Two Generations of Mother-In-Law and Daughter-In-Law: the Love and Hate in Chinese Families

This book is so beautifully written that I finished reading it before I knew it. The meaning is still not finished. The writing is smooth and natural, and the plot is compact. It may seem plain and simple, but it hides the wisdom and experience of life, which is worth learning from. Like the author👍👍👍

The writing is very real, and I got a lot of inspiration from it, such as: do more and talk less; interfere less with children's family affairs, etc... The article is also written in a delicate and detailed way. It analyzes everyone's heart very well. I still want to read it and can't put it down until I finish it. It is a novel worth reading. I even hope that this novel can be made into a TV series because it is so controversial. Two or even three generations of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live in different eras and backgrounds, and the way of getting along has to change accordingly. No one is right or wrong, long live harmony [laughs]

This novel can be called a textbook on the classic relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The author portrays several women very vividly and very close to life, which makes people unable to stop reading. You can always see the microcosm of the people around you in reality from the book, and you can also see the people you meet in reality through the psychological activities of the characters in the book. Peace, mother's sharp mouth, tofu heart, mother's dedication to the family but not getting anything in return, but the credit is lost because of a nagging mouth. The involvement between four or five women in a family is really a human tragedy and comedy. The only regret is that it is too short! Not enough!

After reading it, I feel very good. The characters in it seem to have prototypes in my real life, so when I read it, I felt very kind and real. In particular, there are conflicts between the characters in the story, as well as reflections after conflicts, selfless contributions to the family, and mutual tolerance and understanding... These provide a template for our real life. Therefore, the marriage of two people is not just a matter of two people, but the fusion of two families. Let's work hard so that we all have a happy family!

The writing is very real and down to earth, this is real life! Both the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law are growing up, changing, and making compromises in the trivial matters day after day. If everyone could do this, what would be difficult to survive in life!

Super pretty. The writing is more down-to-earth, and the psychological portrayal of the characters is quite accurate, but the novel is still a novel after all, and it still needs a perfect ending. The number of husbands that Du Xuan can carry clearly is probably less than the number of giant pandas. A life like Du Juan's is also difficult to achieve in reality. By the way, I want to complain that my mother has a Liu Hong-type character. She doesn't have to work hard and complains constantly while buying various electrical appliances. People use technology to change their lives, but her lifestyle habits change technology. There is no way to explain it, if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may have ceased contact long ago, the mother-in-law and mother-in-law can only coax them by constantly lowering the bottom line.

The content is true and the plot is touching. A good book, worth recommending. Life is in the daily porridge and meals, in the smallest details. There is happiness and there is pain. The most important thing is to live every day well.

The characters are full-bodied and close to real life, and the story is also exciting, containing many philosophies of life.

The writing is very beautiful and realistic. I read it in one go. Many sharp conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were mentioned. Suddenly, I was very happy that I met a very good mother-in-law who did not let me go through such trials. I am very grateful to my mother-in-law!

Not bad, I like it, a very realistic book. The eldest aunt's independence and self-confidence are impressive and make people think about the marriage relationship in today's society: What exactly does marriage bring to women... I hope everyone will be happy in their marriage.

I didn't get enough of it, but I was enjoying reading it. When I turned the page, the whole story was actually finished. I like Du Juan, she is financially independent, independent in thought, and can do whatever she wants boldly. They are both good people, but they have different standpoints. Mutual understanding and tolerance, this is life.

This book is very realistic and I like it very much. I have personally experienced many of the scenes in it, but I am not as good as they handled it. I am still a layman. My mother-in-law is like this too, she does all the work, but she always looks aloof, just to give you the feeling: I'm here to take care of you, I'm here to serve you. You have to be grateful. He also used words to stimulate me from time to time. It seems that his son is the best in the world, and others are nothing. And he usually cooks as much as he can. As long as his son comes back, he will have delicious food and drink. I don't have good wisdom, I just feel bored and endure it. I also experienced the episode when Du Juan got sick, and fortunately it also had a happy ending. But on the way from the door of the operating room to the operating table, the light was so dim, the journey was so long, and the anxiety and fear in my heart could not be expressed in words. I could only walk alone for this short few dozen meters. I still have tears in my eyes when I think about it, and I really can't help but want to explain my funeral arrangements. So when I saw this, my eyes were blurred with tears. Well. Thanks to the author for allowing me to read excellent works, reflect on myself, live life, look forward, and face it positively! 2024.7.16

It's a pretty good novel. There is no absolute right or wrong about things in life, and home is not a place to be reasonable. Some things have different standpoints and different understandings, and they all have good intentions, so there is no absolute right or wrong. The author is very rational, and the writing is also in line with the reality of life. The writing is good and there is a sense of substitution. I give the author a big thumbs up 👍 and hope to continue to write better works.

It is a very down-to-earth book. The descriptions of each character in the book are very full and delicate, with flesh and blood, the plot is very immersive, and the wording is appropriate. It is one of the few good works I have read.

It is very well written. Marriage is not a matter of two people. It is always two families. No one is perfect. They are all rubbing against each other and tolerating each other. It is a book that is very close to life. It describes a series of trivial matters of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother and daughter, and second marriage. This is probably what ordinary people will experience.

Parents' shortcomings are common stories in life. They are very kind and true. The author's writing is good, and the characters are vivid and attractive!

