We are always surrounded by many goals, many role models, and many encouragements, forcing ourselves to keep moving forward. When we are hit by failure again and again, why can't we choose to let ourselves go bravely? Why can't we realize our own strengths and potential instead of listening to external voices?
The author of this book found through research that letting yourself go requires long-term courage rather than instantaneous motivation. We need grit and courage: the courage to think, speak, act, invent, express our unique selves, and the courage to overcome obstacles that stand in our way.
In this book, the author gives a new meaning to "let yourself go": letting yourself go is not being willful, but creating more positive meaning for life. This book helps us recognize internal and external obstacles and see the obstacles that are holding us back, obstacles that we may not even be aware of. Only by integrating into society with an attitude of daring to explore and rediscovering the positivity, enthusiasm, curiosity and creativity in nature can we make life more meaningful.
Reader comments
This book is like a friend who understands me. It tells me to let myself go and not always compare myself with others. The author's words are very warm and made me feel relaxed and healed while reading. The ideas in the book are also very novel, and it made me think about how to better utilize my strengths and potential. I think this is a very inspiring book and recommend it to everyone!
Read on 2024.11.24
I learned a lot of conceptual things from this book. All in all, it is to learn to regulate yourself, control your own life, be your own protagonist, your truest self. Learned the principle of psychological comparison. Oettingen, a psychology professor at New York University, invented the "Psychological Comparison Law", which is a very effective method for sorting yourself out, clarifying goals, establishing goals, implementing actions, and achieving goals. It allows us to find out among the many desires and goals that we want to do many things, the most important, the most realistic goals that can really change our current situation, and then defeat them one by one according to the priority of the goals, and finally overcome obstacles to better implement actions. Then enrich yourself, turn yourself into what you like, and raise yourself again as a child. Think more when you encounter things and don't be a slave to your emotions. You still have a lot to learn. I hope you will get better and better in the future. I also hope that the babies in front of the screen can also meet your best selves. Then your best selves are the best gifts from God. [Blow a kiss] [Blow a kiss] [Blow a kiss] Don't slack off, every day can be wonderful, don't waste your time, rush! Study, study, study! Hehehe come on!
This book is like a friend who understands me. It tells me to let myself go and not always compare myself with others. The author's words are very warm and made me feel relaxed and healed while reading. The ideas in the book are also very novel, and it made me think about how to better utilize my strengths and potential. I think this is a very inspiring book and recommend it to everyone!
Read on 2024.11.24 I learned a lot of conceptual things from this book. All in all, it is to learn to regulate yourself, control your own life, be your own protagonist, your truest self. Learned the principle of psychological comparison. Oettingen, a psychology professor at New York University, invented the "Psychological Comparison Law", which is a very effective method for sorting yourself out, clarifying goals, establishing goals, implementing actions, and achieving goals. It allows us to find out among the many desires and goals that we want to do many things, the most important, the most realistic goals that can really change our current situation, and then defeat them one by one according to the priority of the goals, and finally overcome obstacles to better implement actions. Then enrich yourself, turn yourself into what you like, and raise yourself again as a child. Think more when you encounter things and don't be a slave to your emotions. You still have a lot to learn. I hope you will get better and better in the future. I also hope that the babies in front of the screen can also meet your best selves. Then your best selves are the best gifts from God. [Blow a kiss] [Blow a kiss] [Blow a kiss] Don't slack off, every day can be wonderful, don't waste your time, rush! Study, study, study! Hehehe come on!