Drive People Crazy with a Light: 58 Super Practical Psychological Effects

I've read about a fifth of it, it's a very good book. Some of them you don't agree with, right? My friend, I have it too, I can't read it anymore, my friend, I have it too, so it's one fifth It seems to me that it is not easy to move forward after contacting the abyss. But the writing is not entirely theoretical. As mentioned in the preface, it has my own experience, which makes me feel a sense of belonging from theoretical books, right? It is better than long, rhetorical, and ancient books... If you write a book from the abyss, how can you write about your depravity, but being able to write is extremely real, and what we see is just the more sunny side and positive side after recovery. At this point, I don't want to type anymore, so I will leave it to the next interesting time. After reading the book, I may write about my feelings again. Of course, I may not write a word, which is not a denial. It has always been like this. If I want to, I will write some.

Moreover, the content of the book is very rich, including not only analysis of common psychological phenomena, but also some psychological interpretations that are less noticed. I especially like the explanation of self in it, which gave me a deeper understanding of myself. However, I kind of hate that character who always finds fault with others, it's so annoying! All in all, this is a book worth reading.

Compared with works of the same type, this book has more personal emotions. I have always believed that a book that can be understood is a good book. This book clearly is. Although I don't agree with some of the views, it's well written, keep up the good work

Very good, simple and easy to understand. It echoes the "curse of knowledge" in this article. Not everyone understands it. Spread it to people who don't know. The common sense you know may be something that others have not been exposed to. What others know may be your own blind spot. If you are not recognized, it may not be that you are bad, but that your requirements are too high.

A very good book that answered my many years of doubts and helped me understand part of the reality. Re-examining myself through the words in the book, I see that there are indeed some "giant baby" factors. I always felt like I had depression before, but after reading the symptoms mentioned in the article, I realized that I didn't. Don't define yourself easily. I used to always wonder why I couldn't remember things from my childhood. It turned out that I didn't have a deep understanding of the world when I was a child, so I forgot easily. Reading between the lines also gradually taught me that I should leave room for myself to make mistakes. No one is perfect. I should learn to accept myself, improve myself, and focus on myself. All in all, this is a very good book, highly recommended!

There are good and bad. Thank you for this book that brought me many interesting psychological stories. From this book, I can see that the author's native family is very bad, because my parents are not very good, so the more I read, the more I resent my parents. For example, the author attributed the impostor syndrome to my parents. I used to get an honors award in school, and a strange aunt on the road saw it and praised me for my greatness, but I saw that my parents didn't want to let them see the certificate, because they would just casually say something about it. Although I hate them a little, if I only indulge in the theory of causes* and believe that my shortcomings are due to my parents, and only resent and indulge in pain without trying to change upwards*, I will have to bear this pain for the rest of my life. Why should the pain of more than ten years follow us throughout our lives? I personally think that we should not continue to resent our parents. , Instead of forgiving them, it's about letting yourself go. Resentment has little impact on your parents, but it has the greatest impact on yourself. Did the author feel uncomfortable when writing this book? I hope the author can let himself go, so that we will no longer be obsessed with the theory of causes, no longer resent our parents, but rush out of the sadness of childhood in an overwhelming way. I hope the author can read it, The Courage to Be Disliked. This book may be of great help to the author. If one thing does not destroy you, it will definitely help you. [Note] Author, your book is very good. Even if your views are somewhat different from mine, I am happy to continue reading it. When everyone is refuting your views, your thinking is also progressing. It is great to dare to publish a book. I hope the author will create new books in the future. I also read that the author was very unhappy when looking for a partner or getting along with a partner, and met some bad girls. However, the author cannot generalize. Female readers will feel weird when reading this book. Maybe the author is not aware of it, but I hope you can find some good girls to eliminate this prejudice.