The writing is very good. Each "mother-in-law" has experienced a different era, so each has a different perception of sex, which makes their attitude towards their daughter-in-law also different! Overall, the two young male characters described in the book are very good. In reality, many men simply cannot be so considerate of their lovers! Personally, I like a mother-in-law like Liu Hong very much. Although she talks nonsense, her love and actions for her family are real! Whenever her son's little family has a need, she is the first to show up. Although her old-school ideas conflict with her daughter-in-law, she is kind-hearted and does not hold grudges! Anne is also a very good daughter-in-law. Although she was unwilling to live with her mother-in-law at first, she would solve it when something happened, and she would gradually grow up, and the two of them understood each other! In a family, there will always be bumps and bruises, but the family will understand each other, and overall it's great!

The author depicts the characters with penetrating detail and reflects the reality of contemporary society. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, who are not related by blood but are related by love, is an objective fact that a family cannot avoid. Fortunately, as long as the man is responsible, the ending will be happy.

It mainly focuses on the Du family and depicts the different views on family, marriage and values ​​of the three generations of ancestors and grandchildren, as well as the conflicts and collisions in life under the influence of these concepts. The plot is rich and tortuous, and each character is three-dimensional and vivid, basically a shadow of the people around us. The writing is simple and beautiful. The author's observation of life is really meticulous, and it also combines his own understanding and perception of life. Some of the words are very philosophical, fascinating and thought-provoking. I am currently experiencing the situation of living with my mother-in-law after giving birth to a baby, and I am also exploring ways to live in harmony. This book has given me a lot of inspiration. This is a very good book and worth recommending.

The writing is so wonderful, and the human nature is vividly written. After reading it, I felt that it was not enough, and it compared with life. Many mothers-in-law are like Liu Hong. Like a little sun burning silently to illuminate your family and the people around you. My mother-in-law is such a person. He works silently and frugally, but he is also very willing to care for his sons and grandsons with all his heart and soul. I feel wronged and sad, and sometimes I feel better. To be fair, I feel better than 90% of the mothers-in-law around me. But there are no good words in his mouth, and he often speaks out to suppress children and criticize, which makes people feel uncomfortable. I like intersex people, but after a long time, I can only turn a deaf ear, and unpleasant words go out in one ear and out the other. Who wants to have to work hard to take care of the children? Give her more things during the New Year and holidays, and care about her more. People's hearts are full of flesh, and it will be easiest for everyone to get along with each other.

The author writes so well! ! Almost all the characters created can find prototypes from their own lives [covering face], which is very representative. The unsatisfactory life, minor setbacks, conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and other trivial matters are presented by the author in a gentle and kind way. The friction and quarrels in marriage and family are real, but it is also practical for the protagonists to understand and compromise with each other. The happy ending often seems abrupt, but it is just right for the story line of this book. It allows readers to see the protagonist's family conflicts and at the same time feel the good side of human nature: the beauty of human nature that does not escape when faced with life compromises, and remains optimistic when trapped.

I feel quite realistic, especially this mother-in-law. In fact, the description is very three-dimensional, and it feels like it can be found everywhere in reality, so it is easy to get involved when watching it.

Life is ordinary. In real life, parents are short-sighted and self-aware. The writing is very real [top post]

It is a rare masterpiece, the characters are deeply portrayed, and the daily life of ordinary people is vividly and realistically described! Especially the mother-in-law, who is kind, enthusiastic, and mean. She also has no sense of boundaries when getting along with others. When she was young, she could not get the love and protection of her husband. She was very miserable and wanted to pass it on to her own daughter-in-law. However, she was able to listen to other people's advice in life and slowly changed herself. The ending was quite good.

It's very good. The characters have distinct personalities, the plot is detailed and logical, and each person's growth environment, psychology, and views on things are expressed very delicately. The parents are short-sighted but broad-minded. Is a good book

Although it is not an excellent literary work, it is a good textbook on how to get along with family members. It is popular and down-to-earth, and is in line with the current social status quo. However, the author is too kind, and the characters are all based on their good nature. At least the weaknesses of human nature are weakened. The male Alexander after marriage is also blurred in the book. Of course, this is not convenient to expand on. After all, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are the key tasks. I feel that it is suitable to recommend to female friends who are considering marriage and mothers who are about to become mother-in-law. Watch less poisonous chicken soup to prevent husbands from changing their hearts [laughing]

The character descriptions are very vivid and not exaggerated. They are all trivial matters of the parents. You can't help but bring your own life into it, and unconsciously analyze the things and people around you. It is suitable for unmarried women to learn more about Chinese-style families and think more about choices when facing marriage.

Things often go wrong in life. There is no absolute right or wrong. Walk through the daily collisions and feel the different fireworks in the world. The characters have distinct personalities, just like the aunts, mothers-in-law, uncles, and aunts around them. They are kind and touching, and they unknowingly heal the small frictions in the family. Thank you, the author, for recommending this book.

This book is like a candle. After reading it, my heart will be clear. Many things in life that are unclear between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and are expressed as pretentious but not frustrating, are clearly analyzed in the book. I hope every woman who has entered marriage can read it. Some small chapters and small twists and turns in it may appear in life. There is no white and rich beauty here. Du Juan, who has an independent personality, also had a childhood that she couldn't look back on. Anne, who grew up like a little princess, also suffered from the failure of her parents' investment. This is not a cool novel, this is a guide for women to grow up in marriage.

It is a book that becomes more and more beautiful the more I read it. It contains stories about parents and family, the atmosphere of fireworks, and the love and hatred between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The description is true and delicate. Life in the world is always full of stumbling blocks. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can never become mother and daughter, but they can become relatives [love] [love] [love].