When people want to improve their communication skills and get closer to others, they often focus on improving their expressive skills and hope to become an eloquent person. The real key to communication lies in listening. If we are good at listening, we can win the favor of others and make others willing to chat with us.
Based on the perspective of Adlerian psychology, this book combines easy-to-understand comics and a large number of dialogue examples from work and life to explain practical techniques for improving listening skills and improving interpersonal relationships. Adler tells us that we must learn to "see with the other person's eyes, listen with the other person's ears, and feel with the other person's heart." When getting along with others, listening in an empathic and close way to the other person can bring you closer to each other and make the other person open their heart to you, thus deepening trust and having sincere communication.
Reader comments
When listening, be aware that if we repeat the negative emotions expressed by the speaker back to him exactly, it may make him even more depressed. Adlerian psychology opposes critical education, advocates a positive orientation, and advocates that people should know how to give courage to others. So it's better to respond with positive words. "The failure at the time was indeed unforgettable, but now it has turned around." If we can consistently practice a positive orientation, the following three results will occur.
1. Form good interpersonal relationships with others.
2. Empower others to overcome difficulties.
3. When you give others courage, you will also become full of energy.
As a psychological counselor, I know the importance of listening. Most of the time it is difficult for us to control our desire to talk and ignore the feelings of others. This book opens the door to our wisdom. Communication starts with listening...
This book made me realize the importance of listening. Many times we focus too much on expressing and neglect listening. The practical skills in the book are very close to life, such as seeing with the other person's eyes, listening with the other person's ears, and feeling with the other person's heart. These can help us communicate with others better and win the favor of others. I think communication with partners and customers is very important in the entrepreneurial process. This book can help me learn many practical skills.
A very practical book
Very good, simple and clear
Through this book, I realized that I was wrong a lot before. Thanks for this book.
Simple and easy to understand, with pictures and texts, and strong feasibility
A very professional, easy-to-understand, and simple book
When listening, be aware that if we repeat the negative emotions expressed by the speaker back to him exactly, it may make him even more depressed. Adlerian psychology opposes critical education, advocates a positive orientation, and advocates that people should know how to give courage to others. So it's better to respond with positive words. "The failure at the time was indeed unforgettable, but now it has turned around." If we can consistently practice a positive orientation, the following three results will occur. 1. Form good interpersonal relationships with others. 2. Empower others to overcome difficulties. 3. When you give others courage, you will also become full of energy.
As a psychological counselor, I know the importance of listening. Most of the time it is difficult for us to control our desire to talk and ignore the feelings of others. This book opens the door to our wisdom. Communication starts with listening...
This book made me realize the importance of listening. Many times we focus too much on expressing and neglect listening. The practical skills in the book are very close to life, such as seeing with the other person's eyes, listening with the other person's ears, and feeling with the other person's heart. These can help us communicate with others better and win the favor of others. I think communication with partners and customers is very important in the entrepreneurial process. This book can help me learn many practical skills.
A very practical book
Very good, simple and clear
Through this book, I realized that I was wrong a lot before. Thanks for this book.
Simple and easy to understand, with pictures and texts, and strong feasibility
A very professional, easy-to-understand, and simple book