If you don't know how to drive but you have to drive, it will be difficult to reach your destination safely; similarly, if you don't know how to fall in love, having a happy love will become a difficult dream to achieve. "Falling in love" is not something people are born with. Just like riding a bicycle, speaking a foreign language or playing the piano, they all require acquired learning and practice. The problem is, no one teaches us the necessary life course of "falling in love".
How can you attract the person you like and make him fall in love with you? How to get him to be serious about his feelings for you? How to avoid being played with your feelings and judge in advance whether a person is really suitable for you? How to make a relationship last forever?
As an internationally renowned emotional expert, Teacher Vincent uses humorous language, vivid metaphors and fascinating cases to provide you with answers to these questions and solutions to the emotional confusions that cause headaches for women. In the book, the author carefully puts forward 15 love secrets such as "Long-term Attraction Formula", "Love Game Theory", "Mate Selection Pyramid", "Da Vinci Prejudice", etc. To help you quickly grow into a high-value goddess and gain ideal love.
Reader comments
This book is very well written. I am a person who has been in love and has summarized a lot of experiences that are consistent with what is said in this book. It also adds a lot. As long as you can do what is in the book, you have achieved love for yourself.
Here are some key points that are important to me:
1.
First of all, you must love yourself, be full of yourself, be confident and love yourself. If you don't think you are worthy of being loved, who will love you?
2.
In relationships, you need to understand what objective value and subjective value are. Objective value is the relationship between others (education, family background, personal abilities, appearance, etc.), But the most important thing is whether the subjective value of this person to you is sufficient. Subjective value is the basis for maintaining a relationship.
3.
There must be equality in the relationship. If your own abilities are insufficient and the objective conditions cannot match, then you will be in a weak position with someone whose objective conditions are much higher than yours, and you will never be able to achieve mutual balance.
4.
Choose someone who matches your current charm, or improve your charm in order to match a higher-value partner.
5.
In a relationship, you must learn to play and pull, maintain a rational state, and grasp your own bottom line.
6.
Don't think too highly of others, think too poorly of yourself, and maintain your own sense of high value.
If you want to fall in love for a long time, this book is a good tool tree, so that people who don't understand love can also know how to fall in love. Moreover, a person's life is divided into seven parts "love" and three parts "ambition". Understanding how to fall in love earlier can help you get hurt less and stay away from boys who are not suitable for you. It includes how to chase a boy you like, how girls can improve their charm, how to make boys like you for a long time, and why you are always liked by people you don't like, but people you like don't like you. It's very suitable for beginners. When I was watching, there was a kind of magic that pushed me to keep reading. I highly recommend it. After reading it, you should digest it yourself and have your own opinions.
There are many suggestions in this book that are really for our benefit. If it is a book about charming men, we may abandon it. Teacher Vincent tells us that we should constantly improve ourselves, enrich our lives, make ourselves more confident, and more importantly, love ourselves, so that we will have more choices. This is indeed the case. No one is a perfect person, and asking others to be perfect is a bit too much. If you like someone with high value, then work hard to improve yourself. You deserve him, instead of worrying and complaining, blaming others, don't be high-minded and low-handed, that is, if you like someone, but the other person doesn't like you, this is a normal thing. It's not RMB. You can't like everyone. Just because others don't like you, you are distressed. There is really no need. We must be self-aware. In order for you to get what you want, you must first be worthy of it. The world is not crazy enough to reward a group of unworthy people.
It's still good. Strong people never complain about the environment, but always look for problems within themselves. Either we have chosen the wrong path (person), or we have the wrong method. Love will make us confident, not make us feel inferior. What I understand is that what should be improved is nothing more than external charm + inner charm. We should also follow human nature and better understand ourselves and others. We will start again in a few months.
