I'm Not a Loser

A very realistic book. It describes the various aspects of life and the ups and downs of middle-aged people who have to bow to life. Academic qualifications are only a stepping stone to the workplace. In real life, you still need to acquire skills to live a worry-free life. But health is the most important. As long as a person is alive, everything is possible.

The story is very realistic, depicting all the fragility of reality and all the odds and ends of life. It is almost a microcosm of the current era. Some of the clips made me, a newcomer to society, very anxious. The author's writing style is very good, and many of the descriptions accurately "reproduce" the suffocation of big cities. How many people see their present and future selves through the characters, and how many people "dare to think but dare not do" who willfully gave up their jobs as civil servants in Beijing and went to "seclusion" in Zhongnan Mountain. The biggest feeling is that we are all ordinary people. People who have no long-term worries must have immediate worries. Don't think that the cruelty of life will not happen to you. When it is time to prepare for a rainy day, you still need to plan, respect your body and feelings, and "recognize the situation clearly and give up your illusions." The tide of the times never stops, life goes on, and comrades still need to work hard~

Unconsciously, after reading the last chapter, I still feel that it is still unfinished, and I hope there will be a sequel. For Shen Lin, I believe that veterans are immortal and can fight hard. No matter what the future holds, their bravery, strength and resilience will not let them fall. As for Shen Lei and Li Xiaoyue, I am very much looking forward to their subsequent stories. I believe that two people with the same views will definitely be happy together. The author's writing style is smooth, the characters have distinct personalities, and this is a very realistic novel that is worth recalling again and again.

This is the central idea of ​​​​this book, and there is nothing wrong with it. This is Beijing, which makes simple life very complicated. Obviously the parking lot is right across the street, less than 20 meters away, so you have to drive three kilometers to make a U-turn. Obviously the subway entrance is only a hundred meters away, so you have to line up inside the iron fence arranged in a "return" shape and move forward little by little behind the queue. Before reaching the essence of things, there are always layers of pretense, so you have to be extremely patient.

After reading 📺, let's read the book. The author's writing style is wonderful, and the writing is very realistic and heart-breaking. The ending ends abruptly. Ordinary people who try their best to live every day may still have unknown difficulties and challenges waiting for them in the future... After reading it, I was very inspired. The noble spirit of the scholar, the thin-skinned person who can't help but beg for help, and nothing counts when encountering problems in reality... Every character who appears has something worth learning. I would like to talk about the two people who have the most insights. Na Juan lived too rationally and selfishly, and loved preaching, but many of his words were shocking. Xiaoyue is idealistic and willful at the age of 30, and her understanding of life has stopped at the most important level for me to be happy, but what she said also has meaning worth thinking about. Life is not like life. For money, the body is ruined, and it is just capital that is eliminated at any time🐄🐎. If you have Xiaoyue's mentality and optimism as well as your hard work and rationality, you will be in the best state.

It took me two days to read this book in one breath. The book revolves around Na Wei and his wife, Shen Lei, Na Juan and Xiao Yue. It tells the sadness and difficulty of everyone after being ravaged and tortured by life, the mess of middle-aged people, and the society of colleges and universities. Animals, the helplessness of individual people... When I read, I was always sympathized with the descriptions in the book. I felt that some of the character events were slightly exaggerated and the real life was restored. Especially under the current tight economic situation, I have a particularly great sense of substitution! What a great book, worth reading twice [smile]

It's so well written, and the female characters in it are all very capable. Li Xiaoyue is sober and optimistic, living in the present, happy and contented! Shen Lin even showed the charm of a woman. Because of the saying "you eat my food and drink my food", she began to work hard to find a job. She went to work under a former colleague and served as a confinement nanny for the former colleague. She was able to bend and stretch! I solved the problem of sexual harassment alone with my wisdom, and got my salary perfectly. I was brave and resourceful, and finally started a business with my cooking skills. At the same time, I unconditionally supported my younger brother to pursue love bravely and didn't care about other people's opinions. You are so awesome. Shen Lin, I am proud of you! ! ! Thanks to the author, the writing is so Liu Chang, I enjoyed reading it so much, thank you! ! ! ! !

