In the face of conflicts, are you accustomed to hiding your own ideas and compromising with others, or are you brave enough to face provocations and boldly assert your own rights? Agreeableness and aggression are not mutually exclusive. You can defend your rights in a more harmonious atmosphere in a way that is acceptable to the other party. The author of this book combines his many years of theoretical research and practical experience to summarize a set of replicable conflict response methods - so that when we are attacked or trapped in the swamp of conflict, we can save ourselves as soon as possible, become friends with the other party, and reach a consensus, so that we can live more confidently and healthily.
Reader comments
This book provides a set of practical conflict coping methods that will benefit people a lot. It reminds me of Nonviolent Communication, both of which emphasize resolving conflicts in a positive way. The advice in the book can not only help us communicate better in the workplace, but also applies to dealing with conflicts between family and friends. I used to have problems communicating with my family, but now I feel more courageous to express my ideas and seek consensus. Recommended to all friends who are eager to improve their relationships!
This book is very well written. I am a person who is not good at expressing myself and am afraid of dealing with relationships and communication. After reading this book, I have absorbed a lot of nutrients and gained the courage to communicate with others. I will read it several times more to understand the practice more deeply. Thank you to the author for sharing such an excellent book. I wish you to set sail and fly higher in the future.
The general logic is useful, but many of the detailed words and phrases in it may be more in line with Western concepts of conversation. You can modify them according to actual application in life.
Conflict is not a head-on confrontation. The fundamental way to solve the problem is different ideas and different opinions. How to reach a consensus and let others understand you is difficult, so you should take this responsibility on yourself to understand the reasons for other people's opinions.
The structure is clear and concise. After explaining the truth, it also gives some easy-to-understand examples.
This book provides a set of practical conflict coping methods that will benefit people a lot. It reminds me of Nonviolent Communication, both of which emphasize resolving conflicts in a positive way. The advice in the book can not only help us communicate better in the workplace, but also applies to dealing with conflicts between family and friends. I used to have problems communicating with my family, but now I feel more courageous to express my ideas and seek consensus. Recommended to all friends who are eager to improve their relationships!
This book is very well written. I am a person who is not good at expressing myself and am afraid of dealing with relationships and communication. After reading this book, I have absorbed a lot of nutrients and gained the courage to communicate with others. I will read it several times more to understand the practice more deeply. Thank you to the author for sharing such an excellent book. I wish you to set sail and fly higher in the future.
The general logic is useful, but many of the detailed words and phrases in it may be more in line with Western concepts of conversation. You can modify them according to actual application in life.
Conflict is not a head-on confrontation. The fundamental way to solve the problem is different ideas and different opinions. How to reach a consensus and let others understand you is difficult, so you should take this responsibility on yourself to understand the reasons for other people's opinions.
The structure is clear and concise. After explaining the truth, it also gives some easy-to-understand examples.
Very good book
Philosophy of Life Laman
Not bad, I hope I can practice more [laughing]