Miss Pear Gets Along with Herself

It's quite suitable for women to watch. Women think. Young women can read more. Be less love-minded. A reflection on life. It's not about right or wrong. Especially in the few years after I came out of society, many confusing points were found in the book. Family of origin, marriage. About respect. About loving yourself. About status. Interesting. Some words hit the nail on the head. But life is more complicated. Not everyone's script is the same. So let's see if that's okay. Substitution is not necessary. Something.

Ms. Lizi used her personal experience to make me feel too much empathy. When she was asking questions, I couldn't help but ask myself, are the views we know the same as what we think and recognize? When she was experiencing pain, I seemed to feel the pain too. Being framed and restricted seemed to have no choice. When she realized and understood herself, I felt as if I also knew a little more about myself. The plot and links set by the author at the end peel off Miss Pear's external frame little by little, from social opinions, values, family expectations, etc., And finally get the pure self. It's really not easy. Some of the contents in it are worth thinking about carefully. It's a very good book.

Infp Aquarius, like Miss Pear, I suffer from internal friction, self-torture, always live in fantasy, and worry about the future. I didn't remember anything after reading it, but thank you for this book that resonated with me and made me change. Happy New Year!

Although I didn't seem to remember anything in my mind after reading it. But it influenced me in a subtle way. This is the best book I have ever read, because it sharpened the paranoia in my heart and slowly let it go, making me feel relaxed and happy.

It's like having a conversation with myself, and the process of finding myself is very healing. Some new concepts have broken the concepts that have been implanted in my body. I am re-recognizing myself, listening to myself, and constructing myself, which has brought a lot of comfort and strength to me who was frustrated and frustrated.

I originally thought it was just a book about female self-improvement, but after reading it, I felt that this was a book that could be read by people who were trapped by modern civilization and moneyism and suffered from it. Compared with "Walden", which was too obscure and difficult to understand, this book has the same concept, which is primitive naturalism, but it is easier to read and has a more novel perspective. It incorporates a lot of psychology, feminist liberation and other ideas, which made me enlightened. I highly recommend everyone to read it.

The society we live in now is almost exactly the same as the insect island where Miss Riko lives. We are all bound by the invisible chain of social rules, thinking that the goals under the public rules are our own goals. But your own heart will tell you what you really think. So we torture ourselves internally and always feel unhappy. Through the life of Miss Pear, we can understand what we are struggling with and what we really think. It's not what other people tell you over time, that's not the real you. Find your true self. Find your own freedom.

"Even if we don't have Buddha Island or Fish Island in real life, we can't let the place we are in turn into an insect island and crush us. Cherish the moment and live well, and everything will get better." This is an unpredictable book, and the more you read, the more you become immersed in it. Lizi, who is crushed by the social environment, has been bound by the so-called life goals of the Insect Islanders since he was a child because he is an Insect Islander. People on this island work hard every day, working day and night, pursuing their so-called personal success. But do these things really count as "life"? So what is life? Is it because we work hard, pursue success, and are so busy that we ignore our physical and mental health? I don't think so. But on Insect Island, this kind of life has become the norm. Rich people will get better and better, but what about people in the middle and lower classes? They work hard, but in the end they often end up being plotted, slandered, and deceived, and they never make a name for themselves. The relationship between people is just a bond of interests, and there is no so-called real feelings at all. People will do whatever it takes to achieve their own interests, while people in the middle and lower classes can only grit their teeth and endure silently. This has been Lizi's situation since she was a child: she must study hard, find a good job, find a partner, get married and have children. These things seem to be tasks on a life list that must be completed one by one. Apart from this, it seems that you cannot have other interests and hobbies, otherwise it will be considered as "not doing your job properly". However, can such a lifestyle really make people happy? Lizi's dilemma lasted until her grandmother left. Grandma is the person closest to Li Zi, even closer than her mother. The death of her grandmother was a huge blow to Lizi. She felt even more lonely and was about to lose even the house she had lived in since she was a child. This series of changes made her completely collapsed and unable to cheer up, until she met "Mark" - a soft, smart cat who can also talk! From then on, Li Zi began her journey to Buddha Island. On Buddha Island, she was full of praise for the beautiful scenery, mountains and flowing water. Although she couldn't stay on Buddha Island for long, every time she went there, her troubles and confusion seemed to be "charged" and healed. After chatting with Mr. Fo and Mark, Lizi was able to slowly unravel the obstacles that she couldn't figure out or overcome. There is also a good friend "Raki" in Lizi's life who she has known since childhood. Lucky is a well-off woman, pursued by men and successful in her career, and her life seems to be full of glory. But is she really happy? I don't know. Sadly, Lucky ends up betraying Riko and hurting her feelings. What's worse is that this friendship makes Riko understand that the so-called mutual support and mutual reliance between friends and sisters are actually nothing but falsehood. In the face of interests, Lucky chose to use Lizi instead of cherishing this relationship. Riko, who was betrayed by her friend, fell into distress again and was completely disappointed in this friendship. She went to Buddha Island again and discussed many issues with Mr. Buddha. Buddha Island is not a place that just anyone can adapt to, but Li Zi is particularly suitable to live there. Therefore, the people on the island gave her a letter of invitation, allowing her to stay and be herself. However, there is still a place she longs for in her heart - Fish Island. It was the beautiful island her surfing instructor had mentioned. Between Fish Island and Buddha Island, Li Zi needs to make a choice. Finally, she decided to witness for herself whether the fish island described by the coach was really as beautiful as he said. She went to Fish Island and lived a free life, doing many things she wanted to do, enjoying the present, and no longer being bound by the anxiety of the future. She also met Mark again on Fish Island. This ending is so heartwarming and beautiful. There is also an Easter egg in the book: Pear is not the biological child of his parents. She discovered this secret from her grandmother's diary when she was cleaning up her room. At the same time, she also learned from the diary the various hardships her grandmother had experienced during her lifetime. Grandma's experience is heartbreaking. If Lizi had not left the insect island, perhaps her fate would have been as rough as her grandmother's.

