The confusions, challenges, and struggles in our lives often focus on two core issues:
·What I think is different from what I experience.
·I want to be that person, but what I experience is that I am not that person.
These two conflicts cause us to wage an internal war that produces negative thoughts, negative emotions, and even negative behaviors. So we always want to change ourselves and get rid of the "bad" parts, thinking that removing the "bad" will leave the "good".
However, this kind of efforts to change often makes us fall into an invisible quagmire, and our talents, creativity, and vitality are constantly suppressed and consumed.
Teacher Huang Shiming said: "In fact, there is a positive motivation behind every negative behavior, and there is a golden light behind every dark cloud."
Behind the "bad things" we want to change are the truest desires of life. I hope this book can lead everyone to get rid of their obsession with "change", transform problems into resources, reconcile with themselves, reintegrate themselves, and rejuvenate the original vitality of life.
Reader comments
We don't have to be better to be kind to ourselves. To love yourself is to love your complete self. There are moments of highlight, there are times when you are weak, tired and unable to do what you want. Having all of them is complete. In this life, it is enough to be a complete self. You don't have to be perfect to be beautiful.
Very good, very practical and worth recommending
Teacher Huang's eloquent words were deeply rooted in people's hearts, like a spring breeze, and made me cry many times😭
You are not in this world to heal anyone.
Don't try to be a savior, but be a creator and enjoy every moment.
This book is like a dear friend sharing wisdom about inner peace with you. The author Huang Shiming takes you on a journey of self-healing with warm writing style. The "mantras" in the book are like beacons, guiding us to find inner harmony. "When you start loving yourself, the whole world will love you." This sentence touched me deeply and made me understand the importance of self-acceptance. Recommended to friends who want to explore their inner world!
Very good, very healing! Following the guidance in the book, I first wrote "I am a sickly person" and then "I am also a healthy and self-disciplined person". I felt instantly healed and complete! I feel that the beliefs I hold really need to be changed. There are my greatest talents and resources!
Accept the other self and strive to make yourself complete
Maintain your own fluidity, constantly find your complete self, let your spirituality be held by positive intentions, learn to heal yourself endlessly, and realize your own bloom!
After listening to the teacher's class, I felt that the teacher was loving and full of energy. Listening to his class felt very healing, and so did reading his books.
A very good book. You should learn how to deal with unhappy things. Welcome and accept them.
Welcome, welcome every part of life, invite her into your life. What is complete is love, let the energy flow and integrate, and it will be completed on October 15, 2024. . .
We don't have to be better to be kind to ourselves. To love yourself is to love your complete self. There are moments of highlight, there are times when you are weak, tired and unable to do what you want. Having all of them is complete. In this life, it is enough to be a complete self. You don't have to be perfect to be beautiful.
Very good, very practical and worth recommending Teacher Huang's eloquent words were deeply rooted in people's hearts, like a spring breeze, and made me cry many times😭 You are not in this world to heal anyone. Don't try to be a savior, but be a creator and enjoy every moment.
This book is like a dear friend sharing wisdom about inner peace with you. The author Huang Shiming takes you on a journey of self-healing with warm writing style. The "mantras" in the book are like beacons, guiding us to find inner harmony. "When you start loving yourself, the whole world will love you." This sentence touched me deeply and made me understand the importance of self-acceptance. Recommended to friends who want to explore their inner world!
Very good, very healing! Following the guidance in the book, I first wrote "I am a sickly person" and then "I am also a healthy and self-disciplined person". I felt instantly healed and complete! I feel that the beliefs I hold really need to be changed. There are my greatest talents and resources!
Accept the other self and strive to make yourself complete
Maintain your own fluidity, constantly find your complete self, let your spirituality be held by positive intentions, learn to heal yourself endlessly, and realize your own bloom!
After listening to the teacher's class, I felt that the teacher was loving and full of energy. Listening to his class felt very healing, and so did reading his books.
A very good book. You should learn how to deal with unhappy things. Welcome and accept them.
Welcome, welcome every part of life, invite her into your life. What is complete is love, let the energy flow and integrate, and it will be completed on October 15, 2024. . .