Raising Without Educating Is a Disaster for Parents

After reading more than forty chapters, Xiuqiao's two husbands are really unimaginable and unreasonable. I thought that divorce would be a relief, but I never thought that the real nightmare would begin after divorce. The pain of a marriage is only a period of pain. But the pain of a child is a lifetime of pain. I feel that although Xiuqiao is hardworking and kind-hearted, it is precisely because of her kindness that she does not understand the evil of human nature, so she cannot understand the impact of marriage on her children and ignores her children's inner upbringing. Xiuqiao's best friend does this very well. This book not only describes Xiuqiao's marriage experience, but also describes the living conditions of several of Xiuqiao's friends. Several friends talk and support each other, reflecting the different impacts of different family backgrounds on individuals. The content of the book is true, the characters have their own characteristics, and it has warning significance. It reminds all girls to protect themselves and to fully understand each other from the aspects of character, personality, economic conditions, family and parent quality, etc. Before making marriage plans. After getting married, you must stop losses in time, use the interests and needs of yourself and your children as the decision-making principle, and don't be in love or be a good guy. Don't do bad things with good intentions. If you don't have thunderbolt means, don't follow the heart of a Bodhisattva. Finally read the whole book. Xiuqiao's three marriages have gone through many hardships, which is certainly heartwarming. But I feel that Xiuqiao's son Shao Wei is more pitiful, more difficult, and stronger. The book describes how Shao Wei was able to firm up his original intention and realize himself in a twisted psychology that was fragmented and his left and right hands were attacking each other. I really admire him [Like]

Men are afraid of getting into the wrong profession, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. Girls are young and careless, and it is easy to see the wrong person. Xiuqiao was such a good girl, but her parents didn't check her in, and she didn't tell her friends and analyze her. She was so obsessed with love that she married Mr. Lang by mistake. How pathetic. I've only read a dozen chapters and I'm already feeling suffocated. I don't know if there will be anything else that Xiuqiao can't bear to look back on later. This book is written very realistically, with rich characters and different images. Xiuqiao is kind and has a bottom line, Liandi is cute and heartless, and Shaozhen is cowardly and has a holy heart. The stories in the book let people know that there are always good people, and bad people are also around, so it is necessary to be on guard against others. Girls must protect themselves.

After reading more than twenty chapters, I felt depressed. The beginning is beautiful, but the more you watch it, the more depressing it becomes. If you feel that your marriage is unfortunate, just watch Xiuqiao. I guarantee that you will feel that you have found a good husband and you should cherish it. The author records Xiuqiao's story from a third-person outsider perspective. The story is true, the plot is compact, and there is no unnecessary nonsense. The words in the book are understated, but the facts of life are so heavy. After reading it, people lament Xiuqiao's experience and at the same time admire Xiuqiao's strength, allowing people to see clearly the reality of life and the dangers of human nature. It encourages us to face all encounters and misfortunes in life with a more calm attitude.

The preface is so fascinating, I really want to know what the protagonist Xiuqiao has experienced in her life? A choice when you were young?

Living a luxurious and ungrounded life without a boss is a true reflection of ordinary people. Ordinary women have no goals or plans year after year. An unworthy child, a playboy, a cowardly woman with no ideas, all the rubbish on the ground

After reading Chapter 82, Xiuqiao, and the marriage between Ai Ru and Shaozhen, I feel that a marriage certificate is not important. Educating children well is more important. Just having a partner in life is enough, marriage is not required. The description of the characters' psychology in the book is very good. Everyone actually considers their own interests. After reading the whole book, I found that finance is the key factor that determines whether a marriage is happy. If the scumbag had money and a house, Xiuqiao would probably not get divorced.

A true portrayal of ordinary working people. Housing, education, and medical care are three big mountains that prevent ordinary people from relaxing. Men are not responsible, women are not stable, and families are not happy.