After reading this book, I feel like I have gained a new life like Miss Riko. Like Lizi, I have always been subject to the rules of society, the expectations of my parents or the shackles I put on myself. I have locked myself deeply into the endless abyss. I have not seen the light for a long time. Internal friction is constantly eroding me. Fear surrounds me. It becomes difficult for me to even breathe. I am sorry. Every moment I live in the past and the future, but I do not live in the present. When I followed Miss Lizi throughout my life, I could actually begin to experience the happiness of the moment. My endless thoughts suddenly disappeared. I jumped out of the cognition I had set. My world finally became quiet, and my breathing began to become longer. The steps I stepped on the ground were like a deep embrace and kiss between my feet and the ground. Every step was so powerful. I started not to distinguish but just realized that I had been distinguishing for too long and I didn't want to continue to distinguish. I live for the social label and my mission. The meaning of living is the present, every moment. I don't think about the pain of the past or the future life. I just live in the present. This feeling makes my heavy soul learn to fly over the mountains. I experienced this feeling once when I was climbing Mount Tai. I didn't care about the top of the mountain because I knew it was there and never left, so I just enjoyed every step under my feet and fully felt the happiness and miracle of the moment. Slowly, a smile appeared on my face. It was an extremely enjoyable physical and mental journey. Some people thought I was crazy and exclaimed when they saw me reaching the top of the mountain easily. Because I carry nothing. I am worthy, worthy of experiencing everything I feel about life. At this moment, even the dust in the air has become lovely, and everything has its own meaning. What a lucky and happy thing it is to encounter a good book. I am grateful to the author for his writing. This is a refreshing journey and a shock to the soul.

A very surprising book. When I read the title at first, I thought it was about the author's ordinary daily life, but I didn't expect it to be so fantastic and thought-provoking. The book tells many profound truths through the mouths of Yatu and Marco, and has some new angles to look at the problem. It is very speculative. Many of the contents are also applicable to today's modern life, and can give some enlightenment to people who are confused in life. The content in the book can be read frequently, and it will probably be read frequently. I also hope that after reading this book, we can find our own fish island as soon as possible.

Look at it! A must see! A must see! Discover yourself, be aware of yourself!

"Of course, it's easy for the brain to fool you, but it's hard to fool the brain. The brain will only support your truest thoughts." "Unconditionally accept yourself, unconditionally accept others, and unconditionally accept life." "Ah ha, actually there is no need to rush to give yourself the answer. We have a saying in Buddha Island: We must get used to living comfortably without answers." "It's good to have answers, but not having answers is the normal state of life. People are always obsessed with the sense of security that answers bring, but life is long and complicated, and it cannot be explained with just a few answers. Be a patient observer, and the answers will naturally find you."

