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It's a really good book. Some people struggle just to stay alive. Just like the heroine in the story, her native family is like a quagmire. She tried her best to climb out, but there were always people holding her back. The heroine is lucky to be able to go out and have a new life. Many people will never be able to go out in their lifetime, sitting in a well and looking at the sky, thinking that what they see is the whole world, which is very sad. Just like the heroine's mother, she is also a tragic character. She was exploited by her mother before she got married, and she was exploited by her mother-in-law and husband after she got married. She has never felt love in her life, so she doesn't know how to love others or her own children. She just lived a hard life, and her strength was exhausted just by living. She had no time or energy to improve herself, to care for herself, and to care for the people around her. I don't know how many people like this exist in China, which is very sad.

After reading "Lighting the Lamp and Boiling the Wax", I felt very deeply! I read book reviews and some people said they couldn't understand Li Yilu's subsequent support for his family, but I understood it. Her mother was limited by her environment and knowledge, so she had already tried very hard to love her. She believed her mother loved her again and again, and then she was hurt all over to slap her self-righteous love in the face, and then discovered that her mother loved her. When you become an adult, try to understand and repay your mother as much as possible. I think this is not the Virgin, this is the instinctive reaction of a kind person. To be honest, her mother's love is afraid of comparison. She loves her but she can't compare with her brother or her grandson. Speaking of Li Lele, readers will know that Zheng Yu and Li Jiarui will be very busy in the future. The relationship between Li Yilu and Zhou Congze is her luck. She has someone who can open up her heart and even have a dark and moist heart. Most people can only talk to themselves throughout their lives. Moreover, Zhou Congze likes Li Yilu as persistently as a woman from the Li family, knowing that she has inexplicable thoughts. Even if there is a dark side that hurts him, even if he is dissatisfied with her career and love, he still comes back to her. Li Jiarui also loved his sister when she was in high school. Could it be that he found a bad sister-in-law, so he has no friendship with her anymore? Or maybe you are afraid of comparison. Compared with your wife and children, others are cheap. The ending is too hasty!

What is destiny: what kind of family you are born into, what kind of parents you have, and what kind of genes you have. This is fate. What is luck: what era are you born in, what kind of economic cycle are you in. This is luck. Zhang Chunfang's family conditions and historical background determine her personal destiny. In fact, many times she has no choice but is pushed and pushed aside. In this case, women have no way out and can only struggle hard. She is a very hard-working and capable person, and it is good to live her life like this. She at least allows every child to read and take responsibility. Of course, she also has many shortcomings, such as favoring boys over girls, but this is also due to the influence of the social environment.

From a female perspective, we see the rise of the female spirit. It is a very realistic book. The character relationships and images in the book are applicable to most families. It can be said that this book made me sober up a lot. No man can be trusted, and excessive sympathy and love will not help me at all. A person is that kind of person. No matter how he changes later, he can't change his fundamental disadvantages.

My experience is very similar to that of the protagonist, except that I am not as lucky as the protagonist, and I do not have a mother who supports me in school and a younger brother who helps me vent my anger at critical times. Everything depends on oneself. When you are wronged, you hug yourself. When you are injured, you heal yourself... Everything is carried by yourself. It seems like all they have to do is give birth to me. Whether they can survive in this world depends entirely on themselves.

I was very moved after reading this story. I think some people today are a bit extreme. In the past, some parents were too patriarchal, such as Zhang Chunfang, which was indeed excessive, but there are many such people. As a daughter, Li Yilu is kind, and the final decision she made is understandable. She was right. Because Li Jiarui inflicts the suffering she has suffered on her daughter, which one can tolerate it and which one cannot? Nowadays, many young people are much more selfish than she is. They cannot tolerate their younger siblings in their hearts. No matter how fair their parents are, they still feel that they cannot enjoy their parents' resources alone! The human heart is so difficult to satisfy

I love reading any narrative centered around women. The only shortcoming of this book is that it's a bit of a curse. Although the background of the writing is from 198x to 202x, the speeches of the characters in the article are also limited by the times; but they are all articles, and I really want to change them to his father's. But to take a step back, don't be so harsh. I hope the author will write better and better, and I look forward to seeing more stories about women (I will also look for the book about genius sisters in the article).

The book is about an ordinary girl, and I am an ordinary boy.

