New Transmigrator: Hey, experts, how should I spend my points at the start after transmigrating? Should I put them into Strength or Spirit?
Dong Lian'an: Max out your Charm first, then put the rest wherever!
New Transmigrator: But that won't give me any combat power!
Dong Lian'an: Who needs combat power? You only want to get stronger so you can find a good wife, right? Put points into Charm, and she'll come looking for you!
(A feel-good power fantasy)