"I seem to have inherited my grandmother's life in another way. She got rid of the unrealistic dependence on this society and threw herself into endless spiritual exploration. But I got rid of the shackles of the past and the future and became a primitive free soul. The life I chose tells me: my freedom has nothing to do with the world."

It's been a long time since I've explored a book like this so heartily and happily (for this book, "read" is not enough), even though I've only finished a third of it (it's so good that I can't bear to finish it), I can't help but comment. The content of this book is really interesting! It can resonate deeply with people's emotions. The author seems to have the ability to read minds. As a reader, I had doubts as I read, and the following sections will clear up my doubts. The expressions are also great (I really like the scene where I often see the sun and moon through the clouds. The author can actually describe these two scenes so accurately and romantically in the article: the sun on the back breaks up the clouds; the huge full moon breaks through the clouds). There are also many cute and naughty expressions... This book has been on my bookshelf for some time, but I just started reading it yesterday. In fact, I think the title of the book is far less interesting than the content. Hehe, although the title of the book is also very appropriate. All in all, this book is a treasure! Get my life! [Learned]

I first saw it in Xiaohongshu and thought about it. Because of my female identity, I was immediately attracted to it. Lizi reflects some things in the real world in an illusory world. No matter what, the most important thing is to save yourself, and the second is the second.

The book of life. I didn't expect that the first book I read in 2025 would bring me such a great touch, shock, and enlightenment. I didn't expect that the issue that had been bothering me for so long would be solved by the author in such an easy-to-understand and delicate writing style. There is no such feeling of sudden enlightenment. At different stages, I will continue to read it again and again.

It is very philosophical but not boring at all. It is easy to read. Many things that have been confusing for a long time seem to find explanations here. The modified loneliness is named Le Gua Le Chong. I can't help but wonder if all the questions that bother you can be answered from the question itself. Only by returning to the origin can we understand.

It is beneficial to open the book. This book is very good. It told me what freedom is. Three unconditional acceptances will make you happier if you can do it. At the same time, this book also made me grow. At first, I felt a little unhappy that Lucky deceived Lizi and painted a pie for Lizi, because the other party trusted you so much and was your childhood friend, but he could only share the pain. Later, when I thought about it more, I realized that the people from Lachi were actually really nice people. They taught Lizi a lesson and taught Lizi a lesson, which is to always dispel charm, be cautious in doing things, and be on guard against those around you. As a saying goes, if I observe things with my own eyes, they all have my own color. What is your attitude towards the world will be the world's attitude towards you. Think more about what you have and what is left, rather than what you have lost. People should focus more on the present, rather than having too many fantasies about the future and taking a chance. At the same time, don't care too much about other people's opinions, don't become the ideal self in other people's minds, but become your true self. Don't feel pressured into making a choice you regret. Sometimes the secular is not necessarily right. No matter what you suffer, never forget your original intention, retain your own innocence, and at the same time enrich your inner world and prevent your soul from becoming dry. Spiritual wealth will make you happy for a lifetime. At the same time, your unfortunate native family may not necessarily become your shadow, but may more likely become your motivation, which will enhance your ability to withstand stress in your future life as a cow and horse. What doesn't kill you will eventually make you stronger!

It's very interesting, the first part is realistic, the second part is a bit absurd... In fact, it's a bit unreal if the cat can talk, but the introduction of the insect island in the second part makes the story bizarre. Lizi is unemployed, lost in love, and has no place to live. His boyfriend Disen is really capable and has relationships with three outstanding women. This shows that while you are excellent, you must not let go of your knowledge of human nature and worldliness, and you must not be deceived by the appearance of a scumbag. Cici was actually very good, but her family of origin was so bad that she was unable to resist and could only resist in the name of hatred, and finally left in hatred. Although Lin Daisi has a good family background, she is still self-reliant and self-reliant. She once regarded Lizi as a role model, and finally told Lizi about Cici's despicable behavior. Li Zi is very good, she can carve candles 🕯️, and her sales work is also very good. She met the cute cat Marco and the master of puzzle solving. Lucky is a villain but also a decent person. Sister Lucky puts her own interests first, no matter what the means, she sacrifices Lizi's friendship and strives to climb the ladder. Everyone's goals are different, she is really desperate. Grandma, on the other hand, suffered all her life, and finally did what she loved, reading, and at the same time brought soul cleansing to her granddaughter. Lizi's mother, how should I put it, didn't understand and didn't love her daughter in the early stage, so Lizi had a conflict with her, and the conflict kept intensifying, but finally she slowly got better. Lizi gave her grandmother's diary to her mother, and also transferred the money she earned from publishing fees to her mother.

