Return to 90: I Don't Want the Days of Getting Married and Having Children

It's quite sad that a woman has no home after she gets married. You are a stranger in your husband's house, but you are a guest in your mother's house. Feeling bad at home, depressed, in pain and don't know where to go? There is concern when leaving, but there is no way back. . .

Very close to reality. Someone in the comments section said that the heroine still feels aggrieved after being reborn. In fact, the heroine's rebirth is just to redeem herself. She is already very powerful. Stay away from your family of origin and work hard to make money. After all, the heroine in her previous life had been living under pressure. She had low self-esteem, was cowardly, and could not escape from her parents. Her best effort was to leave with her daughter. Family is the hardest thing to let go of, and it takes at least multiple injuries before you can let go of it. If you encounter this kind of girl in real life, you will feel sad for her. I understand now. Most of those who can resist have the confidence, whether it is the confidence brought by their families or themselves, which makes us dare to resist.

A very pragmatic novel, with no cheats or fantasy. I like the down-to-earth life of the heroine. I'm really happy that the heroine is getting richer and richer, but she feels so tired, having to work and set up a stall. I had no money in my pocket when I bought the land, so I had to continue working. I made money by selling my land, but then I bought a house and got a lot of debt, and I had to continue working [laughing]

After reading Chapter 72, the heroine's recollection of her past life is really annoying. Regarding the weird parents who are so controlling, the heroine did not think about changing them or getting entangled with them after her rebirth, but it was the right thing to change herself and stay away from them. It's fun to yell at people. I have been in the rain myself, and when I extend my hand to those who are in the rain, I don't think of the Holy Mother, I just want to say that good people will be rewarded. I like this kind of heroine.

The most satisfying thing about this book is that it is true. There are quite a lot of people born in the 1970s who are not valued by their original families like the heroine in the article. After reading this book, I understood the sentence "Unfortunate childhoods take a lifetime to heal." The heroine is already very powerful. If you think about it from another perspective, it is not easy to grow up in an extremely repressive family without being driven crazy. Big cheers for the author! I hope every girl in this book can have a good ending.

What should I say about this book? My writing skills are limited. I think it is more like the author's dream, or maybe it is a true story. In the first hundred chapters, I felt that this mother was quite similar to my mother. The only difference was that she cared about her daughter, which my mother didn't. In the second hundred chapters, it wasn't until my father died that I realized that my mother was indeed much better. At least she was reasonable, not messy, or without limits. She insulted me and overturned all my previous thoughts and comments, but I still couldn't hate her. Maybe it was because I was too eager for the love of my parents. I thought you could scold me if you wanted to. As long as you have me in your heart, I would be satisfied. In fact, my relationship with my mother is more like that of a big sister! The last one is also the place where I feel the deepest, Grandma! She reminds me of my grandparents who raised me. In the chapter about my grandma, I always cry so much that I can't help myself, because my grandma is gone and I have no financial conditions. I am too useless to be like Xiao Ke, but my mother is the most filial and my grandma loves her very much. What's more, it's not my turn to support her even if my uncle is there to support her. This book is very short, so short that I read it in two days. Unfortunately, I did not see the ending of my mother. If you want to read it, you can give it a try. I highly recommend it. It's not as vain as most of the rebirth articles, and there aren't any gold-fingered articles that are very practical. Everything is just based on experience.

Oh, I don't know what to say, I really want to see the ending

I finished reading it in one go, and many details resonated with me, especially at the end when my great-grandmother died and my father also died. I cried like rain. The ending was also very touching. My daughter also came through, and she didn't have to suffer so much anymore.

Among the many rebirth articles I have seen, this is the most realistic, and the life details are closest to the actual life environment and the words and behaviors of the evil mother in the family. The author's writing style is very good. The tender relationship between family and friends is shown like a trickle, which makes people feel like they have returned to the past. When the only second thought is the death of a loved one, it also makes people miserable, and they can feel the sadness and powerlessness of the heroine. Fortunately, in the end, the author still gave a happy ending. I wish the author another great work! ! ! This is a treasured author who has life and emotional experience, is as delicate as silk, and has great talents [Like][Like][Like]

It is well written, the story development is logical and the plot is completely derived from real life. There is no exaggeration. It portrays the "modestness" of Chinese parents in the past deeply. There are several books during this period that I couldn't put down. I wonder if I am tired of reading. Reading this book made me stay up late at night.