The content is true. People in middle age are faced with a lot of problems that suddenly come to them. They are confused, hesitant, angry, and powerless. The writing is penetrating and very detailed. The world of adults is nothing but chicken feathers. There is a saying that is very good. I only see thieves eating meat but not thieves being beaten. Finally, I want to say that health is the most important no matter when. I hope we can have the last laugh on the road to exchanging health for money.

More realistic than what was written in the TV series. Yearning for a better life. Is it always the value and eternal pursuit of mankind? But the obsession in everyone's heart. Cars, houses, big cities, for the next generation, and many other things are signs of success, or the "reins" of the devil. One by one, they were selfless and like moths flying into the flames. But back to reality, there are too many sub-health, sub-psychological and unsatisfactory things. There is always a feeling of being brainwashed and harvested instead of struggling... Is there any truth in life? Or this is life.

The cruelty of reality. After reading so many exciting articles about Goldfinger, I suddenly saw such a piece of writing that truly describes real life, and I couldn't help but sigh. In life, I hope that all confused middle-aged people can find hope in despair.

After reading the novel, I still have more to say. The figures of Na Wei, Shen Lin, Li Xiaoyue, Na Juan, Shen Lei, etc. Also flashed in my mind. By reading the novel in conjunction with the TV series "Mortal Song", I gained more insight into the characters. Shen Lin and Lao Na rebounded from the bottom, and the couple worked together to support their family through wind and rain. Na Juan changed his job at a different company and also found a new girlfriend. He felt a lot more relaxed than before. Shen Lei found a new direction in life and was no longer extreme, closed-minded and sinking. Life may be rough, but no matter what, you have to look forward and keep going!

The story is real and touching, describing the hardships and helplessness of middle-aged people. When people reach middle age, they no longer have the courage to dare to fight in the workplace. But for families, with elderly parents and young children, they don't even have a chance to breathe. They can only bite the bullet and move forward! Both Shen Lei and Wang Ruizhi in the book temporarily escaped from the difficulties in life, trying to escape from the world of mortals and become otherworldly, but they eventually returned to reality. As adults, we all have unshirkable responsibilities, both for our families and for society!

The mid-life crisis is vividly written. Although it is about the difficulty of survival in the big city of Beijing, it is still recommended to all young people, because when you are alive, you have to consider the future. During the economic downturn, the description in the book is particularly resonant.

Mortal Song is much better than the title of the book, and it is more appropriate to the content of the book. It tells the lives of a pair of characters in their 40s and 30s, as if they are right next to them. They see the suffocating 35-year-old shackles in the domestic workplace, working overtime all year round, and the workplace dilemma after age. One of the male and female protagonists makes braised vegetables and the other drives Didi. These are common themes in the news. Although the money came back slowly in the end, fortunately, the heroine's transformation from human resources director to confinement nanny to vegetable market vendor really makes people question the meaning of going to college and the meaning of life. The high academic qualifications and life trajectories of the brother-in-law and younger brother make people even more suspicious. There is really no way to plan your life as soon as you graduate, but just twenty years after graduation, you suddenly realize that you have never been on the right track. Unemployment makes your life plummet rapidly, which is exactly the same problem faced by people who graduate from junior high school. It's so depressing. How many people will get lost in it, and how many people will have a turning point like the protagonist. A novel that is too relevant to the present moment, and a question that no one can answer.

The novel is very interesting and realistic. Things in the world are unpredictable. If the pseudo-middle class cannot afford to be laid off once, they will fall into a crisis of survival. It is a wake-up call for people today. Mortals must be able to bend and stretch, change tracks in time, and face everything calmly. It's just that the ending is too hasty

A starkly realistic novel. I'm going to watch a TV show in the afternoon. No one in the book is bad. Everyone has his own way of dealing with things and lives in his own world. This is the most real world.

