You Are the One I Love Most

After reading so many novels, this one made me very uncomfortable, and even affected my life, making me feel a little depressed. I feel sorry for the kind-hearted Misugi, and I despise Lu Yizhou for his good self-feeling. In real life, I have never met a scumbag, but I also think that Misugi should not love unreservedly, and marriage should be a good match. What I mean by a good match is not just material, but also spiritual. Only when the three views are consistent, and the education level is equivalent, can you have something to say.

I read it in a monthly novel magazine a few years ago, and I was so impressed that I remembered it as soon as I saw the title. The work that won the Hundred Flowers Literary Award that year has a rich and mellow writing style, but if you ask me to read it from beginning to end again, I probably won't be able to do it 🤦. The original frustration mainly came from the strong indignation that "the kind-hearted and tolerant heroine who did not care about the sacrifice was let down by the hypocritical, cowardly and fake noble hero". After all, negative emotions are more likely to last longer than positive emotions. But over the years I have seen all kinds of nonsense, and I have become accustomed to the way of thinking that skips empathy and goes straight to deconstruction. After reading the first few chapters, I can guess the ending of this confusing relationship that makes mistakes. Fortunately, the end of the relationship is ultimately led by the awakened heroine, which is the most gratifying thing. The male protagonist didn't suffer any real loss in the end. I don't know why he was at a loss or how long he was at a loss. I only know that he had narrowed the path for "Hu Meishan and others" and "Lu Yizhou and others".

Men like Lu are everywhere, but women like Hu are hard to find...

The characters in this book are all very vivid, and I was deeply impressed by Hu Meishan's tenacity. She encountered many difficulties in life, but she never gave up, which is admirable. The plot of the story is real and touching, especially the humiliation she endured when facing her husband's cheating and family problems, which made me feel very sad. This book allowed me to see the shadows of many people in real life, which resonated with me very much.

So pretty! The story written about ordinary people is sincere and full of fireworks. It is very real and touching. Every character seems to be a neighbor around him. I feel sad and worthless for the heroine, and I have lost all my sincerity. But it has always been like this. How many women's love is like a moth flying into a flame and giving selflessly 🤦.

The description of the characters is exquisite and the plot is very close to real life. It expresses various phenomena in contemporary society. If the author is not a member of the characters in the novel, it can only be said that the author is very skilled in writing, which can make readers feel that they are not reading a novel, but experiencing it and observing the daily life and inner thoughts of the characters in the book. Great book! Definitely worth reading!

The writing is really good, especially the description of problems in marriage. I highly recommend it. It's very interesting.

The writing is very good, it is true, trivial and reasonable. It makes you feel depressed while reading it, but it unexpectedly gives you a light and makes you feel less cold. I like the ending of the book. The beautiful Misugi has found her vigorous self, but the people in the clouds seem to have missed the mark. It's not a happy or grudge, but I just think it's good.

I have read several of the author's books. They are all tragic little characters, but they are very down-to-earth, and their ordinary life reveals their philosophy.

I feel so sorry for Misugi. Selfless dedication cannot bring equal love. Lu Yizhou should be allowed to die alone and let Misu gain happiness.