I Am You: 7 Practices to Enter the Hearts of Others

Disagreement → Struggle formation stage: Disagreement - refutation - attack - threat - struggle. How to avoid fights: 1. Calm yourself down Thinking about it from different angles produces different emotions. Breathe deeply (exhale longer than inhale). 2. Help the other person calm down Agree with the other party's point of view, agree with it 3. Retell Repeat the other person's point of view, Show understanding to the other person, Confirm whether you understand correctly. 4. Juxtapose the needs of both parties. 5. Think about solutions together.

This book is very good. I lost the physical copy, so I just took notes first -_-|| Really, I love Tomato every time. It's so free. How can it make money? (I'm a little worried, where is the emoticon that points the finger...)

Thanks to the author for sharing. It seems that my family is stuck in the leader stage, unable to express their needs normally, which leads to bad interpersonal relationships. I learned effective communication skills from King Blue. I hope our lives will get better and better.

The author starts with the story and teaches us step by step how to control emotions, think about problems, solve problems, and finally how to achieve a win-win situation for both parties. Fascinating, it's a good book and worth reading.

Emotions can bias people, so you must calm down and stabilize your emotions before making a decision.

Communication and conflict resolution are the most difficult skills. I saw some comments saying that some people are scoundrels and how to communicate. The author seems to have mentioned how to deal with this situation. The solution is to try a few steps first and try a few more times, usually three times. If you are in a good mood, you can try one more time. If it still doesn't work, stay away.

This book is very well written. It's easy to read in a fairy tale way. It was dismantled step by step and finally summarized. The first step is to calm down your emotions. The second step is to calm down the other person's emotions. The third step is to ask questions to the other party to understand their needs or reasons. The fourth step is to repeat what the other person said. The fifth step is to use parallel words to express your point of view. Step 6: Find a win-win solution together.

This book opens the narrative chapter in the tone of a fairy tale, and then uses the plot of the story to develop the six important knowledge to be explained. The plot is vivid, step-by-step, and has a beginning and an end. The Red King and the Blue King finally shake hands and achieve a win-win situation, and the appearance of purple footprints is a complete comedy, haha.

This book is very good. The author uses anthropomorphic language expression in the form of stories, and uses specific cases to demonstrate the methods and methods of resolving conflicts at a very detailed operational level, which is of great practical guidance value. The construction of the mission scenes and the arrangement of the storyline are all immersive and make you want to read it in one sitting. Highly recommended

Makes sense, learned from it!

Try to understand others rather than trying to be understood

A very good book that systematically teaches readers how to avoid conflicts in the form of stories. Using stories as a carrier, it is fascinating and full of fun. It will not be boring to read, and the principles in it will be more deeply understood. The purchased entity is given to friends who have communication problems, hoping they can make progress.

The story is simple and easy to understand, allowing people to deeply understand how to avoid differences from turning into conflicts, how to resolve conflicts, and ultimately achieve a win-win outcome.

Great, let me try it out in practice

A book that requires practice

Very educational

There are many solutions to problems, but achieving a win-win situation requires constant exploration and learning. I also need to work hard to learn solutions so that I can get more benefits from communication.

Learned something, but still need to put it into practice.

The method of resolving conflicts with others is very good. I found the content in the middle a bit boring and at the same time deepened my memory of the art of problem solving.

The full text begins with the Red King and the Blue King changing their course from a river, and the issue of water intake triggered a series of disputes. As a result, the people of the two countries lived in dire straits, and the two countries became life-or-death enemies. In order to solve this problem left over from history, the Blue King Orm embarked on a journey to find the answer. He encountered various adventures along the way, and learned how to communicate with others from these things. In the end, he used the knowledge he learned to resolve the dispute between the two countries. The six steps of this method are summarized for us at the end of the book, which is perfect! I gained a lot, thank you🙏

Be patient and look down, the rewards will be great!

The articles write about fictional things about other people, but you can often find reflections in your own experiences. It's amazing!

The expression technique is novel than similar books

This is a book that teaches us to communicate with people through mythological storylines. And a little bit of psychology.

The art of communication and win-win cooperation need to grow through continuous practice

Introducing engaging narrative techniques makes it easier for people to understand and master communication skills. I have indeed learned something, thank you author.

Profound but not boring, it is a good book for the new era

Great, interesting, light-hearted and humorous, practical

The art of communication is told through vivid and interesting stories, which are fascinating and contain thought-provoking philosophy. The reading experience is great, I read it in one sitting.

Really great 👍🏻 Good story and useful