiful woman. She is so charming and worthy of a second viewing!

## Sobering agent or quick-acting drug? Communication methodology of "Take Yourself Seriously" Yang Tianzhen's "Take Yourself Seriously" is undoubtedly a dose of workplace sobriety. She tears apart the veil of warmth and treats communication as a battle with clear goals. The book's declaration of "solve problems first, then soothe emotions" puts efficiency before favors and directly addresses the pain points in the workplace. Its edge is alarming. The cases in the book are as vivid as a razor's edge: during the artist's contract termination crisis, she finally achieved a decent breakup by relying on candid communication that went straight to the core; in the face of a media crisis, she used the "information first" strategy to proactively resolve doubts and reverse the situation. These practical wisdoms shine with strategic light. However, "naive communication" also has its boundaries. When she pushed communication efficiency to the extreme, the deliberate alienation from emotional interaction in some cases virtually weakened the value of empathy as a bridge for deep connections. Especially for newcomers in the workplace, if they only regard it as a guideline, they may go astray into being too instrumental. This book is not a panacea, but a sharp mirror that reflects the reality of the game and the pursuit of efficiency in communication. It reminds us: While "taking ourselves seriously", we should not let the power of "naivety" obscure the complex temperature of human communication - if we only focus on achieving the goal and ignore the temperature of people's hearts, no matter how sharp the tool is, it will eventually wear out.

There is not much nonsense. The author's writing logic and intention can be seen in the whole book. It is well-guided and has a very good reading experience. There are many places worth learning and thinking about. Communication is an art. Finding problems with answers and awareness of the overall situation are all well taught.

Yang Tianzhen knows everything, but can still be so naive. In this book, you can learn from her high emotional intelligence, high efficiency in handling things and thinking from multiple perspectives. If you want to work in her company, some of the cases in it can also help you to better deal with "tricky" interviewers like her.

It is very practical and I think it is suitable for young people in the workplace. A lot can be learned. It also allows you to reflect. Become a better version of yourself. Many of the cases in it are very practical and can be applied to things around you.

Strong people always have something special about them When you don't know what you want, think about what you don't want. Whatever you decide to do, do it 100%. Learn to give up. Maintain honest communication.

A person's struggle is like pregnancy. As time goes by, it will always be seen. A person's thoughts are determined by his pattern. If the pattern is not big enough, you will always be stuck in the same place. Tell no lies, tell no truth. Sincerity is a state of communication, not revealing everything. Instead of spending so much energy on improving your shortcomings, you should spend the same amount of energy on improving your strengths. Long-term use of emotional tactics will make those around you immune. When you have real emotions you won't be taken seriously.

When I first read the title of this book, I thought it was a chicken soup book, but in fact it is a very practical book. Some of the stories in the book also made me think about myself in life and work. As a newbie in the workplace, I also learned a lot after seeing some of Yang Tianzhen's views from the perspective of being a boss.

For a social adult, this book is very operational. Many things that parents, colleagues, and leaders have not taught you, here you can learn. Thanks to the author, he teaches us step by step how to be a human being.

Feel like an elder Tell me some workplace experience in my ear Every one of them is pragmatic and practical. The place to stay is very real. I feel that the style of doing things really depends on a person's personality Therefore, character determines success or failure to a certain extent.

In the past two years, I have read a lot of books on communication, and I have continued to practice deliberate practice in my life. This book not only provides more methodologies, but also more practical methods of deliberate practice that can be upgraded. Highly recommended!

It's very interesting and there are many points of view that I agree with.

I was very inspired after reading this book. Although I read it intermittently, the content of this book did become more and more exciting as I read it, and it also made me realize some of my own problems.

For me, a person born in the 1970s, I am surprised by such an opinion that is different from the norm. It is not so much alternative as it is in line with the thinking of young people in modern society. Sharp and sharp words need to be understood slowly and slowly.

Thank you for your innocent sister's book, which made me realize something.

It provides a clearer understanding of communication issues. It is a good introductory book and is simple and easy to understand.

I got to know a different Yang Tianzhen, with many new and novel opinions that I strongly agree with! I think I will open this book again one day~

Yang Tianzhen's words are like a sobering medicine, directly hitting the spiritual internal friction of contemporary people.

I like the things that Teacher Tianzhen analyzed, with myself as the first vision and writing from my own perspective. I also learned more about Teacher Tianzhen's style of doing things and the "speed" of handling things.

It's a very interesting book. It's full of useful information. I can't stop reading it and want to keep reading.

A very functional book, it guided me through a trough period and I learned a lot.

It is the author's sincere sharing that allowed me to sort out my inner confusions over and over again.

Frank and sincere, careful thinking, even many detailed examples, naive and different

A very real book, very useful for my own inspiration

I like what Teacher Yang Tianzhen said very much, it is very sharp and sharp.

The advice given by the innocent lady in this book is great and will be of great benefit to a person who is about to graduate and enter the workplace.