Why did you get married?
I once got married to complete a mission.
For a while, I thought I could put up with anything as long as I achieved my goal.
I was obsessed with it for ten years.
Later, I married out of a sense of responsibility, hoping we could live as though neither of us owed the other anything. But how easy is it to keep score in a marriage?
It took the rest of our lives together for me to finally understand what he meant when he agreed to an even-split marriage.