Li Yilu in the book "My Ordinary Neighbor" left a deep impression on me. She was a little slow when she was a child, but she actually cared about other people's opinions. I love her resilience, trying to live her life even through pain. This book made me understand that everyone has their own growth trajectory, and we must learn to respect and understand others.

The idea of ​​favoring boys over girls has really poisoned many families and many people, especially many girls. Treating a boy as a root and pampering him without any regard for principles will only bring disaster. You must get an education, enter a big city, get in touch with the larger world, have a deeper level of thinking, and only then can you look at problems scientifically, rationally and objectively. Fortunately, we only have two daughters in our family, and my parents treat us equally. During the epidemic, our two small families were stuck at our parents' house. Those few months were the happiest and most relaxing days after work. There are no conflicts, only harmony. Cherish the rare time together, eat, drink and have fun.

It is well written, real and down to earth. It describes the preference for boys over girls in the countryside, feudal superstition, the living environment of rural girls... The psychological description of the heroine, and the efforts she makes to control her destiny. I have experienced a lot of them and feel the same way, and it is worth recommending. The writing style is also good. I have read several books about family life, but none of them made a big impression. Only this one left a deep impression because it describes rural people so accurately. I sincerely recommend it.

Personal opinion is good [love] I like it very much. The protagonist Li Yilu is a person who lives very hard. She is not perfect, but she works very hard and lives very hard. From her parents and ancestors, I saw some similarities in modern life, which touched me very much. I like [love] very much

Zhang Chunfang just wanted to spend her remaining years in a place she was familiar with, with her children and grandchildren by her side. Li Jiarui was by her side, and so was Li Lele. For her, it is better if her children and grandchildren are promising, and peace and joy are the greatest happiness if they are not promising. Her words and deeds have no impact on Li Lele. It is better to be a grandma who loves her grandson. She once gritted her teeth and asked Li Yilu to read the book. The money she spent on Li Yilu was a large part of her total savings at the time. Li Yilu only gave her a drop of her income, but she disliked her younger brothers and sisters for being ungrateful. It was impossible for Li Yilu to take her mother to her side and take care of her personally. Perhaps her mother did not want to leave the parents she was familiar with. After all, her mother understood from the beginning that she, a native of the countryside, would eventually have to make a living under her daughter-in-law. I closed my eyes before my daughter came back for the funeral. When people get old, they don't need a lot of money or companionship. Even if they know that their sons and grandsons are coaxing her money, she is still happy, because they are still willing to spend time talking, chatting, and eating with her. She loved Li Yilu and had known for a long time that after supporting her to go to college, she would have less and less time to come back after leaving this place, so she still provided for her. A mother's love for her children is always greater than a child's love for their parents. Li Yilu gave money to her mother to love her and to redeem herself. The books she read did not allow her to become an unfilial daughter. Everyone has his own life. Between brothers and sisters, if they have extra ability and money, they can help them if they want, and if they don't want to, they can get it. They have different views and cannot tell who is right and who is wrong.

Although people were not born in the same era, I can still see some shadows of my own experiences in them. For example, as the second daughter in the family, with an elder sister and a younger brother, she cannot be sure whether she is the one who is being ignored. But I have known since I was a child that only reading can change my destiny.

It's quite true. I watched it for several days and finally finished it. Families that favor sons over daughters are very sad.

This book is very real, really. I think the life of ordinary people is probably like this.

I stayed up late to read it, and I don't know why. Maybe the 70s and 80s have experienced it to some extent. Deeply feeling [grievance] [grievance] [grievance]

It is definitely a good book in Tomato.

Very beautiful, very real, not a brainless text

It is so well written. The original family is very important. On the surface, it is about the phenomenon of favoring boys over girls in rural areas. In fact, it reflects the ugliness of human nature. As a city dweller who has no experience of rural life and does not understand the countryside, I was quite shocked after reading it. The reason why more and more urban people now avoid people from backward rural areas in marriage is because they know that in many aspects it is a bottomless pit, only asking for but not grateful.

A novel with strong pyrotechnics and worth recommending

It's so beautiful. You can always find resonance and your own reflection in the book. It's so worth reading.

Some of the portrayals of real life are much better than those of Su Marie's novels, and the characters are very vivid!

It's so beautiful, I watched it all the time

Very true. It writes about the helplessness of rural women and the faces of all living beings in rural areas.

It's real, the psychological description is delicate, and it's very immersive. Very good novel

A very real and realistic rural inspirational story

Very good book

Well worth seeing

Good book recommendation, worth owning.