Why Is It That Someone Is Always One Step Ahead of Me in Rebirth?

In her previous life, Shen Jiaojiao was just like her mother. She was taught to be dignified, virtuous and virtuous, and to put her husband first, so she spent her whole life as a "mudden man". At that time, Shen Jiaojiao didn't understand why she didn't end up well despite following her mother's words. It was only when I was about to die from a difficult childbirth that I realized that my life was a joke. After reviving her life, she no longer wants to be a "wooden person". She wants to have a different life. She wants the people who harmed her in her previous life to be punished as they deserve. But why does it go so smoothly every time?