I came here because of the TV series "Mortal Song". I really like this kind of family story. It also contains some descriptions of the difficulties that modern people face in work and life. It is very real. It is very good to watch the novel and the TV series together.

It feels very real, and the different types of people are vividly portrayed and close to reality. I feel the same way about working overtime and hate it deeply, but I can only cry out in pain and continue to live.

It sounds depressing and heavy, but it is real life, the ups and downs of everyone, the difficulties everyone faces, the feathers in life, the constant struggle and resistance. The self-salvation and hard work are vividly written. It is not as relaxing as other novels about wealthy and handsome bosses. The life of ordinary people is such cruelty and reality, bit by bit. We have tried every means and tried various methods and still can't live the ideal life, but the cruel reality has not changed much. Isn't this the life of ordinary people? What about despair? So what if you give up? You have to live for three meals a day, 00 pieces. Go and endure it. After all, they will have a future, and through their own efforts, they will calm down their mentality. It will lower the requirements of life and regain confidence for this little reward.

A book that is very close to real life. It contains both pride and confusion about life. You can still live without giving up your life. The characters in the book are both lively and dead, and in the end they all face life positively. How can living not be living? Is having money a decent thing? Not necessarily

The people in the book are far away from me, but they feel very close. I really like this kind of realistic novel. You can find a lot of resonance in the book, and it will also bring you answers to the confusions in your life. I still haven't finished reading this book, and the results are neither good nor bad, but this may be the most true.

The plot fits the real psychology of people in society and clearly expresses many people's inner thoughts. Is a good book! The author's words are very beautiful and his description of human nature is profound. Modern people's life and psychology, expectations, disappointments, struggles, desperate situations, entanglements, and acceptance. . . . As a reader, I review these feelings again in the book.

Shen Lin and Lao Na are the epitome of society, and they truly represent the career crisis of middle-aged people in today's society. If they don't make progress in life, they will fall back. They are all doing it for these few taels of silver. They bend their backs and go round and round. It is impossible to live in Zhongnan Mountain just because life is unsatisfactory, and they always have to go abroad and enter the market to rush for life! Live towards the sun, as long as your state of mind does not collapse, there are always more solutions than difficulties!

The writing style is concise and impeccable, the ideological understanding is profound, the character description is accurate, the life experience is real, and the length is short and concise. It is a rare work

This article tells the story of how even in a bad environment, outstanding Beidiao elites cannot escape the challenges of work and life. The full text takes the young people from the two big families, Na and Shen, as the main line, and describes the tragic story of Shen Lei, a graduate student from a prestigious university, and Xie Meilan, an investment elite. . .

This book is very beautiful. I shed tears several times. Shen Lin adapts to life and her younger brother is a Buddhist youth. Every character is lifelike and I can understand every character. It is a true portrayal of real life.

It's beautiful. It depicts the pressure, helplessness, and inconsistency of modern people's lives. The depiction is very real.

This book is very real. It shows various practical problems faced by middle-aged people, such as anti-involution, mid-life crisis, etc. I particularly like the description of family relationships in the book, which is very real. Mother-in-law Shen Lin's reaction and the relationship between the sisters-in-law made me see the various aspects of families in real life. And I think the character of Lao Na is very interesting. Although he is a bit informal, he still cares about his family. This book made me think about a lot of issues about life and family, and it was very enlightening.

The writing is very close to life. The difficulties of middle-aged people and the changes in the world are full of ups and downs, which is exciting. Fortunately, in the end, the protagonist got over it and opened up another world.

Good-looking, recommended. Every character in the novel is vivid, has its own characteristics, and a set of rules for life. The protagonist Shen Lin is very good, beautiful, kind, a little bit sharp, and resilient. Even if her life is miserable, she still has to make a way for her family. In life, if it's the same, it's not a big deal.