This book is quite good. Each chapter contains new psychological knowledge, which is very simple and easy to understand. However, the psychology behind it feels quite popular (personal opinion), so it feels a bit ordinary. Then the author occasionally puts forward some ideas that seem to have emerged from ancient times, such as the similar view that girls should be weak and boys should be strong. Fortunately, only a small part of the author's personal opinions appear, and most of them are objective, so it does not affect the overall impression. Most of the information in this book is correct except for the marshmallow experiment (maybe the author did not find all the information or the book is relatively old) Someone has done in-depth research and found that those who cannot bear to eat right away are from relatively poor families, because they have no or very few opportunities to eat three meals a day, so naturally they can't take care of so much and will only eat right away. The richer people have eaten better than this, so they can tolerate it. The children of rich people will still be rich when they grow up, and the children of poor people will still be poor when they grow up. It has nothing to do with being impatient.

As a person who rarely speaks with modal particles, I just read the first chapter and now I just want to say: wk( ༎̊́ ᾢ ༎̊̀)! I don't know what the rest of the book is like, but just the first chapter really guided me to understand my situation and my existential crisis. It really made my eyes light up again and again I like to listen and watch at the same time (it's almost like being led by the audio to watch), although I haven't thought thoroughly about the sources of existential crises and countermeasures (but this is just because I was led to watch and didn't have too long to think about it. It doesn't mean that the teacher's guidance is not thorough, on the contrary, it is really very clear!) I believe that with the help of this chapter alone, I will be able to get rid of the troubles about "why can't I die" and "why should I still live" as soon as possible. The most important thing is: I know how to live with "pain" (I really resist pain and resist it) I am really happy to have discovered this book, and I came here to write a book review! Friends, please feel free to read it, it's packed👍🏻 (Maybe, one is that I can't say too much, and the other is that I have only read one chapter, and I am not sure and don't know the rest of the content👉🏻👈🏻👈🏻)

This book contains a lot of interesting psychological information, but also contains some of the author's own opinions. Books, it's best if you can read in and come out.

This book is different from ordinary vernacular literature. The cases in it are real and clear. The most sincere truths can be understood in each small right and wrong, which has a profound effect on enlightening people's wisdom.

This book is a very good psychology book. It covers a lot of knowledge and allowed me to understand why my temper, low self-esteem, and behavior occur and how they can be improved. The content in the book is easy to understand and is of great help to those who want to understand psychology. It is a good book worth recommending!

Reading more psychology books in this area can help with self-healing. My parents are even worse than the author's parents. One of them abandoned me since childhood, and the other one has either been beaten or scolded, or verbally belittled and insulted. This has made me suffer for many years. Fortunately, I did not succeed in committing suicide when I was a child. I must be mentally strong enough to support myself until now.

This book is suitable for a person who has half a foot in nihilism and is looking for a normal line in the world. This book's logical thinking is very correct

2028.8.7.9.00 The book is good, every knowledge point is interesting and vivid, and each of the 58 knowledge areas has its own merits. Although there is no connection, I feel that it belongs to the breadth category, not the depth category. The depth category emphasizes professionalism, while the breadth category emphasizes knowledge. Each psychological characteristic and some conventional knowledge about how to understand and how to avoid and understand it can be read and understood by us ordinary people. For the people in our own lives, we can also learn from and understand their behavioral logic and the norms of why they do what they do to gain a basic level. In each article, you can find relevant knowledge for in-depth understanding, rather than rough understanding. The book is very good and can be studied. It is a good book for people who are not broad enough.

I don't agree with the author's chapter on gender identity, but it doesn't matter, it's a projection of the author's thoughts~ Wow~ The word projection is really wonderful~ It's so strange. I knew before that children are the projection of their parents and works are the expression of the author's thoughts, but I never considered the author's use of projection. Hahahahahaha I'm a little excited, but I don't really understand why I'm so excited. I just think it's wonderful!

Overall it's good. But the author also has some biases projected into the text, such as the narration in the chapter on gender identity. Why must boys look like boys and girls look like girls? Is this division itself a kind of projection?

