The ability to form deep relationships with others is critical to our lives and work. When we are in a deep relationship, we feel completely understood and supported. However, sometimes we find it difficult to form deep relationships with others, or to cope with the challenges that inevitably arise when we become more intimate with others.
The reality is that all relationships are different, but most develop according to similar patterns. The process of building and maintaining deep relationships can be described, learned, and applied.
The content of this book is derived from the classic course "Interpersonal Interaction" of Stanford Business School for more than 50 years. The two authors apply the important core knowledge points of interpersonal psychology to five typical relationships - father and daughter, husband and wife, best friend, brother, and colleague. They explore the development process of relationships from shallow to deep, specify the six characteristics of deep relationships, make abstract relationship changes visible, and help readers establish deep relationships with family, friends, and colleagues that fully trust and achieve mutual success.
Reader comments
I finally finished reading the book Building Deep Relationships. The first feeling is that it is really not easy. I recalled that when I just read this book, I was still in the trouble of interpersonal relationships. In short, it was very rewarding. I read it for nearly a month and I really like the final epilogue: Finally, we would like to review Auguste Renoir's last words again: "I think I have begun to understand something about this." We wish you continuous progress and discovery throughout your life until the last moment. . In fact, I feel that for many things, just knowing part of them can be of great help to our growth and benefit us a lot. It does not mean that we have to be proficient in a certain field. We just dabble and learn extensively. Although we cannot choose to be proficient in any knowledge we know, we can contact and learn a lot from it with expectations and a mentality of exploration and learning. This process does not have to be in It doesn't matter how much we learn, because we are already absorbing knowledge at every moment of learning. Even if some things cannot be understood now, I believe that one day in the future, at a certain critical moment, it will suddenly pop out of my mind and give me inspiration.
Just like the book says, "All relationships are different, but most develop according to similar patterns." I thought of my best friend and I. We also went from strangers to familiarity to establishing a deep friendship. This book also provides many practical methods to help us build and maintain deep relationships, which I think will be helpful to everyone. For example, the "full trust" mentioned in the book is really important between friends. In short, I recommend everyone to read this book, you will definitely gain something!
The best book I've found so far this year
Very touching and practical
I have always felt that it is very important to establish effective links with others. This book is about intentional research and practice of deep relationships, which is very good!
There are cases and practical operations, which are easy to understand and can be applied in practice.
A very good book. I recommend it to everyone. I am deeply inspired.
I finally finished reading the book Building Deep Relationships. The first feeling is that it is really not easy. I recalled that when I just read this book, I was still in the trouble of interpersonal relationships. In short, it was very rewarding. I read it for nearly a month and I really like the final epilogue: Finally, we would like to review Auguste Renoir's last words again: "I think I have begun to understand something about this." We wish you continuous progress and discovery throughout your life until the last moment. . In fact, I feel that for many things, just knowing part of them can be of great help to our growth and benefit us a lot. It does not mean that we have to be proficient in a certain field. We just dabble and learn extensively. Although we cannot choose to be proficient in any knowledge we know, we can contact and learn a lot from it with expectations and a mentality of exploration and learning. This process does not have to be in It doesn't matter how much we learn, because we are already absorbing knowledge at every moment of learning. Even if some things cannot be understood now, I believe that one day in the future, at a certain critical moment, it will suddenly pop out of my mind and give me inspiration.
Just like the book says, "All relationships are different, but most develop according to similar patterns." I thought of my best friend and I. We also went from strangers to familiarity to establishing a deep friendship. This book also provides many practical methods to help us build and maintain deep relationships, which I think will be helpful to everyone. For example, the "full trust" mentioned in the book is really important between friends. In short, I recommend everyone to read this book, you will definitely gain something!
The best book I've found so far this year
Very touching and practical
I have always felt that it is very important to establish effective links with others. This book is about intentional research and practice of deep relationships, which is very good!
There are cases and practical operations, which are easy to understand and can be applied in practice.
A very good book. I recommend it to everyone. I am deeply inspired.