The writing is not bad, but the payment methods such as bank card transfer and POS card swiping described in the article should have slowly appeared after 2000. Around 1996, remittances were only settled by primitive remittance methods such as wire transfers and letter transfers. Is the metropolis where the author lives more advanced? This is just my personal understanding. Overall, this novel is quite good.

The author's writing is good. Although the heroine is getting richer and better, I don't feel that the heroine is living a good life. The whole book makes me feel very sad, especially in the early stage. I feel very frustrated, but I also understand that it is difficult for the heroine to escape from such a family, and such families and parents are not uncommon in real life. The more I read, the more suffocating I feel. Fortunately, the heroine in this life is getting better and better. I like the relationship between the heroine and the old lady the most. The warmth and soothing the slight sadness in this book. Although I have always liked reading non-CP books, I still think that the heroine is so good that no one is worthy of her. However, this book made me feel regretful for the first time. It is a pity that there is no soul mate who truly understands the heroine's true tolerance and unconditional tolerance. Maybe I usually like to read refreshing novels. I didn't expect to open this book when I first saw it. But the more I read, the more attracted I became and the sadder I became. The heroine obviously had a good life, but she was still very sad. In the end, I still couldn't hold on to finish it. However, overall this book is highly recommended!

Parents love their children for a long time. This is a beautiful word, but is this plan what the children want? The stubbornness of parents is that they have their own concerns, and the children cannot understand them. . . . . . . . . In short, it is difficult to have both ends of the world.

Home is not an unreasonable place. The housewife's extremely controlling personality and her tendency to suppress others are actually very common in many families. People who were unhappy in childhood really need to become stronger in order to slowly make up for themselves and heal themselves. But there are also many people who hate their parents and unknowingly become like the parents they hate.

Although in the chapter of the household register when the heroine returns home, her mother's dream is written, which is a bit of whitewashing, but I think this whitewashing is a bit interesting. After all, the heroine in the previous life did not feel any warmth from her mother until her death. I hope that even if there is no big change in this life, at least she will not be so desperate.

Very well written, why is the rating so low?

A very realistic and true book. In the 1990s, a girl who was not valued by her family was really struggling. Girls who are not loved by their mother-in-law's family will rarely be cherished by their husband-in-law's family. There must be some, but not many, because there will be more in-laws' families who watch others take care of the dishes. If your mother's family doesn't take you seriously, your husband's family will be unscrupulous, and no one will support your daughter-in-law anyway. Li Xiaoke was doing well after her rebirth. She planned her plans step by step and left this home. He was very happy to see her buying a house and moving her household registration. A woman can only have peace of mind if she has a home of her own in this world.

A pretty good piece of work. There is no golden finger, no space, it is a real story about rebirth. The work is humorous, the family love is very heavy, it makes people burst into tears, and the friendship is very deep. It is beautiful, so beautiful!

Well written and very true. It is true that there is no male protagonist, but that does not prevent it from having a suitor. Generally speaking, it is the heroine's self-salvation.

They always say they don't want to fall in love, and they always love Ye Zi. They always have various reasons to stay together. It's amazing.

Take a good look, not everyone has a beautiful childhood, not everyone can have a good family atmosphere, and not everyone has a beautiful marriage. The process of human growth requires time and gradual adjustment.

It truly and objectively tells the story of how a child who grew up in a family with a weak mother and a weak father struggled to escape from his original family and settle down. In his life, he really encountered a mother full of energy, which affected the destiny of one or even several generations.

Wonderful, beautiful! Recommend

It's nice, but a bit confusing

Very good book. But in the end I didn't understand why my daughter was found? So now many people who are unmarried and infertile are all reborn [laughing]

The writing is very realistic. When I saw my grandma holding Ye Zigang's hand and praising him as a good young man, I thought of my grandma and wanted to cry.

A very good book, very true?

The writing is very realistic and true, and the process is wonderful and not verbose. It's a pity that the heroine's father passed away.

The writing is very good, very detailed, and very touching and true. There were a few places that made me cry. I hope the author will continue to work hard and write better works. I look forward to it.

This book is one of the best and top novels I have read on Tomato.