I'm so lucky to have read this book. I am a sensitive, suspicious and insecure person. I often cannot eat or sleep well because of other people's words. The most important thing is that I often quarrel with my partner and get angry over trivial things. He always comes to accommodate me. I also realized that I had a big problem. After reading this book, I have benefited a lot. If you lack a sense of security, you cannot blindly rely on others to give you. Be independent, improve yourself, make yourself better and better, and let others worry about gains and losses. Being evenly matched is the long-term magic weapon!
After reading this book, I also realized that my understanding of myself may be biased. We need to constantly improve and improve ourselves to make ourselves better. When it comes to finding a partner, this book actually provides a lot of practical suggestions to better understand ourselves, each other, the differences in thinking between men and women, and the relationship between the sexes. After reading this book, I have a new perspective on love and mate selection. I want to make better choices, manage a relationship, and find a soulmate that truly belongs to me.
Learn how to fall in love and find someone with good objective value but high subjective value. There are thousands of people in the world, but not many are suitable for you. As long as the three views are consistent, two people communicate well, are responsible, and can love themselves and others, they are very good people.
Just like the "long-term attraction formula" mentioned in the book, it reminds me of a friend of mine who attracted her current husband by constantly improving herself and becoming more attractive. This book not only contains theories, but also has many cases that are very resonant. I think every girl can learn some love secrets from it, become a better version of herself, and gain happy love.
This is the best book about love I have ever read! ! ! Contains all the problems I have ever encountered in relationships.
Love skills need to be learned. The values in the book are still very positive, and there is also psychological knowledge in it. There are many ways to increase your own value. The key is to follow the right path and learn to avoid pitfalls at the same time.
Recommended. I regret not reading this book when I was in college. It solved a lot of my confusion. It is very suitable for girls who have little love experience and don't know much about gender. After reading it, I gained a lot. I learned a lot about the thinking of men and women, and further understood the needs of men. I hope that I can continue to improve my charm value, lifelong learning, internal and external training, active learning and application, integration of knowledge and action, and application in practice.
Read it carefully and carefully
A very good book, recommended
You can take a look, it's pretty good
It feels pretty good. It explained many points very thoroughly, and also corrected some of my ideas that I wasn't sure were right or wrong, so I feel pretty good.
Benefited a lot! I know a lot about how men and women get along
This is really a book that touches the soul of love
I like it. I watched it for more than an hour. It's easy to get involved. It's very nice.
Not bad, not bad, really good. I found a treasure.
This book is very well written. I am a person who has been in love and has summarized a lot of experiences that are consistent with what is said in this book. It also adds a lot. As long as you can do what is in the book, you have achieved love for yourself.
Here are some key points that are important to me: 1. First of all, you must love yourself, be full of yourself, be confident and love yourself. If you don't think you are worthy of being loved, who will love you? 2. In relationships, you need to understand what objective value and subjective value are. Objective value is the relationship between others (education, family background, personal abilities, appearance, etc.), But the most important thing is whether the subjective value of this person to you is sufficient. Subjective value is the basis for maintaining a relationship. 3. There must be equality in the relationship. If your own abilities are insufficient and the objective conditions cannot match, then you will be in a weak position with someone whose objective conditions are much higher than yours, and you will never be able to achieve mutual balance. 4. Choose someone who matches your current charm, or improve your charm in order to match a higher-value partner. 5. In a relationship, you must learn to play and pull, maintain a rational state, and grasp your own bottom line. 6. Don't think too highly of others, think too poorly of yourself, and maintain your own sense of high value.
If you want to fall in love for a long time, this book is a good tool tree, so that people who don't understand love can also know how to fall in love. Moreover, a person's life is divided into seven parts "love" and three parts "ambition". Understanding how to fall in love earlier can help you get hurt less and stay away from boys who are not suitable for you. It includes how to chase a boy you like, how girls can improve their charm, how to make boys like you for a long time, and why you are always liked by people you don't like, but people you like don't like you. It's very suitable for beginners. When I was watching, there was a kind of magic that pushed me to keep reading. I highly recommend it. After reading it, you should digest it yourself and have your own opinions.
