Deep Relationship

This book helped me a lot. I would like to mention that this book is very practical. For example, what the mind thinks is narcissistic. Only when the body experiences and practices it in reality can it be considered reality. For example, don't be in a hurry. For example, many wishes in work and life require time and space. Only with the accumulation of the most basic foundation and space can you realize your wishes with a high probability. And the most basic thing is that if the body has some external symptoms, such as tension, don't rush to solve it, look for the cause, and don't try to solve it as soon as possible. This needs to be explored slowly. Okay, this book is of great value. Some memes on the Internet often mislead people and make people think that this is the truth. However, only after understanding this book do you know that is not the truth. For example, we always feel that we are surrounded by bad relationships and are not worth dating, but we will slowly move towards darkness. Because there are no relationships around us, we will not be able to project. We always think about how bad the people around us are and how great we are, thus falling into the narcissism of the mind. But is this true? In fact, a bad relationship is better than no relationship. If there is no relationship, then we have no way to understand ourselves. This book contains so much gold, I look forward to reading it twice.

After reading "Deep Relationship" by Teacher Wu, I didn't understand much at first. The more I read, the more it felt like I was having a conversation with myself. My understanding of the so-called deep relationship is to reconcile with others, the environment, and myself, and establish a harmonious, relaxed and pleasant relationship. This requires that everyone should not be too narcissistic, let alone too frivolous, or too self-righteous. Sometimes when you think about the problem from another angle, you will suddenly realize that all good things and good moods must establish a deep relationship with others, the environment, and yourself. As long as the relationship is in place and the atmosphere is relaxed, people will show their own value, feel dignified, and feel happy!

It vividly introduces the psychological activities that often happen to us in life, such as educating children. Children are rebellious and cannot be controlled by us. They are really almighty and furious. It is really difficult to hold it back [laughing awkwardly], but I think I have to try. After all, we are also mortals. Not everything we say is right, and children also have their own egos. [Cover face]

I really recommend reading it and reading it again and again. Very profound and detailed analysis. My personal feeling is that in psychological books, it is difficult for people who have not personally experienced it to write down the smallest emotional details, except for some emotionally gifted people who are highly sensitive and can easily detect and empathize. This book allows me to seriously examine myself and cultivate my mind.

He showed me omnipotent narcissism, actions under the control of narcissism, investing time and energy to build relationships, feeling yourself in relationships, nourishing yourself, developing yourself and expressing yourself. People need to see themselves in relationships. This is a book worth reading again and again📚.

It's beautiful to watch, very rewarding, and you don't have to compete with yourself. When you meet "more serious" people, you will also try to understand (I am not a Holy Mother) and don't blame yourself for other people's mistakes. Live a long life in reality with your own heart

This book gave me a new understanding of psychoanalysis, especially the human coordinate system, the two-way expansion of the narcissistic dimension and the relational dimension. Narcissism is allowed, and you can release your own aggression in the emotional dimension, restrain it in the action dimension, and test it in relationships. I used to attach great importance to action and doing things because I felt that my unhappiness would be reduced after I changed my mind. Without the theoretical support of emotions, this book gave me the answer. Thank you very much, Teacher Wu. I also recommend more people to participate in reading, which will always give you a wonderful thinking process.

It's so true that the teacher immediately pointed out the problem: narcissism! I am too narcissistic and want everything to revolve around me. I will get angry if I don't get what I want. When Teacher Wu pointed out this matter, I felt deeply ashamed. Now I can understand that narcissism is the cause, but how do I change it? [What]

When a relationship is lost, if what you experience is primarily shame, that's the narcissistic level, "Failed in love means I'm so bad." And if you experience sadness, that's the relationship level, "I lost my love with you."

Creation is hidden in the gap between "issuance of intention" and "fulfillment of intention". Therefore, it can be said that the more important the intention or issue is, the more time and space it requires. There was nothing to say at the moment of writing, so I pasted the words I copied before and slowly thought about it and came up with these next words. It is a book with a lot of knowledge and rich experience examples. Now I am slowly experiencing the manifestation of knowledge and awareness in my life. Therefore, I have slowed down and realized the energy of death and life to explore my own life vitality. There are many vivid and appropriate examples, which made it easy for me to get into the book. While reading, there were many parts where I had a sudden awakening and realized that the essence of things is driven by almighty narcissism... These opened up my way of looking at myself and others, as well as things and emotions, and many questions were easily solved - for example, sometimes parents who are driven by almighty narcissism do things not for the benefit of their children, but just to satisfy their narcissism, and do many behaviors that hurt their children and may hurt themselves. The process of reading and applying exploration and awareness in daily life gradually eliminated a lot of my "uneasy death anxiety", and allowed my consciousness to explore the unknown and possibilities in time and space. Then I found that some problems did not need to be solved, and I could tolerate the parts that needed to be solved and realized that the process could happen naturally to me. Although there are some places where the connection is not profound, I can't quite understand it even if there are examples, but life continues to slowly explore and always exists...

I've loved reading a lot of psychology books since I was a kid, but in retrospect they didn't really help much. This book saves the book! Very helpful! It's just that the previous case analysis is too sharp, so just jump to the back and read jjfangfa

This is the first psychology book I have read. It is very interesting and offers a novel perspective on the world. All my past psychology and vague thoughts have been systematically explained in this book. I can use it to remind myself from time to time and get to know myself better. Rather than answering questions and solving doubts, I hope that others can read this book with the mentality of experiencing and seeking fun, and stimulate their own vitality and hobbies.

I admire teacher Wu Zhihong's word-making ability. I feel that every new word is very suitable for my psychological state at a certain period of time. It is also very straightforward and truly analyzes people's psychology. It also allows me to understand myself more deeply. I feel very useful after reading it [Congratulations]

I have read several books by Wu Zhihong, and this one seems to be the best among his books that I have ever read.

Reading this book, I feel as if I am talking about myself, which is exactly what the author said at the beginning. The basic logic of this book is verified by abundant cases, making it easy to convince. I don't know much about psychology, and I don't know what the evaluation of the theory in this book is in psychology, but I feel that the theory in the book can be used to analyze human behavior.

I think this book is very good! The "Humanity Coordinate System" mentioned by Teacher Wu Zhihong in the book is very practical and has given me a clearer understanding of the relationship between myself and the people around me. I especially like the analysis of "omnipotent narcissism" in the book, which reminded me of some of my unhealthy mentalities in the past, and also made me understand better how to build truly deep relationships with others.

The most awesome psychologist! A book recommended by Mr. Tian! Thank you Mr. Tian. At this stage, I really like Mr. Tian. I will read useful books several times!

This is one of the few books that I have calmly read. I feel that every case in the book is easy to understand with theoretical explanations and gives me a real feeling.

I have benefited a lot, the concept is novel and worth pondering

Talking about human nature from the perspective of psychology Just like the words in the book, "I am just a person." When we have this awareness, we can better accept ourselves and others.

Let many people see one of your books

This book is truly golden on every page

After reading every mantra, I suddenly became enlightened and benefited a lot.

I deeply agree. The real world is exciting and healing.

The viewpoint is novel, the perspective is unique and very inspiring.

Deep relationship made me understand myself, I will watch it a second time

For a deeper understanding of yourself and building deep relationships with others. Got a new understanding. Very helpful.

If you are confused in life, you can read it. If you encounter a dilemma that is mine and you can't figure it out, you can read it.

I have gained so much. This book by Teacher Wu has made me feel that I have grown up, and it also allows me to examine my past. It has a sense of awakening someone in a dream.

Easy to understand and very attractive