Thank You for Your Hard Work, Inner Child

But give it to the person you like. My former self would have doubted, is a person like me worthy of being favored by others? Nothing special? Why is it worthy of being preferred by others? Until I met him, he gave me unconditional love and told me over and over again that you are unique in this world and you deserve the best. It turns out that preference is just like the point of view mentioned in this book written by the author. There is no reason why you are worthy of preference. Thereby forming one's own strong core, constantly accepting oneself, and cultivating oneself again. I will encourage myself every day, give myself a steady stream of energy and confidence, and accept myself.

This book is like writing about myself, and it also allowed me to re-understand myself, a new self. From the book, I saw the fragile and sensitive self, and also saw my own shortcomings and shortcomings. Children like us are indeed very tired of life, always blaming everyone, complaining about the unfairness of life, and blaming the people around us. I don't give you everything you want, but you never realize that you are actually the worst person without knowing it. After reading this book, from being a coquettish person to "acting", I realized that I am the person who exerts too much force to make heaven and earth make air. After reading it, I felt that I was so funny. In order to be with someone close to me, Looking for a sense of presence on my body, in order to prove that he cares about me, I was hurt again and again, and I did it too hard. Looking back on my childhood, why did I do it? Probably because when I was young and needed love, I always tried my best to please, but found that it was useless to please, and there would still be bad encounters. I was always deliberately trying to please. Suppressing your own grievances and sadness, you gradually come to believe that showing weakness will lead to being bullied, so you won't use cleverness to act coquettishly. You think that showing weakness means that you are a vulnerable group, which will inevitably lead to being pinched over and over again in the future. Even if he goes out of his way to comfort you in an intimate relationship, you still think that I can't show weakness. Once I show weakness, I will be bullied. Therefore, I have formed an independent and strong idea that I don't bother others and others don't bother me. You think that I am an independent individual and I don't need anyone to help me. I can do the same. Success, but it turns out that it is not. People are group animals, and they can only go a long way by helping each other. Perhaps it is because they have experienced too much indifference. A person has accomplished many things that he cannot do. He gradually becomes disappointed with people who long for love and care. Then he tells himself that it is better to rely on others than to do to others what you don't want others to do. In the middle of reading this book, when I was about to fall asleep at night, I suddenly thought that I could also hug the child who is deepest and scarred in my heart. He is hiding. I need to hug him and reconcile with him. I am also hugging myself. You have really worked hard these years, inner child.

This book touched me very much. It mentioned that there may be a wounded child living in everyone's heart, which is really resonant. Just like Sisi mentioned in the book, she became a pleaser because of her parents' education, which made me feel sorry for her. But I also don't like those "resentful people" who see themselves as victims and think everything is their parents' fault. We should learn to reconcile with ourselves and become our own healers like Sisi. This book is really good, I recommend it to you!

This book is very good. I saw my own shadow. I also started to learn from this book.

Change your thinking pattern

Very suitable for self-healing and improvement [send heart]

I learned a lot from it

All relationships are essentially the relationship between you and yourself. Deal with yourself. The body and mind are unified, internal and external are harmonious and self-consistent. Only then can we face others and the world better...