It Turns Out You Are so Cute

Suppressing your inner shadow is like cutting your head off to cure a headache, the worst way to deal with it. Only by stopping escaping from oneself can a person achieve anything. Only by bravely facing the dark side of oneself can we truly recognize ourselves. Even if we firmly believe that one person can live a good life, life is made of connections between people. People are everything. Connection between people is everything. We think that people can be completely independent, self-satisfied, and dismissive of others. But one day, we can no longer support such a life alone. Your true self can never be fully revealed in a smooth life. Without many painful failures, we will never see the hidden parts of ourselves. Life is vast, majestic and complex, and it is difficult for us to see the whole picture based on our personal cognition. The experiences and reflections we gain from past experiences determine our changes and growth. Sometimes, life is like a jigsaw puzzle. It requires us to have enough patience. After a long time, we can piece it together bit by bit, draw the complete pattern, and see its full picture. The only constant in life is change itself, whether it is physical, emotional or psychological. Personal wishes do not determine everything. Maybe sometimes letting life take its course can also achieve good results. Praise from others helps us build confidence and motivates us to keep working hard, learning and growing. Everyone living in this world is unique, it's that simple, unique just because we exist. Ignoring one's own personal value, or even doubting whether one has enough value, is one of the dangers that cannot be ignored in our journey of life. It is when we have nothing, when we are vulnerable, tired, and scarred that we can see the treasure we have always held but ignored—our freedom. Everyone in the world has a unique way of dealing with others and creating value for life, and this way is often developed based on our own perceived weaknesses. In love, everyone's limitations are hidden behind ourselves, which is clear to onlookers and confused to those in authority. If you want to gain true and profound love, then you must first learn to love others and be prepared to work hard for this throughout your life. Love is an unsolved mystery. Stopping memories does not mean forgetting, but it is the most reasonable way to commemorate the things we have experienced and loved. When you can't go back, all you have to worry about is what's the best way forward. Letting go of something and ending a relationship is not something that can be done easily, and it never has been. Making a decision is just the beginning, and it can take us a long time to truly let go of the residual emotions hiding behind a difficult situation. Being born as a human being is inherently difficult. Love is not the cause of happiness, but the result of happiness. Only when we have the freedom of choice can we truly love and be loved, and be our true selves. The arrival of love is joyful, and it will immediately change our lives, making them sunnier, better, and more fulfilling. The arrival of love is a gift from fate, it always comes without warning and turns on the light in our inner room. No emotion is negative in itself. In fact, there will always be a bright future after all times are gone. When you stare into the abyss, the abyss stares into you. Loneliness does not depend on the company of others around us, but comes from within us. What really makes us unpleasant is not our unpleasant aspects, but our disrespect for ourselves and our tendency to cater to others against our will. ——2025.2.4

The little girl and the little monster in the book are like two voices inside us, one is brave and the other is timid. Sometimes we need to talk to our own "little monsters" to discover how cute and powerful we are. Just like I was once afraid of facing my own imperfections, but later I understood that only by accepting my own imperfections can I love myself better. This book is really healing, I recommend it to everyone! 🤗

Good looking and healing, it gave me direction when I was confused at the moment.