This book has a lot of refreshing ideas for me. For example, opinions are just opinions. If no one gives them meaning, they are nothing. In fact, many times people are bound by their own ideas and opinions, and your advantages happen to be your shortcomings. The book repeatedly talks about "freedom" and Miss Pear's way out, pursuing yourself and becoming your true self. There is a saying that actually allows you to accept everything. It does not allow you to tolerate everything, but allows you to be your truest self. Dare to love or hate, I think it is suitable for me to study and study. This book is worth reading. You will see that there are many novel angles and it is worth chewing carefully.

This book explores the meaning of life through the description of three lifestyles. Insect Island advocates utilitarianism, everything is measured by money and status, and ignores the construction of the inner world. Competition between people is fierce and life pressure is huge; Fo Island advocates rationalism and encourages the ultimate pursuit of the spiritual world. For people who cannot transcend the world, they do not hesitate to use virtual reality. The fish island represents naturalism and advocates the harmonious coexistence between man and nature. It is neither as materialistic as the insect island nor as spiritual as the Buddhist island. It shows that human beings can rely on nature to survive with low material desires and absorb energy from nature to obtain spiritual satisfaction. In the end, Lizi chose this kind of life and achieved physical and mental freedom. In fact, no matter where we are, as long as we learn to get along with ourselves and listen to the true inner voice, we can find a lifestyle that suits us.

A book that transcends reality precisely because most people in the real world were Miss Pear in the past, and few people will become Miss Pear today. It is a book that can give adults who are coerced by desires a kind of comfort in the real world.

At first, I was only attracted by the name and rating of the book. With the idea of ​​trying it out, I found that it is a very friendly book for women. The psychological viewpoints covered throughout the book are also easy to understand and accept. It reads as if you are reading the story of two friends, which is very suitable for our current society and life. Highly recommended for every girl to read📖

I am a college student who is about to graduate and is quite confused right now. At the same time, I am in a very anxious stage, the kind of person who is not confused in their 20s. Facing social pressure, own pressure, etc., I feel uncomfortable and don't know what kind of life I want to live. But this book gave me a different view of the world, society, and myself. I like it very much.

We will eventually complete an eternal reconciliation with ourselves, others, and the world. On this unknown road, perhaps we will feel what true freedom is. "My freedom has nothing to do with the world." "Get used to living without answers." Please embark on the real path, see the true appearance of the world, and meet your true self.

I have my own understanding of individual views after reading them, and there is no wisdom that can represent 100% truth. The flaws are not hidden, and it is very beautiful. It is more suitable for ordinary people than watching pure theory like living in the moment. I highly recommend it. I am recharged after reading it. Recommended to friends

It took me two hours to read a book about women. After reading this book, my soul seemed to have escaped from something, an indescribable feeling, dizzy, confused, with a rainbow-like absurd color. Different people will have different feelings after reading it. What you can learn or not understand depends on what you have experienced.

It's a very good book that gives people a lot of reflection. Some of its views are very resonant. People should not live as a "person" in the eyes of others, but should put down heavy burdens to be themselves. Even if it is considered selfish, then sacrificing oneself is the so-called unselfishness. Isn't it tiring to live like this?

Miss Pear has reconciled with herself, I hope I can too

I have read more than half of this book, and it fully explained my confusion, hesitation, and at a loss. Maybe it's because I'm also half a butterfly, hahaha. But I am not as thorough as the author. The more I read, the more confused I become. The more I read, the more I want to chat with people, listen to other people's thoughts and other people's lives. But I can't seem to find it. Suddenly I don't want to read anymore, my mind is a mess, I don't want to receive information for the moment, I just want to find a place to spread out this mess. Check back later. However, you can take a look ~ maybe for you, it will clear up the clouds and reveal the moon in an instant.