Ten Years of Life, 20 to 30 Years Old That You Cannot Live up To

It's a great book. As a person in his 20s, I feel that I have benefited a lot from two points of the future and the past, such as problems with electronic devices, excessive comparison, negative energy, uneasiness, and selling anxiety. There are also work issues and the bad relationship between men and women in modern society. I don't quite understand what's wrong with it. This book tells me that losing a wasted past is not terrible. The most terrible thing is losing the future. Thank you very much to the author

This book is really good! Dr. Meg Jay points out that your 20s are a critical time in adulthood, and I couldn't agree more. Just like I had just given birth to a baby, I know very well that at this stage I need to clarify my goals and work hard to pursue them. The tools and advice this book provides strengthen my belief in cherishing this time and building a solid foundation for the future. I would recommend it to my friends, especially those young people who are still confused, to help them better plan their lives.

First of all, every year of life should not be let down. Then, let's analyze the characteristics of 20-30 year olds: 1. The prefrontal cortex of the brain is fully developed around the age of 25; 2. Step out of campus and into the workplace, and continuously accumulate identity capital; 3. Intimate relationships, intimate relationships of encounter, choice, and management; .... These ten years are not only the end of youth, but also the important beginning of adulthood. The choices and accumulation made in these ten years will profoundly affect the future direction of life. [How to manage your own life] Will the future be good? The key is how you define "good"; There are no standard answers in life; There is no so-called "good" or "bad" in life, but there are "choices" and "results". This is the most essential sentence in the book in my opinion. If we just want to be happy, it's actually easy; But if we want to be happier than others, it will be a disaster; Because we always feel that others are happier. Summary Every choice and experience in life will affect the future trajectory of life. There is no time to waste, unless you want to. You can choose to explore yourself; You can choose to develop your career; You can choose to manage your relationship; You can also choose to enjoy every moment, take things as they come, and accept the chaos and disorder of life. Look at life from your own perspective; Don't adopt other people's definitions of good and bad.

The future is full of unknowns and infinite possibilities. Please seize the opportunity, seize the time, and start with the end in mind. Please enter the workplace, choose your family, create your own knowledge, understand yourself and the world. Have no regrets in your 20s. You are deciding your own life In other words: who we are affects what we do [35]; and what we do affects who we become. And so on. That's why when I meet former clients on the street who are in their 30s, I never judge them by how they were in their 20s. Because many things change over the years, and they change very quickly. .

I saw it on AP in the middle of the night and clicked in immediately. For me, who is about to turn 20, this book can really give me some inspiration. For example, you should focus on accumulating identity capital, proactively choosing your partner, handling social relationships well, not being controlled by mobile phones, taking care of your body, etc. A very effective way to grasp the future and become your ideal self is to write down what you want to be at a certain point in the future, and then push forward the timeline to determine what you need to do at each time to achieve your goal.

There are a lot of things to say, most of them are cases. What I learned after reading this is to make plans early and actually take action. The job you choose must have practical significance and can become your own capital to find your next job, rather than just simple physical labor. Making early plans includes many things, including career planning, including getting married and having children. The core for me is to face the problem head-on, not avoid it, plan well, and live a meaningful life.

You are deciding your own life. Every step we take now affects our future development trend. You can make plans now to avoid regretting not cherishing time when you are in your thirties. However, it is not too late to start now! ! ! You can learn a language and practice good calligraphy. You can add value to yourself and add value to your future self. Come on, do it for you and me!

I had some feelings, but it was not clear enough. I decided to read it again. I still didn't understand some parts well. I wanted to understand myself better.

In his 20s, he is exactly the age he is now. I really liked this TED talk before, but I didn't expect to see this book. I read it in one go and now have a clearer understanding of what to do in your 20s. Although it is still difficult to take action, only with new knowledge can you take new actions~ I wonder what I should do better now when I am 30 years old in a few years [Thinking]

In this day and age, young people in their 20s are not stereotyped as early as in the past. It seems that we have not really grown up. Many people have not had much contact with society until they are 22 years old after graduating from college, and their degree of socialization is relatively low. I feel confused and at a loss about my life. Sometimes when I look at the people around me, I feel that they are all making progress and getting better, but I am the only one who is stuck in the same place. Before we actually enter society, we always believe that we are pretentious and different. We feel that we are the protagonists of this world and that we will live an extraordinary life. Your life doesn't really begin until you truly step into society and realize that you are just an ordinary person, a small person among all living beings. Work, love, future Who am I, what kind of life do I want to live, who do I want to stay with, where do I want to live, what do I want to do... A lot of questions come to mind. If you feel suffocated and at a loss, then this book is tailor-made for you.

Life needs hope. It takes confidence and optimism that everything will get through. This book probably goes in another direction, it talks about preventing over-optimism. In short, life is all about moderation. Even in your 20s, the most promising and possible age, you must seize the most important time in your life. Be able to think carefully, understand, and plan your work, career, study, love, marriage (not necessarily), childbirth, etc. And their specific schedule. But perhaps the biggest difference for me is that I am still in college and have little understanding and practice of society. I am only 20 years old and do not have a clear idea of ​​what I want to do. Maybe you need to do more different jobs and interviews to find a direction and career that you are better at or are interested in.