There are many suggestions in this book that are really for our benefit. If it is a book about charming men, we may abandon it. Teacher Vincent tells us that we should constantly improve ourselves, enrich our lives, make ourselves more confident, and more importantly, love ourselves, so that we will have more choices. This is indeed the case. No one is a perfect person, and asking others to be perfect is a bit too much. If you like someone with high value, then work hard to improve yourself. You deserve him, instead of worrying and complaining, blaming others, don't be high-minded and low-handed, that is, if you like someone, but the other person doesn't like you, this is a normal thing. It's not RMB. You can't like everyone. Just because others don't like you, you are distressed. There is really no need. We must be self-aware. In order for you to get what you want, you must first be worthy of it. The world is not crazy enough to reward a group of unworthy people.
It's still good. Strong people never complain about the environment, but always look for problems within themselves. Either we have chosen the wrong path (person), or we have the wrong method. Love will make us confident, not make us feel inferior. What I understand is that what should be improved is nothing more than external charm + inner charm. We should also follow human nature and better understand ourselves and others. We will start again in a few months.
I'm so lucky to have read this book. I am a sensitive, suspicious and insecure person. I often cannot eat or sleep well because of other people's words. The most important thing is that I often quarrel with my partner and get angry over trivial things. He always comes to accommodate me. I also realized that I had a big problem. After reading this book, I have benefited a lot. If you lack a sense of security, you cannot blindly rely on others to give you. Be independent, improve yourself, make yourself better and better, and let others worry about gains and losses. Being evenly matched is the long-term magic weapon!
After reading this book, I also realized that my understanding of myself may be biased. We need to constantly improve and improve ourselves to make ourselves better. When it comes to finding a partner, this book actually provides a lot of practical suggestions to better understand ourselves, each other, the differences in thinking between men and women, and the relationship between the sexes. After reading this book, I have a new perspective on love and mate selection. I want to make better choices, manage a relationship, and find a soulmate that truly belongs to me.
Learn how to fall in love and find someone with good objective value but high subjective value. There are thousands of people in the world, but not many are suitable for you. As long as the three views are consistent, two people communicate well, are responsible, and can love themselves and others, they are very good people.
Just like the "long-term attraction formula" mentioned in the book, it reminds me of a friend of mine who attracted her current husband by constantly improving herself and becoming more attractive. This book not only contains theories, but also has many cases that are very resonant. I think every girl can learn some love secrets from it, become a better version of herself, and gain happy love.
This is the best book about love I have ever read! ! ! Contains all the problems I have ever encountered in relationships.
Love skills need to be learned. The values in the book are still very positive, and there is also psychological knowledge in it. There are many ways to increase your own value. The key is to follow the right path and learn to avoid pitfalls at the same time.
Recommended. I regret not reading this book when I was in college. It solved a lot of my confusion. It is very suitable for girls who have little love experience and don't know much about gender. After reading it, I gained a lot. I learned a lot about the thinking of men and women, and further understood the needs of men. I hope that I can continue to improve my charm value, lifelong learning, internal and external training, active learning and application, integration of knowledge and action, and application in practice.
Read it carefully and carefully
A very good book, recommended
You can take a look, it's pretty good
It feels pretty good. It explained many points very thoroughly, and also corrected some of my ideas that I wasn't sure were right or wrong, so I feel pretty good.
Benefited a lot! I know a lot about how men and women get along
This is really a book that touches the soul of love
I like it. I watched it for more than an hour. It's easy to get involved. It's very nice.
Not bad, not bad, really good. I found a treasure.
Really learned a lot
A very useful book
It's very clear,
Not bad hahahaha
Very good, timely
I want to fall in love after watching this!
Very good book, worth reading for women
Not bad, easy to understand
I saw it just when I needed it.
Very rewarding, thank you very much to the author