From love to wrong love, from hesitation to choice, from expectation to panic, from sweetness to betrayal... In fact, these all depend on ourselves. What kind of love to choose, what kind of person to marry, how to run a good marriage and stay away from harm, the initiative is also in our own hands.
We should actively change, practice, and improve ourselves to improve our ability and skills to love. At the same time, actively look for effective ways to achieve a happy marriage. In this way, neither the seven-year itch nor the ten-year pain will come, and your life can be filled with sunshine and flowers in bloom.
Reader comments
This book mentioned many practical issues about marriage and gave me a deeper understanding of marriage. As Qian Zhongshu said, marriage is like a besieged city. People inside want to get out, and people outside want to get in. The views in the book are very novel. It tells us that we must learn to change ourselves and improve our ability to love in order to have a happy marriage. This reminds me of Jane in "Jane Eyre", who also found her own happiness while growing up. I think this book is very suitable for newly married girls to read and will inspire a lot.
Love, or affection, is always the basis for a marriage to be maintained. Although the other party has made mistakes and lost his way, as long as you give the other party tolerance and understanding and call back the other party's love, you can save the crisis in your marriage.
Aware of beyond cognition
Speak well, don't let bad emotions affect your rationality, deal with it calmly, and express your emotional needs and life needs well
Read by Tuesday, December 3, 2024.
I feel that this book is pretty good, with clear layers, cases and laws, and sound evidence. Recommend.
It describes a lot of problems between couples, all of which are real-life, and is very beneficial.
Does not solve the actual problem
The examples are simple and common, and worth a look.
It helped me understand what I wanted. It's a very good book, down to earth, simple and easy to understand✊
The examples are very down-to-earth, hahaha, I like it, it's easy to read!
This book mentioned many practical issues about marriage and gave me a deeper understanding of marriage. As Qian Zhongshu said, marriage is like a besieged city. People inside want to get out, and people outside want to get in. The views in the book are very novel. It tells us that we must learn to change ourselves and improve our ability to love in order to have a happy marriage. This reminds me of Jane in "Jane Eyre", who also found her own happiness while growing up. I think this book is very suitable for newly married girls to read and will inspire a lot.
Love, or affection, is always the basis for a marriage to be maintained. Although the other party has made mistakes and lost his way, as long as you give the other party tolerance and understanding and call back the other party's love, you can save the crisis in your marriage.
Aware of beyond cognition Speak well, don't let bad emotions affect your rationality, deal with it calmly, and express your emotional needs and life needs well
Read by Tuesday, December 3, 2024. I feel that this book is pretty good, with clear layers, cases and laws, and sound evidence. Recommend.
It describes a lot of problems between couples, all of which are real-life, and is very beneficial.
Does not solve the actual problem
The examples are simple and common, and worth a look.
It helped me understand what I wanted. It's a very good book, down to earth, simple and easy to understand✊
The examples are very down-to-earth, hahaha, I like it, it's easy to read!