This is a book worth reading, especially recommended for people of the same age (20-30 years old) who have no motivation or direction. There is no standard answer to this book, but in the process of reading, you may have your own answer. I paid attention to the question "What are the post-2000 dropouts doing" on a certain website. I am one of them, and I have been observing every answer. Some are making great achievements, and some are just lying down and enjoying themselves. I belong to the second type, but after reading this book, I feel that I have a new perspective to look at my life. Of course, I don't want to discuss right or wrong, after all, every choice is related to reality. Finally, regarding the content of this book, most of the visitors have more or less financial and ability foundations, so don't copy it easily. You need to consider realistic factors.

This book is a good book to listen to. It requires a little patience. Many chapters in the book are developed through dialogue and storytelling. It will be like a chicken soup novel. But after listening carefully, all the chapters are expanded and supplemented around the title of the book. Generally speaking, it is a work that can be read. It can be used to remind yourself to a certain extent, but it still depends on the individual. As for the other content in the book, it is not important.

It's okay. I can feel that the author of this book was thinking while writing. Although he said in the end that he started with the end in mind, some paragraphs feel like they can be placed in the right place. How can I put it? It's okay. It's relaxing and comfortable. I can also learn some knowledge. It's okay.

I was lucky enough to know this book at the age of 18 and after reading it carefully, I discovered that my previous thoughts were particularly dangerous. I thought that my 20s were a time to enjoy the world and life. I never calmed down and thought about what to do in the future, because I always thought about negative and anxious thoughts, trying to use pleasure to bury my uneasiness. Now I realize that I need to set goals from now, because who I am now determines who I will be in the future.

Reading this book gave me a wake-up call at the age of 23. Those issues that I had not considered before may be because I have a rebellious mentality towards my parents or the influence of Internet culture. They are all worthy of my rethinking what my needs are for a stable job, study, and marriage. I cannot blindly look at other people's opinions and let others think for me. I must return to myself to judge my own objective conditions, rather than expecting to suddenly get better one day. This requires planning and hard work in the past ten years from 20 to 30 years old.

While reading this book, in addition to being surprised that all my worries were recorded and solved in the book, I was also surprised that I, a 20-year-old in China, had almost the same worries as a 20-year-old in the United States! After all, the various real cases and data in the book are based on young people in their 20s in the United States. I discovered that despite cultural differences, long distances, different policies and systems, etc., We are so similar.

This is a book that perfectly fits the mentality of the 20-year-old me now. Many of my questions can be answered and helped in it. The way the story is told also keeps me reading in my free time

I have benefited a lot! I accidentally discovered this book in the middle of the night when I was suffering from insomnia, anxiety and irritability. The result was until nine o'clock the next day. For the time being, I am no longer anxious, irritable, or sleeping. [Eat melon]

After reading it, it gave me an opportunity and motivation to redeem myself. I had always been dissatisfied with my former self. I wanted to catch up with my peers, but I was afraid of not being able to catch up, and I didn't know what to do. It just so happens that in the second growth period of the twenties, it is the time to get up early and work hard at night, setting goals and fighting for it. First find a job that can provide me with identity capital. From this point of view, I can calmly deal with the challenges in work and life, continue to practice, gradually grow, and treat work and life like a veteran. I will accomplish my goals before October this year and have a birthday that is different from usual to celebrate my birthday. Begin with the end in mind.

I was in the confused stage of my twenties and thirties. I was suffering from headaches and wanted to switch employment tracks, so I came up with the original intention of reading this book. Although I have only read the first half and cannot make a detailed evaluation of the entire book, as far as the first half of the book is concerned, a lot of language touches my nerves, such as choosing a job that is beneficial to the future rather than wasting time on a job that cannot accumulate identity, and learning to tell stories, so as to increase the possibility of a successful interview.

A very interesting book with a lot to think about, but to be honest, this book will not bring any changes to my life at the moment. Maybe one day I will read it again because of certain problems.

It's pretty good. I'm grateful to my 22-year-old self for reading this book. To be honest, I don't like reading, and I always like to place my hopes on the future, but many of the chapters in this book are about having the courage to face reality and cherish time.

I read this book while preparing for the exam. It gave me a lot of comfort, helped me relieve some anxiety, and allowed me to better understand the reality and correct my mentality. Now that I am 22 years old, I am very lucky to read this book. I will read it again after completing the exam. [Learned]

It's very interesting and true. I hope everyone can discover and read this book earlier.

Come on for the 2026 college entrance examination. When I graduate from high school, I will read many of the books I have read again. I believe I will have different experiences and feelings. I must be a well-informed, knowledgeable, and knowledgeable person. Deeply cultivated in the professional field [currently working on a manuscript][currently working on a manuscript][currently working on a manuscript]

No regrets in making a move, traveling in the mountains and fields Writing a book for young people is inherently an extremely difficult task, without misleading or giving a fixed route. Young people generally need an answer urgently. There is no answer in the book, but it will give you a lot of stories and inspiration.

In my 20s, I don't know what my past ten years have been like. Like Ian, I am struggling in the sea. It seems that I can swim in every direction, but I don't know which direction to go. The twenty-year-old who grew up in anxiety and struggle...

At the age of 22, confused and anxious, as an adult, "What you should do is to declare that you are an adult, live your life with heart, find a serious job, choose your own family, calculate your future, and create your own sense of certainty. Don't let things you don't understand or do doom your future."

Life requires more thinking, more practical plans and implementation. Presumably, there is no extra time to worry when you are working hard. Every path for everyone is taken step by step. There is no ease, and there is no distinction between good and bad. Begin with the end in mind and have no regrets.