Finished reading. I feel the same way in many places. But I don't fully agree with his point of view. It is mixed with some stereotypes and stigmatization of vocabulary. There are also problems with typos and missing words.

All the books describe personal opinions on things, not generalizations. I feel that this book is very exciting. The content is logical and clear. If you think carefully and combine it with self-awareness, you can connect to the essence of many things, and it will give you some training in the application of cognition of things. Although I have only read two chapters, I know that the following ones will be very exciting. I don't know how the excellent analysis of things and views on the nature of things in the previous chapters can be worse. This is not writing a novel to make up content and chapters. I can only force myself to read only one chapter every day to analyze the author's views on things. Understanding of things, exercising my ability to analyze things and pry into the essence of things, maybe it is a sense of identity, maybe it is the brain's reward mechanism for me. I want to leave my mark here. The current content of this book is enough for me to praise it without hesitation. I hope that all book friends can also use the same method. Interpretation is the only way to get a glimpse of the mystery and essence. Of course, those who are above this and have stronger ability to analyze and explore the essence of things do not need to follow my suggestions. Don't waste too much on self-understanding and ability utilization (these are just personal opinions, please be merciful if you don't like it, thank you🙏)

This is a book that explains psychological issues in life and helps us grow better📖. I gained a lot. It relieved my stress and anxiety and helped me find the goal of life. During the exam month, I was very anxious. The more anxious I became, the less I read books and I always played with my phone. Then I learned that this is a kind of procrastination, which is related to excessive pressure and overloaded tasks. It can be completed through temptation binding, putting the happy monkey 🐒 in a cage, completing it within a limited time, giving rewards, and the three-minute rule. Clarifying the task method has relieved some of my stress, which in turn prevents me from continuing the vicious cycle. I can also review better and don't have to wait until the last few days to cram. I hope I can resist the temptation of mobile phones and pass the final exam. [Bookshelf plus one][love][love][love]

It is easy to understand. When reading the author's book, you can feel the sense of freedom and relief of an older person after experiencing the world. After reading it for 3 hours and 41 minutes, I discovered some of my own problems. This book is very good. When he explains the truth, it will not make people feel like he is preaching. It can explain a lot of the common psychological reactions between others and ourselves in real life. The only drawback is that there are certain ideological limitations. For example, the author believes that women must be soft and beautiful. I think women have many kinds of beauty. You can be more aggressive, more flamboyant, not necessarily soft and weak. It is normal for a woman who is not soft to have a bold personality.

If you want to read minds or something, you definitely can't do it, but it is a very useful book for self-exploration and cognition. I recommend reading it to understand your own heart.

This book starts from various aspects of psychological knowledge and concepts, and uses examples to make it clear and easy for readers to understand. From it, readers can learn to determine whether they have these tendencies, so as to better understand themselves and improve their psychological cognition. All in all, it's well worth watching!

Very good, a good book.

I thought this was a summary of experience, but I didn't expect it to be the author's personal summary. I found it quite interesting. Let's say it's psychology, but actually it doesn't count. There are only a few effects mentioned in it, and most of them are things that you don't pay much attention to, and even if you pay attention to them, you don't know or understand them.

It's okay. I hope the author can raise his cognitive level and re-read the books he wrote before. There are merits and limitations.

Very suitable as an introductory book on psychology.

Enlightenment books for teenagers. Can reduce internal friction. Established the correct three views.

I highly recommend this book, it's comparable to an electronic mental health counselor [Blowing a Kiss]

Every story and every chapter in this book is about psychology. Some are psychological sleep-aid effects, some are our daily discovery of a certain sensory experience, or a summary of an event. Anyway, it would be best to learn from each chapter carefully and record it. If you can apply it, it will definitely be effective for people, and it is also a kind of comfort for growth.

Wonderful, informative and endless aftertaste