Thoughts on Sex

The themes discussed in this novel are far-reaching, and the author's ethnographic research is deep. Anthropologists are all monsters, but they are very attractive. They study people, and they get involved in their studies, because they are also human beings. No matter what, they can't transcend their own species. Even if they see it from a God's perspective, they still have to experience it from a human perspective... This is a tragedy. Tragedies are all caused by greed, and curiosity is also greed [smirk] [snicker] [snicker]

The description of the matriarchal society is very shocking, and the psychological description of men's unremitting pursuit of women's body is very real!

The world of Jima Mountain is a fair "Utopia" and in reality, the "Peach Blossom Land" in the hearts of many people. The author strives to describe a dream world that exists in his heart and is pursued by many people at the bottom of society. There is sunshine, freedom, tranquility and fairness everywhere, and people live in harmony and coexistence, eliminating a realistic male-dominated symbolic identity of "father". It is precisely because Chaobai tried his best to possess these male privileges, but was finally destroyed by the "son" that he wanted or briefly possessed! I think it is a novel that criticizes reality and is thought-provoking.

A tragedy caused by a fake "love". Lu Jie is a scumbag and a scumbag, and Yu Chaobai is a scumbag. The third son became a good man and gave birth to a son for the so-called love. The third son came to power and the scumbag cheated with only 0 and 1. The fourth son (Fang Ling) was bound to appear. The third son discovered the fourth son, and the third son cheated on her (Dr. Liu) to take revenge on the scumbag man, and the scumbag woman's true nature was fully revealed. When Wuer (Su Linlin) appeared, Saner couldn't bear it anymore. The scumbag man and scumbag girl quarreled because of Wuer. The scumbag man and scumbag girl's son (Yu Yousheng) took on everything and left them due to a car accident. When Jima Shan Liu'er (Zer Zhu) appeared, it was a matriarchal society and there was no word "dad". The scumbag tried to secretly take away his and Liu'er's flesh and blood (Ze Yu). Karma came when his own son (Ze Yu) personally punctured the tires of their life-saving tool for crossing the river, and gave the scumbag a knife in the abdomen to let him float out of the water. In the end, when the scumbag woman carried the scumbag man's ashes across the river, the scumbag woman broke away from the life-saving equipment and wanted to die for her love. But when death came, he heard the voice of the man (Zel Che) who was interested in her. The scumbag woman hesitated whether to reach out to survive. The novel ends here, leaving suspense. Personally, I think that since she is a scumbag, she will not follow the scumbag man, but will extend her life's hand, survive, move on to the next relationship, and satisfy her body's chemical reaction...

This book seriously explores the relationship and contradiction between sex and love, sex and responsibility, and sexual greed and exclusivity. The book explains that, in general, only with love can you have a wonderful sex life; sex life is associated with responsibilities in society. In matrilineal society, sexual responsibilities are mainly borne by the mother, in patrilineal society, mainly by the father, and in modern society, both couples share the responsibilities; the party with the dominant economic position is greedy for more in sex life, and the economically disadvantaged party is exclusive. There is a certain truth in what is said in the book, which is worthy of people's reflection.

Very practical, easy to understand, transparent and thorough! Very meaningful!

The male protagonist is a scholar who yearns for polygamy. He likes novelty and excitement and does not want to be bound by a marriage contract. The female protagonist is a doctor who fell in love with a married man. Zhisan was betrayed by her husband (male protagonist) many times after her third marriage, so she tried to betray and punish the other party. At the same time, she also unintentionally punished herself. The two lost their four-year-old son. The male protagonist goes to the walking marriage tribe in Jima Mountain to look for his Oh Ye and wants to take her and her son away. The female protagonist realizes that she cannot do without the male protagonist and follows her. In the end, the two tasted loss again. The title of the book is indeed more suitable to be called "Nvlou".

It's a book worth reading. It's very profound, but the story and characters are well written. I think different people will have different insights and feelings in different situations, at different times, and in different moods (personal opinion, don't comment if you don't like it)

Matriarchal society was originally a product of low productivity. In today's developed society, there are still places like this deep in some places. Some people say this is a paradise, but this is beautified in the book. The child does not know his father, only his uncle, "his mother's uncle". What roles do men and women play in this? Why does a woman have multiple men? Everything is just procreation. Without children as a bond, there is nothing left. Men are strong, work as bodyguards, and hunt, while women take care of the house. A matriarchal society should be said to be a "mother" society, which worships fertility. Moreover, there are no advanced medical treatments, mobile phones, refrigerators... In the end, the couple is separated by yin and yang, the child dies first, and the man is in conflict, but he is the source of the tragedy. The selfish man paid the price with his life in the primitive tribe.

Narrated with stories, it brings strong speculation. Much like Siddhartha. In this book, I saw: Accept it subconsciously and take it for granted. (Under the order, I was brainwashed unknowingly) A marriage cannot be sustained by relying on love alone. What matters more is responsibility. Get together, get together when it's time to get together; stay away, leave when it's time to stay apart. (It is sad that marriage has become a prison) It turns out that being out of reach is really a good choice. (It has been diluted, but it has not been seen, and I will not be tired)

A topic that is serious enough to survive, and at the same time, a mysterious tribe full of contradictions and great love.

The plot of the story has ups and downs, and the author's writing skills are reflected between the lines.

I really want to change the title of the book, let's call it "The Girl's House on Jima Mountain" [laughing]

Jima Mountain may be a place where everyone wants to live, but they can't let go of their possessiveness.

His writing style is very good, he can write poetic prose and tell touching stories. I don't know why, but this seemingly beautiful and romantic story brings me a sense of depression and heaviness. The author is discussing a major question, but of course there is no perfect answer...

This book is very frank and serious, summarizing the various ways of expressing emotions that exist in human beings, and boldly puts them on the page for everyone to read, think, and understand. .

This is a great book. The logic is compact and the language is beautiful. The unique narrative method makes people want to stop.

Very beautiful, wonderful writing style and unique style.

A very nice book.

Beautiful and thought-provoking

I also visited walking marriage areas along the Jinsha River, from Lugu Lake to Xichang, but I didn't see any beautiful women in the places I went. Most of them were dark and fat. I really didn't have the motivation to knock on the windows.

The portrayal of the characters' inner thoughts is very vivid and delicate, and the writing style is great!

The plot has ups and downs and is fascinating

Not bad, a book worth reading that can make people think

Very in-depth analysis

Very thoughtful! The definition of love!

Very cool piece of work.

The writing is very good, but the content is rare

You can still read this book

The institution of marriage deserves deep thought. Is monogamy still appropriate? Can matrilineal society be implemented? I will have deep thoughts after reading this.